To everyone who has or is thinking about writing Lainey & I about being part of our relationship, please stop. We’re healing, give us space. When I feel we are ready for another girl to join in, I will accept your requests. But until then please hold off for a few days. That’s how long it’s going to take for me to set my wife straight again. Thanks for being patient.
I haven’t even read his essay yet, but lmao that he’s now acting like he did this all for Lainey.
Ok read the first part… He’s really comparing Billie’s YouNow stream to the immense amount of information Greg released through his videos and Lainey released on twitter this year about Billie? The only new information I remember Billie gave out on that one YouNow stream in January that wasn’t already leaked by Lainey or Greg at that point was that Lainey was the one that first contacted Billie through twitter. That’s it.
Ugh, I’m going to read more and edit this post if I see anything else that’s interesting.
I decided to make a ‘transcript’ of his ‘My Wife & I Broke Up’ video, since a lot of people don’t like watching his videos but enjoy knowing what’s going on. (Maybe this is pointless to type out, but for one reason or another, I figured it would be a good idea.)
Transcript:
Hello, as of late there’s been a lot of drama on twitter. A lot of the drama generated by my wife’s social media account. Many of the things she said were very dramatic and have caused both myself and another person to experience significant discomfort. So lets hear the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
I’m only going to tell you what I am 100 percent certain of, that way you can get a reasonable perspective of what the heck is really going on. So, some time ago my wife made a video about how she is bi-sexual. Later on, she made it clear she would be interested in adding a third person to our relationship and she did in fact add a third person to our relationship. In fact after a while we all wound up in bed together, only once we got to a certain point in bed, my wife sat up and everything came to a screeching halt. She clearly indicated that she was not ready to go further than we already had, both myself and the other person felt a bit rejected.
Because I was super supportive of this other person, and was always trying to be positive towards her, myself and this other person wound up hanging out a lot with each other. (Picture pops up saying: a lot = whenever my wife was acting negatively towards us, we would just go in the other room and play games/watch movies) My wife knew that we were hanging out a lot and that made her unhappy. She started feeling like the other person was just here for me and began developing theories that she was completely unwanted, which was just untrue. See, the third person was always optimistic about the three of us, I was optimistic about the three of us, but my wife was often doubtful, she showed a lot of insecurity and used that insecurity to make accusations about the third person.
One night I was hanging out with the third person watching a movie, and I asked my wife it would be okay if I cuddled with her. Despite the three of us all sententiously being romantic not long before that, my wife freaked out at the idea of me cuddling with her and said she was leaving the house until the third person was gone. Before she left, I told her I wouldn’t do anything with the third person that I wouldn’t do with a friend. My wife was fine with the fact that I said that at the time. So, I thought to myself, well, I’ve cuddled with my friends before and my own mom gave me a topless body massage since she was a licensed masseuse. So, those things must be okay to do with this third person. I was super-duper wrong.
I told my wife about the full body massage and the cuddling, thinking it would all be chill considering the fact we almost had a threesome not too long prior. And as a result she wound up leaving me. So I’m now laying in bed freshly dumped with the third person, and I figure now that I’m super lonely, super sad, and also super single, what is the harm in asking her to kiss me? The third person responded in a kind, sensitive way, by stating the obvious that it didn’t feel right and she clearly did not want to take advantage of me at my low point. Shortly after that I said thank you for not kissing me, because I was in fact super emotionally messed up and it just proved that she wasn’t trying to be a homewrecker like a lot of people think she is.
So a short time passes and I’m trying to repair my relationship with my wife, and as a result of me trying to repair things, the third person is ignored by both of us for about six months. After that six months, my wife decides ‘Hey! Lets bring the third person back,“ and I was just shocked. Everyone that I know of was telling her that’s a bad idea, including myself. But I wound up agreeing to her coming back, because I really liked hanging out playing video games, etc, with that person. So the third person came back, and we all wound up making love to each other a lot. It was pretty insanely awesome. Unfortunately, my wife’s anxiety issues got to her again, and gave her the idea that once more, that the third person was just there for me and didn’t like her at all despite her almost always being the center of attention in bed.
Throughout the relationship, the third person was dumped multiple times and often treated with negativity by my wife, who would repetitively keep bringing up the fact that we cuddled many months prior. Using that as the primary explanation as to why she refused to trust the third person, despite the fact that she ignored everyone’s advice and brought her back anyway in the first place. And to be clear, the third person was caught on multiple occasions not being fully honest with my wife and I. But I’ve forgiven my wife in the past for lying to me, so I decided to forgive the third person as well. My wife however was not as lenient. Despite all this, my wife kept giving the 'okay’ on her coming back and every time she was here, we would all make love multiple times, again an absolutely amazing experience.
At some point my wife indicated that she didn’t want this to be a long term thing, and I told her if it wasn’t a long term thing, I wouldn’t be interested. So she then changed her stance and said 'Yeah, okay, we’ll have a long term future.” But then my wife would get insecure again, and act like the third person and I only cared about each other because again, we were consistently positive towards each other. While my wife was often full of negativity, doubt, anxiety and mistrust. The third person gets sent home yet again, crying, due to her being consistently treated poorly by my wife.
At this point, everything had been destroyed by my wife so many times despite us both trying to make her happy. So, with this point, we basically given up. But why did my wife and I split up? Because for like, the tenth time, she decided to go on twitter and trash both myself and the third person only this time, it was a lot more specific and a lot more malicious. Long story short, myself and the third person were really just tired of being played with. The three of us together has been an inconsistent roller coaster. Sometimes my wife would act like we’re the best thing ever, and then she would act like we were both garbage human beings. Despite the fact, that myself and the third person had never kissed, or had sex when she made it clear doing so would be inappropriate. We just really liked hanging out with each other, watching anime and playing video games whenever my wife was in a super bad mood and was treating one or both of us poorly.
And to to be clear I do love the third person, and I’m not the type of person to make love to someone and not actually love them. I even made it clear when we were making love that I loved both of them, and they both seemed very happy with that fact. The last time I talked to my wife about relationships, I told her that I wanted to be single, because to be blunt, I am emotionally exhausted. There’s a 90% chance that my wife and I will be fine and mostly everything will return to normal. I just personally feel extremely upset and sad that my wife has screwed over this third person so many times. My wife knew very well that I don’t have sex with people without loving them, and despite myself and the third person being on good terms still, it’s pretty apparent at this point I’m never going to be able to see that person that I love, ever again.
And that’s all I have to say, for now, thanks for watching.
Could he be any more narcissistic if he tried?! I was just going along with what SHE wanted, and now SHE’S ruined everything! Poor me! Everybody was having a good time, except for my stupid, crazy, downer wife!
Dude, If your wife said she wasn’t okay with it before, and started acting negatively about it after “changing her mind” and saying it was okay, maaaybe she’s NOT OKAY WITH IT. Maybe she’s doing it because she saw you were enjoying it, even though it makes her really insecure and unhappy. Here’s a thought: maybe if you love somebody, you shouldn’t repeatedly subject them to something that you know makes them unhappy and anxious. You are quite possibly the most self-centered, deluded fuck I have ever come across.
Andy Biersack called onion out but deleted the tweetes after (he kinda does this if the tweets create drama and stuff) but I managed to find some screenshots alightwhendarknessfell(.)tumblr(.)com/post/151006182386/submission-hes-not-a-vegan-though-hes
VERBATE OF: “The Truth About My Wife (& Her 16 Year Old Friend)
this video #LITERALLY shocked me in regards to how blase he’s being about a 16 year old visiting his 21 year old wife. i had to transcribe it for you guys because i want you to see how his manipulation tactics work. he tries to push all it off on the fact that lainey is ‘bisexual’ instead of what we’ve witnessed her doing with underage girls online. the anti-o crowd is in the wrong because ‘how dare we harass a 16 year old girl’ well gerg how dare you ask a 16 year old girl if she’s sure you’re her soulmate you fucking moron
A lot of bloggers hate me, they think I'm a threat to the minds of innocent little people & have created this fantasy that I was somehow forced into their li...
Okay, so I’m gunna address this since I did watch it this morning. I’m not going to address the whole video, but most of it, honestly.
Before I do, I figured that I would put out there that, yes, even before this video, he does keep tabs on us and it’s the funniest fucking thing ever. Also, you changed the title from “I LOVE THAT YOU HATE ME (Anti Onision Blog)” to “REAL TALK: Tumblr Hate Bloggers vs Onision”
First, we don’t give you free advertising, you fucknugget. Calling you out is just that: Calling you out. You ghanging isn’t going to happen (as you continue to make abundantly clear), but warning your followers of how big a shitlord you are does help.
Also, yes, there are a lot of anti-o blogs. Most of them are either inactive or deactivated. And there are quite a few that I have not added in because I just lack the energy to do so and it’s hard to keep up with constantly checking what’s active and what’s not. (As a note, that’s not a slight against the community because pretty much all of you are wonderful, that’s just me, honestly). But, maybe there are as many as there are for a reason. Like, if there are that many blog calling someone out, it’s prob'ly because they are a shitty person.
Second, aside from you pointing out that I had a typo (that I just fixed, thanks, I didn’t notice it before, especially since there’s a long ass fucking list), why only go through two bullet points and then dismiss the rest of the list? Clearly there is a lot to go through (which is why I organized it into sections, honestly), but to dismiss the list after two bullet points? Then to blame it on “Oh, yes, I love Family Guy” like that’s something relevant just because you wanna avoid the point? Bruh, come the fuck on. Also, Family Guy is shit and shows an abusive family on TV, like that makes it any better, lmao
Next, you show an ask from eoliveson and, just putting that out there, 99.9% of the posts there are user submissions, not by the mods. To continue, yea, Gerg’s given shit out before, but it’s always been sponsored. He’s never given shit out of his own generocity. Though practically all of the submissions are half assed and not even worth the time. Then again, most of his fan base is almost as shitty as he is, so…
To expand upon his “generocity,” he goes on to say that he is so becuase he retweets/reblogs his followers. Like… that’s not really being generous. I mean, you realize you have fans and that’s cool, I guess, but you’re not really generous. Noting your fans =/= generocity. Generous is actually appreciating yuo followers/fans, it’s actually giving back to them without giving them backhanded compliments, telling them every so often that you hate them/can’t love them, guilt tripping them, or whatever other manipulative and abusive tactics you use. Them thanking you is either because you guilt tripped them into getting better or because they want attention from you and they know that saying “thanks for helping me get better” will get more attention from you.
People calling Taylor a predator is because it’s true. Like, they prey on younger people under 18. That’s usually what qualifies someone as a predator, something that Gerg should intimately be familiar with. I mean, after all, he loves that fucking jail bait, bahahaha. Regardless if he’s an ephebophile or not, the fact that he will actively go after someone almost 10 years his junior is disgusting.
Lemme side track for a sec, though, and talk about the age of concent. Again. Because you guys (read: Gerg’s fans) don’t hear it as often as you should. In most states, yes, the legal age of concent is 16. Some are 17 and some are 18. But, there are laws in certain states that prohib relationships with people over a cetain number of years older than you if you are 16. For example, what I’ve seen is usually anywhere between 3 and 5 years older and these are age gap provisions. If you’re any older than that, there’s a high chance that, if caught, could land the older party in jail/prision. I have mo information about age of consent right here.
There’s a post calling him out on cheating on his ex wife with his ex fiancee (and for the life of me I cannot remember who posted it, sorry D:). The post references Shiloh and that she was also underage but that he though she was 22-24 or some such and decided to try and go out with her, anyway. Again, this is proof that he’s an ephebophile. He claims that he’s always been in legal relationship but transporting minors (who, legally, are under the age of 18) is illegal and with the whole age gap provision, he doesn’t even get to claim that he was close enough in age to either his ex fiancee or his current spouse when they started going out, lmao. This is just beating a dead horse right now, so moving on. (also, that crying face? Really? It’s not 2006 anymore, man, come on)
The dot-com that is dedicated to “hating” on Gerg is, if I’m not mistaken, a reference to dontstandsoclosetome’s site. Unless he’s talking about some wiki, then I’m not sure. But, like… dude, again, if there’s this much shit that’s out there calling your ass out for being just a terrible human being, I think that you should look at yourself and start changing for the better and not for… whatever it is you’re doing now.
He talks about “tough love” when his version of tought love is nothing but guilt tripping and backhanded compliments. And neither of those things are tough love. Also, the tweet he’s showing (“I just wish you dumbasses realized how much better most of you look without your makeup. It’s so pathetic what you think you need to hide.”) is also hilariously hypocritical for a man who cakes on makeup to look like he’s 16. But, do you not see how that tweet is? Calling people dumbasses just because they wanna use makeup? Like, he implies it’s not becuase they want to use make up for themselves and that they’re trying to hide something. No? Not really? A lot od people put makeup on because they like to, not to impress someone or hide something. It’s their freedon and it can be artistic.
Then we come full circle back to my blog and a post that I made ages ago (and I know that it’s my post due to the conten of it and me talking about my experiences as much as I do). It’s a post calling Taylor a little shit but that they’re still in an abusive relationship they don’t deserve to be in and, basically, how what Gerg does lines up with a lot of the abusive things that my first ex did to me (and I go into detail in the shown post). What Gerg has shown in the past and what his former friends and all of his exes have stated is that he’s incredible abusive. He may not necessarily be physically abusive, but he’s at least emotionally and mentally abusive. Trust me, it shows and you notice it a lot more once you’ve been in an abusive relationship.
Though, the funny thing is that he asks if any of us (or, prob'ly me, specifically) reached out to Taylor about Gerg. And, while I never emailed them, I did try and contact them via Twitter. You know how that went? They blocked me. Just like any sort of conversation you have with Gerg where he blocks you, they did the same thing. The assumtion that I or other anti-os haven’t contacted Taylor is ignorant, at best. And yea, actually, you’re right, Gerg, they did ignore and block all of us because THEY’RE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU’VE MANIPULATED THEM! Jesus fuck, man. Again, do you know how ridiculously hard it is to get out of an abusive relationship? I was in one for roughly 5 years. 5 years of trying to break up met with my first ex claiming he’d kill himself (which got the the point of me not giving a shit and telling him to do it because I was so emotionally and mentally exhausted, which is shitty of me, but I do not regret it in that instance). Taylor’s either got rose tinted glasses on or is too scared to leave your ass (though I know that the money is a bonus for them, but money means nothing if your mental and emotional health is drained all the time).
I know nothing about that Facebook group, but I do mildly agree that there shouldn’t be any tech problem with the facebook page, by itself. But, I don’t think that Gerg take’s into account that people also have technical issues with their computers or what have you. Also, not having enough mods who can spare time also hurts a page. Anyway, Gerg pretty much is condescending about the whole issue, in true fashion. And eh… Rebellion wasn’t the word that that page should have gone with, honestly, but getting Gerg off the internet is a thing that should happen as soon as possible.
Suddenly at the end of the video an irrelevant picture of Taylor and Billie kissing with him saying basically “here we have two beautiful women, one being my wife and the other, an absulutely beautiful human being like my wife” and then talks about how he anticipated him and Taylor staying together in the future. Like…. Okay? What does that have to do with anything? Also, why change the subject to your shitty fucking abusive relationship? God, this cycles back to you only talking about your relationship or sex in the end.
But lemme also address the video discription, which is as follows: “A lot of bloggers hate me, they think I’m a threat to the minds of innocent little people & have created this fantasy that I was somehow forced into their life. If they didn’t have that fantasy, why not just admit that that they watch me voluntarily? That they started their blogs because that is the type of people they are, and that this is all really about their ego and not an actual attempt to save anyone….
If they really cared about saving people, why not contact the people who are allegedly in need directly? Correct, it’s because the people they say need help, know way more about what is going on than them, and are perfectly fine without the assistance of random internet strangers who have a hero complex. Keep it up the crazy Tumblr, you’re doing it very well.”
I mean, Gerg, you area a threat to kid and teens. They’re impressionable. You happen to make up facts or don’t even really fact check at all. You support biased views that only line up with what your own views are and that, in the end, could end up very, very dangerous to those who are still developing.
No one is saying that you forced yourself into our lives? Or, generally speaking, into anyone else’s life. I don’t know where you got that at all, but this over-inflated sense of self is kinda gross.
Lmao, what? I started this blog because I hate people like you and because, when you fuck up, you should be accountable. And, if you shift the blame, people should know that you refuse to even acknowledge that you’ve fucked up or give a half assed apology and then continue the same behavior because you think that people have forgotten. And this doesn’t just apply toward you, I do call out other people on this blog. Primarily you, Gerg, but other people fuck up just as badly.
BAHAHAHAHA, ego? Really? Look, even if I only had 10 followers on this blog, I would still keep making posts. It’s not about the recognition. I don’t give a shit about how many followers I have or how big my blog gets in the community or anything like that. What I do care about, however, is that I can make a difference with your fans. If I can make them realize that you’re not the charismatic and “brutally honest” man you make yourself out to be and that, in that same vein, you a huge fucking sham, then that makes me feel good. Making people realize that someone they look up to is an abusive fuck and having that person drop you like a sack of used diapers is great. And, y'know, I’ve helped people that way and it’s nice when they come to that realization. So you can take this “oh, they never help anyone” bullshit and shove it.
And some of use do actually reach out to those in need. Bruh, we just don’t fucking advertise it. Like, my boyfriend has PTSD and dissociates sometimes and I ground him (not as you do with a child, btw), I have friends who come to me for advice if they need it, I help out where I can at work and in the various communities I’m in to the best of my ability. And, when I need help, I know that my friends are there and I can reach out to them, too. Those who brag about how much of a help they are have an ego problem and need to chill the fuck out as no one owes you a fucking special medal. That’s why I don’t ever mention how I’ve really helped people and who I’ve helped unless prompted to. Because, wow, it’s not a big fucking deal to help someone because that mean you’re being a decent fucking person.
Though, sometimes people don’t reach out for help due to fucks like you, Gerg. Like, wow, shaming someone and guilting them because they self harm? More than likely, those people are less inclined to seek out help. So, how the fuck are people supposed to know that they need help, then? And some people don’t realize that, say, they’re in an abusive relationship. It’s the whole rose tinted glasses deal again. They just think “Oh, thing will get better, they didn’t mean it” and it still continues or could potentially get worse. You can tell those people that they need help but they won’t listen until they’re ready. Saying this is far easier than actually doing it.
Hero complex… Right. Calling you out on your shit and making everyone know that you are a pretty shitty person doesn’t mean that someone has a hero complex. It means that they’re calling you out for being a shitty person. I… don’t really think that you actually know what a hero complex even is, honestly.
