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I apologize if I ever was a toxic person in your life, I’m maturing more everyday, correcting my wrongs and slowly but surely becoming a better version of me.

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Adulting tip: before you move in with someone, sit down and have a discussion about what a clean living space looks like. Doing this would have saved me so much aggravation in my life.

“But Jaqui,” I hear you asking, “why should we have to talk about it? Clean’s clean, right?” No, it’s not. And thinking cleanliness is a self-evident concept is a great way for screaming fights to happen down the line.

Here’s an example: to my mom, clean means that all the things in the space are not actively dirty, and are free of crumbs and food stains and the like. It doesn’t matter to her where you put your shit, so long as no one has to worry about bugs or stains or diseases. To my once-stepfather, clean meant that everything had a place where it belonged, and things were neat and organized, and there was no visible clutter. He gave less of a shit about crumbs under the microwave than he did about random papers on the coffee table. So she could spend all day working to make sure you could eat off every surface in the kitchen, and he would come home and be upset because she’d spent all that time and as far as he could tell, nothing was clean. Meanwhile, his obsessive organization drove my mom batshit because he would blithely organize away things that weren’t clean by her standards. Needless to say, that relationship did not end well.

So yeah. Have the talk, and figure out what your “augh, this is unlivable, we need to clean!” points are. You may not always be able to get a shared living space exactly as clean as you want it, but if you figure out what everyone needs to feel like they have a reasonably clean space, you’re much more likely to correctly conclude that, when someone makes an offhand comment about the mess getting to them, you’ll know they mean the dishes in the sink are bothering them, and that they don’t give a shit about the dust on the bookshelves, and can act accordingly.

#literally #i had issues like this living with my housemates for 2 years #before moving in with 3 new people i had spent another year in dorms with 12 other girls and it was hell and the kitchen was never clean #so i asked the new 3 girls (and a girl from dorms coming with me) if they were clean and they all agreed that they were #LIES #my version of clean was very different compared to their's #clean to me was everything was organised and hoovered and wiped with nothing disgusting #their's was dishes always drying on the rack or never hoovering often since it wasnt obvious #or leaving empty shampoo/conditioner bottles in the bathroom forever and then forgetting its their's #or wanting to recycle but never sort it nor take it out nor do it correctly or taking the bin out every week so it piles up #since there was up to 7 people living in the house at times due to siblings and partners #i felt so obnoxious and rude asking them to clean up after themselves since it was often and i got so mad #the worse part is that our landlord thought it was clean so it made them continue thinking i was overreacting but i know i wasnt #because my partner agreed it was gross living in that house #we got fleas because one of the girl's cleanliness levels.. tho i wasnt effected because i kept my stuff and my room clean >:(#MY POINT IS STATE AND SET AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT CLEANLINESS IS #its easier to clean up as you go than letting it pile up

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the internet has collectively made a meme out of every frame of Spongebob but they still have yet to hone in on the image that conveys the feeling of being in your 20s