Mama Bear Kota

Dakota (Kota) Pike, 20, Single mother. "Friends? Oh. Yeah, I guess we were friends…"

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

Not unless studying all night counts?

[dakota-pike]

Just studying? Noope. Doesn't count. Tiredness denied.

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

The same..

[dakota-pike]

D'you work all night too?

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

You alright?

[dakota-pike]

Eh. Tired as hell. You?

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

[dakota-pike]

[madelinebenson-deactivated20140]

I can’t believe how big he is now. He’s gorgeous just like his mammy.

[dakota-pike]

He is a handsome little bugger, I know! He's gonna start breaking hearts any day now.

[dakota-pike]

Who gave Gavin permission to get so big?

[theoliverbrown]

Memorial

After party at my house.

[dakota-pike]

Can I go to the party if I don't go to the memorial?

[matthew--west-deactivated201402]

Well… everyone feels differently on the matter, I suppose.

[dakota-pike]

Maybe if I knew her better, or didn't know her at all I'd go. Either would make me feel more comfortable with going to be there for my friends, who dd know and like her better... But I'm kinda in an in-between area. Plus I have a son, and I caught my last baby sitter stealing. There's no way I'd find someone I can trust soon enough.

[hellcelebs]

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

Isn't anyone else tired of paying tribute to the memory of that bitch?

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

I find it hilarious because Annie wouldn’t have a problem with speaking ill of the dead.. or anyone for that matter.

[dakota-pike]

You're absolutely right. But the same can be said for a lot of teenage girls; they're just bitches. I really don't think Annie was anything super special.

[matthew--west-deactivated201402]

Why not?

[dakota-pike]

Because if I feel like if I were the one that died, Annie wouldn't take two seconds for me, and I already attended her funeral.. Sodon't really feel like I owe her anything.

[madelinebenson-deactivated20140]

I guess not. You don’t have to go if you really don’t want to.. I just thought it would be nice you know.

[dakota-pike]

Well it's not like she'd attend my memorial if I were the one who died. 

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

Isn't anyone else tired of paying tribute to the memory of that bitch?

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

They do.. and because she’s dead they forget what kind of person she was. Definitely not worth all of this.

[dakota-pike]

Yeah, they definitely saint-ify her. Some don't believe in speaking ill of the dead, and that somehow it's supposed to make her a better person then she was.. Some are so extremely lost in it, I laugh. 

[madelinebenson-deactivated20140]

You should go, Kota. It’s the right thing to do, isn’t it?

[dakota-pike]

But what do I owe, Annie, really? She was more your friend then mine, and sure, I might have respect for her memory, but I don't have to attend a memorial to prove that, right?

[this-is-will-darcy-blog]

Isn't anyone else tired of paying tribute to the memory of that bitch?

[dakota-pike]

... Kinda.. Some people neglect to realize life goes on.

[dakota-pike]

I don't even know whether I want to go to the memorial or not...

[the-kyleflynn]

I’m not! All I’m saying is that they can’t be that cruel when he’s only three years old. They don’t even know insults at that age. I honestly think you’re over exaggerating that whole ordeal. Hate to break it to you but not all of them grow up to be mean dads. Most of them grow out of it. 

I’ll meet him. Happy? 

[dakota-pike]

Quit pretending you know everything about kids his age, you have no idea what he, or they are like. So what if I am? I'm his mother, and I want to keep him from getting hurt. Sorry if I mistake teary eyes and stained cheeks with 'Why don't I have a dad?' as hurt.

My happiness doesn't matter. It's Gavin's. If he's happy, I'm happy.