Stories behind the faces - part 3
I have been writing these blog posts about the children, because they are truly amazing. Despite the hardship and horrors that some have experienced, they are the most incredibly strong, resilient and inspiring human beings. Their pasts do trouble them and have left their mark, but they don’t let it hold them back. Here are some more stories about these beautiful children...
L is a bright, friendly and very polite little boy. He lives with his younger brother and sister, his alcoholic dad and mum who has a speech impairment. Every morning he and his brother wake up at 4am to help their mum clean the pigs, ready to be roasted. (Hog roast is a regional specialty). His mum sells pigs’ trotters. It’s a long day for a little boy, waking up so early and leaving for school at 6am, followed by an afternoon at the foundation, where he is always the last child to finish studying.
I taught T to read this time last year. When he arrived at the foundation, he was so timid, but since learning to read, he has started to come out of his shell, find his voice and become independent in his studying. It has been a joy to seem him grow as a person. My colleague even gave him a Bible which he has started to read at home. Last week, we came face to face with one of this boy’s biggest challenges - his aggressive alcoholic step-father, who appeared at the project one afternoon in a rage. T, his little brother and their six tiny cousins were all terrified of him. T’s baby sister died of neglect last year.
Thankfully, T has wonderful cousins who play together without judging, teasing or bullying. They can be themselves. One of his cousins is B - a bright, chatty girl, who follows us around like a shadow. Her mum is a single mum of four, who sells mangoes near the project. B and her siblings and cousins help out when needed. However, B and her siblings are in desperate need of dental treatment, as so many of their teeth are rotten. It was good to be able to teach them about dental hygiene and give them toothbrushes and toothpaste.
M is a troubled teenage boy. His violent father seriously abused his sister and he witnessed it. His father is now serving a life sentence in prison. M is too young to understand what really happened and blames his sister and mother for his father being in prison. Since then he keeps dropping out of school and getting involved in petty crime. I love how the foundation is always willing to give troubled teenagers like M a second (or third, or fourth) chance.
There are many, many children in the S family. The father(s) are absent and the mother recently died. The seven children are being looked after by their older, grown up sister. However, this sister also has a husband a three children of her own. Even with a regular income, the financial burden is too large. The foundation is able to support the children by providing school material, a big lunch, school support and a safe place to play while the older sister is at work.
All the children at the foundation face daily challenges with dysfunctional families, low income and the need to work to support their families. Thankfully, they have people fighting their battles with them - they know they’re not alone and have a safe place to come and chat, eat, learn from the Bible, study and play. There may be battles but there are also so many joys and blessings. They have taught me so much.