Da34amadeo

[pelipper]

You have been visited by the lucky Lunar New Year Cat. Reblog for good fortune in the coming year. 🌑🐱🧧

[rhysandsrevenge]

Reblog to save his life

This is Rhys, my 2 year old cat

You can do whatever you want with him, he never bites or scratches anyone and he loves playing fetch and sucking on soft plushy blankets

Another cat has bitten him and gave him this bacteria called Pyo Thorax which causes fluid behind his lungs. It's a deadly condition, but thank god my mom and I noticed on time so he's now in an animal hospital where they're cleaning his lungs and

He's doing really well at the moment

Unfortuately, the bacteria won't completely be gone unless the vets do a surgery where they open up his chest and clean every little corner of the lungs so they know that all the bacteria are gone. Then again, Rhys is a strong lil man and he's doing fine so the surgery will, according to the vets, go well and he'll recover like any other cat.

But

The surgery is expensive and my mom, who has all the money for the surgery but planned on spending that money on buying new furniture for the house, thinks

"It's a waste of money to spend it all on a cat"

This is why mom wants to put him to sleep tomorrow

I'm not asking anyone here for money.

I'm asking if you can REBLOG this post to convince my mother that little Rhysie's life is worth the money and it's sad to give up on him because he is already getting so much better and he is just soo strong

If my mom still decides to put him down, let this be the post that still keeps Rhys alive on Tumblr , which is where I got his name from❤️

He'd be so grateful if you'd introduce him to all your followers🐾

[princesstigerbelle]

@nicolfails @mostlycatsmostly @mysticalgalaxysalad @kursedkitties @toastycursedcats @cursed-kat-images @animatedsuperchick19 @ifeinsteinwasanidiot @mistermaf @naamahdarling

We can’t let this beautiful baby die

[nitafromtheshadows]

@mostlycatsmostly

[endangered-justice-seeker]

PLEASE SHARE THIS USEFUL INFORMATION IT COULD SAVE LIVES

[da34amadeo]

r/transgender - What is a Packer Info Sheet for Transgender Youth to Give to Their Parent/Guardian and Start the Conversation of Buying One

222 votes and 2 comments so far on Reddit

[whatbigotspost]

If this resonates with you at all PLEASE, for your benefit, go read this tweet thread on “fawning”

[constant-state-of-self-discovery]

Oh my god i finally have a word for it….

[whatbigotspost]

There’s such enormous power in naming and understanding things, isn’t there 🙏

[crimsonqueen3991]

I nearly fucking scrolled past this, but I came back and read it.

Now I’m sitting here, re-thinking all my past and present relationships with everyone, and….

Fuck

[whatbigotspost]

I mean I’m saying, y’all, if it gives you pause, let it!

[da34amadeo]

Sounds familar.

[batmanisagatewaydrug-deactivate]

just once I want to see a good post critiquing makeup culture that doesn’t turn out to be made by some janky radfem blog

[batmanisagatewaydrug-deactivate]

oh hey!! I’m not a janky radfem I can do it myself!

makeup culture is wack and normalizes a ludicrously high bar as the bare minimum women can do. I saw a “lazy"makeup tutorial the other day that listed 22 separate goddamn products. you’re supposed to buy and know how to use 22 different things on your face just for the privilege of being considered lazy and that’s uuuuuuh what’s the word? bullshit.

[kadegreene]

Really, five products could work, even 3. Just frame the face, eyes, lips, and you’re done.

[batmanisagatewaydrug-deactivate]

0 products also works great

because I’m gonna be real here, the idea that 22 products is a minimum sucks but it’s really upsetting that any amount of makeup is the bare minimum at all

[thealienssayhello-deactivated20]

I would really just suggest some powder foundation, concealer, mascara and lipgloss/lipstick, or tbh just mascara works too, but that’s up to you

[batmanisagatewaydrug-deactivate]

I’m sorry if I didn’t express this clearly enough in the original post but I’m not really looking for more concise makeup regiments. my intention was to point out how it’s Bad that makeup is considered a bare minimum at all, regardless of individual feelings on the matter

[sev-wildfang]

no face should be “required” to have “a minimum” of makeup. makeup has no health benefits and does nothing but fill the pockets of companies that prey on women and our insecurities.

makeup should not be seen as hygiene because it isnt. get that shit out of your head.

[nostrem]

this post: makeup culture is ridiculous and 22 products should not be considered a minimum requirement for someones face. no one should have to do that

the notes: so like……. what youre saying is……. we need to make the minimum about 5 or 6 instead… i gotcha

[concurrent-sufferings]

Really the only makeup you need is eyeliner but that’s just my personal opinion

[batmanisagatewaydrug-deactivate]

okay

where did we lose you

[grantwilson]

why are people like this

[river-slam-deactivated20250915]

You shouldn’t be required to wear makeup regardless of how you identify!

You personally can enjoy wearing it, and want to wear eyeliner or lip gloss or whatever everyday. That’s cool. But that shouldn’t be an expectation of others. Yep. Good. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Help for for Coping with Panic

1. Remember, feelings of panic are just exaggerations of normal bodily stress reactions.

2. Sensations are neither harmful nor dangerous - just unpleasant. Nothing worse will happen.

3. Stop adding to the panic with frightening thoughts of where panic will lead.

4. Stay in the present. Be aware of what is happening to you rather than concern yourself with how much worse it might get.

5. Wait and give the fear time to pass.

6. Notice that when you stop adding to panic with frightening thoughts, the fear begins to fade.

7. Focus on coping with facing the fear rather than trying to avoid it or escape from it.

8. Look around you. Plan what you will do next as the panic subsides.

9. Think about the progress made so far, despite all the difficulties.

10. When you are ready to go on, do so in an easy, relaxed manner. There is no hurry.

Each time you cope with panic, you reduce your fear.

Source: http://www.panicsupport4u.com/coping.htm

[kiss-my-piss]

Resources for Male Victims of Abuse

How to Recognize Abuse

**Emotional Abuse of Men

**Sexual Assault of Men and Boys

**Men Can Be Victims of Abuse, Too

**Domestic Violence Against Men - Know the Signs

**Information for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

**Help for Battered Men

**Battered Men, Battered Husbands

**For Male Survivors of Rape and Sexual Abuse

**Male Survivors of Incest and Sexual Child Abuse

**Help for Men Who Are Being Abused

Help Lines (Phone and Text Chat)

National Domestic Violence Hotline: [phone] (or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY)

National Dating Abuse Hotline: [phone]

National Sexual Assault Hotline: [phone]

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men: 1-888-743-5754 (US and Canada)

Hopeline Suicide Prevention Hotline: [phone]

National Hotline for Victims of Crimes: 1-855-484-2846

National Human Trafficking Hotline: [phone]

Polaris Human Trafficking Text Line: Text “BEFREE” to 233733

**1in6/RAINN Chat for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Support Groups

**1in6 Support Groups

Male Survivor Support Groups

Pandora’s Aquarium - Chat (includes chats specifically for men)

Pandora’s Aquarium - Forums (includes forums specifically for men)

How to Find a Shelter

Domestic Shelters Search (shelter locator with filters to find shelters specifically for male survivors)

SAFE (located in Austin, TX, but states they can help people find resources/shelters in their area)

How to Find a Therapist

**Male Survivor Therapist Directory

Mental Health Services Locator

Resources for and About the Abuse of Kids/Teens

Love is Respect Hotline: [phone] (Hotline for teens)

Darkness to Light Helpline (Sexual Abuse): 1-866-367-5444

Darkness to Light Text Line: Text “LIGHT” to 741741

ChildHelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline: [phone]

Children of the Night Hotline (Children in Prostitution): 1-800-551-1300

National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929

Covenant House Nineline (Homeless Youth): 1-800-999-9999

Stop it Now Hotline: [phone] (for adults concerned about the welfare of a child)

Jennifer Ann’s Group (for teens experiencing dating violence)

Other Resource Lists 

(While I tried to include the most helpful resources I could here (i.e., resources that lend themselves to one-on-one communication, individual reading, etc.), there are plenty of other great resources, including regional resources, listed in these links. Some of the resources are specific to men and others aren’t, but they are all helpful for male survivors.)

**Male Survivor (regional, international, and online resources)

**Husband Battering: Men and Domestic Violence

**Help for Battered Men: Online Resources

**Help for Battered Men: National and International Resources

**Help for Guys: Help for Victims (some resources for men, many general resources)

[mogai-watch]

This is so important. 

[everywitchway-deactivated201905]

SLAMS that reblog

[ireneadlercatwoman]

This is amazing @sexuallymonsterous you are a good person for putting this list together. 

[transitioning-nb]

Not all that related to this blog, but I wanted to share this anyway. To all survivors of abuse, please know that what happened to you was not your fault, you didn’t deserve what happened to you. You matter, you’re strong for still being here & putting up with what you’ve had to. Hold on. Know that you’re loved 💛💜🖤

[wilwheaton]

It took me 46 years to realize how consistently I had been emotionally abused as a child and adult, until I pulled away from my abuser and stopped letting him keep me in a toxic relationship. It’s never too late to reclaim your life from the people who hurt you, because you deserve to be happy and to live your best life.

[tarynel]

What’s your fantasy?

[pleasestopandrew]

I wake up, my debt is all paid off, my bank account is full, my relationships with my family are healthy, and I’m able to travel anywhere in the world.

[sophiamariabaeks]

reblog for this ultimate fantasy life to come true

[saaint-sugar]

[jswift-lgbtq]

Truth! 👏🏼🌈

[da34amadeo]

Click here to support Help Sakaki. organized by Erica and Sakaki forever.

Our cat Sakaki has been diagnosed with a heart murmur. She needs to see a cardiac doctor. This is an expense that comes at a bad time as I a

[catchymemes]

[zambamboz]

So a markos update:

He’s been having eye problems with his right eye. That one didn’t take well to the cryoepilation and is still growing hairs on what remains of his eyelid and its now causing him issues.

2 weeks ago, his eye started giving off more discharge than normal, he kept it closed more often than not and his eye was foggy. I took him to the vet to get him checked out. They looked at his eye with UV drops and didn’t see any scratches or abrasions so they sent me home with medicated drops letting me know that he’s just having come complications due to the hair in his eye.

Well, this morning I checked his eye out to see how he’s doing and found this:

Thats not discharge in his eye. That’s some form of abrasion on his cornea.

It doesn’t seem to be causing him any stress but I know he’ll need some sort of surgery to get his eye back to his normal, whether it be to fix this or another cryoepilation surgery on his right eye.

Unfortunately, work hasn’t been kind in the hours department. In the next two weeks I only have 15 hours to my name and I have bills to pay.

I will be remaking a gofundme or whatever for him after his next vet appointment on the 4th when I have more of an idea whats going on with him but as it stands right now, I know the cryoepilation will cost AT LEAST $500.

In the meantime, I do have a squarecash ($zambamboz) and a venmo (also @zambamboz) if anyone could spare something for his vet appointments I would be eternally grateful 🙏🙏

If you can’t, that’s ok! Please just reblog and signal boost this. My boy means the world to me and I just want him to get better.

[andryushacx]

“The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel.”

God. Dammit.

[glitterordeath]

Forged in Fire

[jagermortis-deactivated20200817]

um… Black Dynamite?

[anasandorpygoscelis-deactivated]

The Great British Bake-Off

[bookriotrrrrr-deactivated202002]

Vanderpump Rules 💪

[the-brodie-set]

Wisconsin Men’s Basketball

[kkludgy]

Elder Millennial

[pnw-momlife]

The Bird Box

[into-the-back-of-our-memory-dea]

Instant Hotel.

God I hate this so much lol

[oldman-and-the-sea-deactivated2]

Punisher

I’ll take it 🤠

[vaderslittlejedi]

The Twilight Zone 🙈😂

[video-store-clerk]

A popple. I was watching tv with my son…

[shibari-babe-deactivated2019042]

Jenna Marbles lmao no

[lowbrowhighlife]

Fireplace 3 Quebec…

[wilwheaton]

TESLA.

[da34amadeo]

Mysteries of the abandoned.

[grumpypedant]

I think a lot of people have trouble understanding transgender issues because they try to see themselves as trans, but come at it from the wrong direction. e. g. a cis woman tries to understand transness by going, “what if I felt like/wanted to be a man” when she should be approaching it as “what if I, a woman, was so easily mistaken for a man that I had to pretend to be one”,

And I think this is something to keep in mind and to explain away when trying to get these matters across to people who’re new to the idea.

[da34amadeo]

We need your help. My daughters support animal needs cardiac care . Sakaki’s a wonderful companion for her as she has autism and anxiety. Help me help her cat stay well. https://www.gofundme.com/help-sakaki

[bob-belcher]

[introfiant]

reblog this post for your pets to actually use the things you buy them