Start by asking each of your partners how much they want to know about other relationships of yours, and how much of their relationship they are comfortable sharing. Then base your responses off that. Itâs as simple as that - although the simplicity will vary based on what your partners want.
For example - You are dating A, B, and C. A wants to hear about literally a play-by-play, and is comfortable sharing that as well with Aâs metamours. B wants a DADT about other partners, but is ok with you mentioning dates with B and a brief description of the dates. C wants to know as much as possible, but only wants to share that C exists and occasionally has dates with you. That means you tell A - âsorry, my other partners arenât ok sharing that information, and I donât want to breach their trust. I have B and C though, and dates on Saturday and Tuesday with them. I saw B last Friday- we went to a movie and then I spent the night.â You tell B âOh man, I had such fun last Friday! Iâm swamped this week, but looking forward to dinner on Saturday!â You tell C âA and I had a bit of an argument last week, but this week weâve seen each other twice and the sex was AMAZING. I definitely want to go down on you this Tuesday, because I never get to go down on A and I miss it. Iâd have probably spent Friday with A too, but B and I went to the moviesâ
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