WANDERLUST

Czarina|18|D.P.M

[odekirk]

I hate when people describe not IMMEDIATELY responding as “ghosting.” Like “they totally ghosted me, and then when they finally texted back three hours later…” stop right there. That is not ghosting. I will teach you the meaning of ghosting

[tumbwr]

Can you tell me

[tumbwr]

please

[tumbwr]

hello?

[inloveforevr-deactivated2025041]

She is the poem - June Bates

[ettelaux]

[creepingintheivy]

It’s autumn it’s autumn it’s autumn it’s autumn ITS AUTUMN

[funnytwittertweets]

[nonaferatu]

Something deeply painful is the fact that seasons, especially fall, dont feel the same. Not because of individual maturity but because climate change has impacted the weather patterns so so so much that we cant even experience the same annual shifts that our ancestors have for centuries

I feel displaced, i yearn for the spring, summer, fall, and winter that i can barely remember experiencing

[brightsunnydaysofcastamere]

To make things worse, if you’re under 50-60 years old, you can’t even remember what normal seasons were like because you weren’t alive to experience them

In the graph above, you can see how there’s a clear tipping point in the late 1970′s, which is when global temperatures first began to really skyrocket.

I was born in 1997, so about 20 years after this shift occurred. There is an immense difference between the climate now and the climate I remember growing up in, but the way I experienced the seasons in my childhood was already fundamentally different from what the seasons were supposed to be like! My parents were pretty much the last generation to experience a normal climate, and that’s just... incredibly sad

[nonaferatu]

I am processing this information in a normal way devoid of rabid rage and bloodlust i am processing this information in a normal wa-

[free-my-mindd]

For your own sanity, let things be…

[halalwife-deactivated20250104]

from I, Etcetera by Susan Sontag.

[enki2]

[liminalstrands]

Good news! It gets worse!

I think it's the galactic orbit thing that really did me in

[perfectquote]

“I keep that memory somewhere inside me—where it’s safe. I take it out and look at it when I need to. As if it were a photograph.”

— Benjamin Alire Sáenz, The Inexplicable Logic of My Life

[bartfargo]

[toastbutteregg]

[free-my-mindd]

I’m not losing myself again for nobody.

[toastbutteregg]

[acreaturecalledgreed]

the concept and idea of “you can always start trying to be a better person” is extremely important to me both in media and irl and i continue to be deeply deeply disturbed by the trend on this site pushing that these ideas in media are bad writing or even morally reprehensible

because theyd rather someone stay terrible or just straight up die than become a better person 

from a compassionate point of view it’s deeply distressing and from a pragmatic point of view it’s outright frustrating

it’s fucked up. 

[falliblefabrial]

What is the most important step a man can take?

The next.

[inklesspen]

[babblingfishes]

I think part of the pushback about this is the idea that, to “redeem” bad people, their victims must first forgive them for unforgivable acts.

This is false. No one is obligated to forgive you. You can learn from your mistakes and become the best, kindest person on earth, and the people you’ve hurt still won’t forgive you, and you’ll have to accept that. And that doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to grow. Because we aren’t just “pure” or “sinful”, we’re complex.

[exquisite-peculiarity]

Yes! Just because you hurt someone and they still carry that, doesn’t mean that you’re irredeemable. They aren’t obligated to forgive you, but most importantly, your progress doesn’t rest on them. There are new relationships to be built. Go be better for the new people in your life.

[toastbutteregg]

[free-my-mindd]

Beautiful views in NYC