Happiness is like an old man told me

Supernatural, Criminal Minds, Bones and somehow the boyfriend's got me in to the Vampire Diaries I live for festivals

[damagedatbestt]

My life be like...

It’s been years since I was on here but thought I’d share my story since last being a regular.

A year and a half ago I was hospitalised for a deliberate overdose after feeling for years that my life wasn’t worth living. Being a teenager really can suck!

6 months after that I dove straight into a relationship thinking that would take the pain away, but after a few months he became abusive, possessive and even violent. I even got sacked from my old job for missing work because he’d lock me in the house and wouldn’t let me leave. Leading to me back in the same situation as before, just wanting to end it all.

Now fast forward 6 months and my life has changed completely! I focused all my energy on work to take my mind off of everything. I’ve just been told they’re planning on training me up to be a manger, I’ve just passed my exams AND, somewhere in the midst of all this, I have been landed with the most amazing and supportive boyfriend a girl could ask for. 

I can’t go back in time and tell myself it will get better, but I can put this here and hope someone else can take note and keep fighting! 

My best advice to you if you’re feeling the way I was is to look for help. For me it was Women’s Aid, but find a charity or organisation best suited to your situation and ASK. 

I love helping people so if you’ve got any questions or just need someone to talk to, message me and I’ll help you out as much as I can. 

I am proud to call myself a SURVIVOR.

All the Love,

A x

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So it's 2.45 a.m and I get bored and decided to go on Cleverbot and it hits out with this. 

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does anyone else ever get really stressed over assignments and know that you should be doing them but you feel like you physically can’t stop procrastinating and that just stresses you out even more or is that just me

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Me

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The boy who takes your virginity is only going to love you long enough for you to stay in his bed. Your first job is never the best job. But you’ll meet some of your best friends there. Sometimes things don’t go the way you expect them to at all. People are usually never who they say they are. If you love someone, you need to tell them. Nobody is good at the guessing game. If your best friends don’t like the boy you’re involving yourself with, chances are he’s bad news. If a boy starts an invitation with, “Are you home alone”/”I’ll be home alone”, say no. You are a human being, not a toy to be played with. If some boy invites you to “the backseat of his truck”, he’s a piece of shit. Tell him to fuck himself. “Sorry” doesn’t always fix what you messed up. Stop wasting time wishing you could take back what you already did. You are at fault sometimes. There’s going to be a boy that you let get away. Yes, you loved him. It’s for the best, though. Toxic people hardly ever start off toxic. It’s always nice to make new friends, but never forget who your real friends are. Never lose the friends that would answer their phone at 3am if you called Never lose sight of who you are because of a boy.

16 Things I Learned While Being 16 (via dizzyhemmings)

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What if we're always meant to have dreams but they get pissed off waiting for us to go to sleep so they turn bad for revenge?

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No two farts are the same - they are unique - like snowflakes.

Abbey MacFarlane

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Some random dude skyped me and I pretended I was Olaf. 

He has never saw Frozen.

He does not understand why I am laughing so hard at this

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HOW CAN WE BE HAPPY ?

Once a group of 50 people was attending a seminar. Suddenly the speaker stopped and decided to do a group activity. He started giving each one a balloon. Each one was asked to write his/her name on it using a marker pen. Then all the balloons were collected and put in another room.

Now these delegates were let in that room and asked to find the balloon which had their name written, within 5 minutes. Everyone was frantically searching for their name, colliding with each other, pushing around others and there was utter chaos.

At the end of 5 minutes no one could find their own balloon. Now each one was asked to randomly collect a balloon and give it to the person whose name was written on it. Within minutes everyone had their own balloon.

The speaker began— exactly this is happening in our lives. Everyone is frantically looking for happiness all around, not knowing where it is.

Our happiness lies in the happiness of other people. Give them their happiness; you will get your own happiness. And this is the purpose of human life.

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Okay so I just made a wish on an eyelash and meant to wish to never break up with my boyfriend and after I blew it away I realized I got my words sphinctered in my head and I forgot the never and I think I just ruined my relationship...  help

[damagedatbestt]

How to write an essay:

type out the outline of the story in Ghetto speak

upload to Tumblr

wait for some smart-ass Grammar Nazi to translate 

Copy and paste on to a word doc

hand in to lecturer

get an A

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I've been in a stable relationship for 4 months now, wow. Do I get my free cat yet?

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At the Bestival last September they had a water slide on the Sunday and I found this photo on the website and the guy's face behind me makes this my favourite photo in the world! 

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Okay so I live with my gran and her boyfriend is like extremely overweight and doesn't shower and every time he walks past it's like this

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When people I really care about mention for the first time that I’m one of their best friends

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IS THAT A JUMPING PIECE OF JELLO WITH CHIBI EYES HOLY FLYING FUCK IT’S SO ADORABLE MAKE IT STOP