Many of us have our own personal journey in this life and everyone’s process is different. Along the way, we strive to fight to get to those particular check points in our lives, which gives some of us a sense of security and a coat of validation that states, “you’re good..you made it to this point.”
Sometimes, we focus on the BIG END GOAL picture in our lives that sometimes when we do fight our way through these “life checkpoints”, we may feel like we SHOULD be in this point in our lives now and thoughts of “so what.,” comes to play on repeat in our minds. It just feels like it is not good enough..there’s just so much more. Personally, I feel like I’m trying to reach the end of the horizon of an ocean, the final destination..the “I MADE IT!” part of our lives. Getting stuck in the world’s script of one’s time line. Not taking the time to enjoy the sound of the water, the motion of the waves, and the breeze that comes from the ocean. Forgetting to be present in my life..forgetting to live.
To get to my point quickly, is that many of us who are fighting everyday to get/be better and to consistently progress in our lives we forget a very important aspect in life that we as individuals have control of, which is...
Love yourself..acknowledge your value/be proud of yourself sometimes haha..appreciate the grains in your present life.
It all starts with self-love...if you don’t love yourself first, how can you even give back in life with love. We sometimes get lost in the process and we tend to beat ourselves down. All the “why are you not good enough”, “why did you fuck up this bad, you are just a fuck up with his head up in the clouds”, “how the fuck did you fuck this up, come on” and so on comes in play by default. This is odd to say, but accept ALL of it with appreciation and love. No point in meeting resistance with resistance..just accept, adapt then move on.
On a final note..have wide open arms to life and accept/acknowledge what is happening. Shits going to happen, it is inevitable but move forward with solid perspective/attitude and most importantly..
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