They call me Daddy Rae Rae

This blog is a combination of body positive, chubby love along with my other feminist political views. As well as lots of dogs, tarot readings, BDSM, arm pit hair, cute people, cartoons, personal rants, and food. Basically it's a blog where I talk...

[end0skeletal]

Scotland in the Fall by Daniel Casson

[aoke]

/olganoskovaa

[warehouse-agent-in-training]

Just had to take a picture of this little guy and its big friend. One of the cutest things I saw in Venice.

[helluva-pilot]

crying males: “disney is destroying star wars with female leads”

“rogue one also has a female lead? ugh”

“great another mary sue”

me:

[thesmilinggoth-deactivated20160]

I don’t mind if Star Wars has a female lead, as the Star Wars franchise has always been home to strong female characters, I do care if she is another giant Mary Sue like Rey was. Rey was so Mary Sue that it became distracting to the movie. A character with no force training takes down a trained Sith Knight, she flies a freighter designed for two pilots with no help despite the fact she had never left the planet before, and she can also repair said ship with no problem because she had spent years salvaging parts off of a broken star destroyer? The only thing she didn’t do was have all of the male characters try to romance her at once and I thank the force for that small concession.

The only good new character in episode 7 was Finn. The rest of the characterization fell flat or was just used to make Rey ascend to Mary Suedom.

[alltheladiesyouhate]

anakin built the worlds fastest pod racer and c3po when he was nine

[shinykari]

the first time luke flew a spaceship he destroyed the fucking death star.

[roane72]

Kylo Ren: Not a Sith. Not fully trained. Also? Injured by a bowcaster that we’d seen could take out several stormtroopers at a time. 

Rey: Literally spent all of her downtime flying a flight simulator to the point that it could no longer throw anything at her she couldn’t handle. For all kinds of ships. Nor did she solely scavenge star destroyers. She spent her entire life scavenging every imaginable wreck on Jakku, and her survival depended on her learning what ships had what parts and what was valuable. This, while competing with other scavengers, most of them working in teams. 

Which meant she had to learn how to fight, or else she wouldn’t have gotten out of childhood.

Basically, Rey had way more in-canon reasoning to be as good as she was than Luke Skywalker did–who basically went from never flying much out of atmo to piloting an X-wing under combat conditions and rocking it… apparently just because of genetics and the Force. Who then went on, only half-trained, into a fight that even YODA thought he was going to die in, and survived, against a man literally birthed by the Force, trained as both a Jedi AND a Sith, with about 25 years of combat experience under his belt, whereas Luke had had a lightsaber for about 3 years. What a Mary Sue he was, huh?

Rey had more reason to be what she was than Anakin Skywalker, who accidentally wound up in a fighter and accidentally destroyed a droid ship. Anakin who was such a Mary Sue he was LITERALLY A VIRGIN BIRTH. How Mary Sue is THAT?

The creators, in short, HAD TO GIVE REASONS for every single thing Rey knew how to do, because of assholes like this person, who would take any special skill she had as proof that she was a “Mary Sue” just because she was a female character. No one bothered to give those reasons to Luke or Anakin. Because they’re the hero. OF COURSE they can do the impossible. But Rey? Jesus, what a Mary Sue.

[lemonsharks]

Reblogged for excellent commentary. 

(I’d thought the Rey-hating twerp up there was like sixteen, in which case I’d cut them some slack, but nope turns out they’re in their 40s.)

[moved-nerf-this-you-clods-deact]

DESTROY THEM REY IS MOST REALISTIC NEW JEDI THUS FAR

[carnivaloftherandom]

“I don’t mind if…” I literally spent 38 damn years waiting for Rey, who both onscreen and in the tie-in books was given supporting evidence for every skill she HAS, and you, “Don’t mind.” Well I DO MIND. I mind that at 43 years of age, there are still benign ASSHOLES trying to gatekeep not just me, (I’ve been dealing with this shit for 38 years, too. I’ve got a callused soul about it,) but every damn girl and woman who finally feels like she’s got a door into Star Wars. And that’s not counting the actual direct, violent abuse we have been and are still being subjected to. I mind that you have the utter privilege to feel like you get to mind or not, like it MEANS something.

We do not exist BY YOUR LEAVE, we are not impossible, magical Mary Sues just because your experience of what we are capable of is so lacking that it boggles your mind that we might be able to do things at all.

[wonderali]

every time I see dudes ranting about “all these women leads in Star Wars” I think of this. and laugh. 

[kateordie]

This is kind of long but holy shit I lost it at this ^ gif

[fluffmugger]

A character with no force training takes down a trained Sith Knight, she flies a freighter designed for two pilots with no help despite the fact she had never left the planet before, and she can also repair said ship with no problem because she had spent years salvaging parts off of a broken star destroyer?

I’m legit crying here that’s fucking Luke in New Hope, no fucking lie 

[darthstitch]

Slaps onto blog.

My answer to every person who asks how Rey can do X Thing.

[hotdogsngiggles]

I love how there is a term for a woman with special skills that in a male situation would just be called hero or heroic

[marsdaydream]

female hero: excuse me, where do you get off knowing how to use that weapon? how could you possibly be the best pilot? we need to see your identification.

male hero: WE DON’T NEED TO SEE HIS IDENTIFICATION.

[allthequeenstarot]

Sometimes when I don’t have time to do a full Celtic Spread, I’ll do a Cross of Truth instead. I find it gives me a good overview of a situation, because it includes the reality of the situation (basis or present) and how I feel about it (desires), as well as both positive (helpful matters) and negative (challenges) energies present. And of course, a likely outcome if I’m to continue on the track I’m on!

[claraalicetarot]

[cryptid-rose-moved-deactivated2]

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Look at this angel..

[daddyraerae]

I'm so in love with my new home.

[daddyraerae]

My family

[sixpenceeeaesthetic]

I adore things that give me a silent hill vibe. Follow me for all your dark aesthetic needs. 

[klorella]

[moonpringles]

yearly reblog

[melodyandviolence]

[singelisilverslippers]

just go see an ob-gyn

[geardrops]

[executionerbarbie]

there’s literally no doubt in my mind that the entirety of the San Junipero episode of Black Mirror was based on this picture and that is….fine tbh

[law-of-abstraction]

❈ Grim Aesthetics ❈

[lagonegirl]

[theimaginarythoughts-deactivate]

What’s her name

[chocolateleone]

Candice Bridge

http://atlantablackstar.com/2016/12/05/howards-first-black-female-chemistry-instructor-earns-324k-grant-to-research-rape-investigation-methods/

[kimfartrashian]

Do you know how fucking hard it is to get a grant that big?!?!?!? Boost tf out of this. Proud of u.

[beesplosion]

I’m so proud of her!! And glad that this grant went to someone that is more likely to understand their impact (as opposed to a cishet old white man who likely won’t be needing a rape investigated)

[dreamersamulet]

When having a really bad day

1. Why this day has been so bad 2. Why it’s your right to be upset 3. How to make yourself feel better 4. How to avoid that this happens again