My own, personal opinions on all of the RoB talk. I'm only a little sorry that it's so long.
First off, when people make mistakes they CAN learn from them and change. I'm not saying that you have to forgive and forget, but repeatedly bringing up things that have been apologized for and amended is exhausting and unnecessary. Yes, the hairstyle thing was yikes (I didn't know about it until I read the messages here, admittedly) and I didn't like hearing about it. Especially with an actual POC being made to feel like their own knowledge/experience did not matter. I'm glad that they decided to make it an available trait for all. While that probably won't bring back people who were offended, the owners DO listen to their userbase and have practically begged us to tell them if something is wrong, unfair, confusing or upsetting. Their questions forum is always open for clarification and is not locked to only owners or admins to post in, but other users/players as well.
As someone who is fat and disabled, I am so tired of "fatphobic" and "ableism" being thrown around to the point that I grimace at the words. (Yeah, I know, I cannot speak for all fat and disabled people. This is just me.) It's really the biggest argument you're all clinging to at this point, from what I'm reading. Yes, all creatures can be fat, and it's strange to not allow it on the ML but hear me out… How many CS are just copy and paste bases of the exact same body lineart with different colors? Do you complain about all of those as viciously? Maybe I've just been around CS adoptable designers/shops for far too long. Does anyone else remember the Gaia B/C Pets forum, where there were hundreds/thousands of on-base characters and very rarely was it unique art? RoB is absolutely not the first or last ARPG that has a sort of "regulated" look for the ML images, while telling their users/buyers that they are welcome to portray their characters however they want once they own them. It is really not as serious and dramatic as you're all making it, I promise. They're not deer-adjacent (that would be Stygians!), their default shape is described as similar to, but not exactly the body of a cheetah.
The feral thing. Yeah, I get it. To a point. A lot of people don't like NSFW feral stuff and I am not about to call those people wrong for having dislikes and limits. I don't (often) kink shame, and I don't mock people who dislike kinks in general. What bothers me is that people are comparing them to real animals. I'm not talking "it's just a drawing" either, but the difference between sentient and sapient. Real beastiality is when a sapient individual SAs a sentient individual. The sentient one cannot communicate with the sapient and does not understand or consent to what is happening. RoB characters are sapient. They can speak and understand and have humanoid or higher level intelligence. They can say "yes" to things they are okay with and "no" to things that they are not okay with. Their bodies may not be of humanoid shape in part or whole, but their mentality is not the same as your pet dog or cat who simply cannot understand human language or communicate with us like another human. Not only the players, but the characters in this ARPG are adults, which is also very important.
I'm convinced that people shit-talking the community have not actively engaged in it long or at all. I am not one of the super active members in the Discord, but I have always been able to jump into a conversation and feel seen and welcomed. I would consider my art to be, at best, the skill quality of a literal child. I was embarrassed to post it anywhere near all of the amazing images that others were sharing, and when I got up the nerve to do so I was praised and (affectionately) scolded for putting myself down. Everyone I have encountered in this community is so welcoming and friendly, it's genuinely heartwarming for me. I'm so used to just being a random voice in the crowd in big Discords, but here you're included! I saw someone say that they feel like everyone hates their art and hates them, and I would genuinely be shocked if that were true. Everyone is different with their mental states, but I can say that the "everyone hates me" is a very familiar feeling. I'm truly sorry that you feel that way about RoB, but I plead that you share your creations anyway!
Oh, and there are thousands of bases online that are $10+ and they often do not include future updates for free.
I think I got everything. I am not trying to be an asshole with any of this, completely honestly. I'm just hoping that at least one person might be a little more understanding over at least one topic if they have read this far. Thank you.