Real life threats in the kink community.
So in the last few days I have received several real life threats to my personal security and safety, including someone threatening to ‘dox’ me. (Ie. publicly reveal personal details about me)
I’m not exactly sure what I’ve done to provoke such threats but these kind of anonymous messages seems to be occuring more frequently as my blog readership grows.
Now I’m sure we can all agree that many of us here in the Tumblr kink community run blogs that can blur the line between fantasy and reality a little bit, but some people seem to take the content of these blogs very seriously, so I want to make a few points crystal clear.
1. I am only here to entertain my readers, sometimes that means acting dumber or more promiscuous than I really am. We all embellish a little bit, I’m no different. This is a fantasy space.
2. While I do have some consensual non consent fantasies, they are only fantasies. If someone seriously threatens to show up at my school or house looking for me, Tumblr staff and local law enforcement will be notified. I also support the second amendment.
3. I am not looking for a full time Dominant on Tumblr. I talk to people from all sorts of D/s backgrounds and love to play casually, but I only truly submit to people I know very well. I am not looking for a full time Dom, Master, Daddy, Owner, Mistress or Domme here.
4. I am no stranger to role play, in fact I love the idea of fantastical and magical transformations of both body and mind. If I suspect a tumblr message from someone is “in character” I am very likely going to play along with them. This has lead to some confusion in the past. I apologize if I assume your message is meant to be role play.
5. In the past I have been accused of trying to steal Men from other subs. I assure you, I don’t want your Daddy, ladies. If a man talks to me and doesn’t tell me he is in a relationship with someone else, I’m not sure what I can do to stop him.
6. If you have a problem with me or I have done something to offend you, please message me so that I may sincerely apologize and attempt to make the situation right. Please don’t sit in silence being angry at me for something I might not even be aware of.
Finally, to the person that threatened to dox me, I’m not sure who you are or what your beef with me is, but I’m sorry you feel such a threat is warranted. You potentially have the power to compromise my privacy, but once that occurs, it’s done and the consequences are yours to bare.
Message me privately if you want to be real.
- Emily, 26 years old, Maryland.
To my friends, please reblog this, so more people are made aware of the sorts of threats that are happening. It breaks my heart to see our kinky blog community in such a state.