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be the change yourself

girls!!! we gotta fail more often!!! we’re so scared of failure and disappointing people and looking stupid that we don’t even TRY things! men?? men brush off failure like it’s nothing! if a man doesn’t get a job he wanted, it’s because they didn’t review his application fairly! it’s because the competition was tough this year! it’s because he just needs to try harder next time! men just DO things!!! and you know what DOING things builds?? confidence!!! even if you fail!! the more you fail, the more confident you are that you can fail and survive! women don’t even wanna try unless they are 100% certain that they’re qualified and competent and won’t disappoint anybody! but that is NONSENSE. men are out there getting positions they’re not even qualified for, while over-qualified but less-confident women are staying where it’s safe bc they’re afraid to rock the boat!!! DO. IT. apply for the thing! ask for the raise! enter the competition! get used to failing ALL the time! fail quickly and move on!!! if a cocky but mediocre man would do it, then for the love of god, GO DO THE DAMN THING. you are SO much more qualified than you think you are.

At Eternity's Gate (2018)

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Drink some coffee and pretend you know what you’re doing.

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Repeat after me:

I am the woman of my own dreams. I require no validation. My wish is my command. My life is my own, I build it. My voice is my own, I let it be heard. I am relentless in my dedication to trusting myself. I am insatiable in my thirst for the extraordinary, and I do not settle for the mediocre.

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“The risk you’re afraid to take could change your life”

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lately i've been carrying a general disinterest and unmotivation towards my life so i started asking myself what is the least i can possibly do ? what is the bare minimum i can possibly do ? what is something that is so close to doing nothing i can do ? it could be simply getting my books out of my backpack, putting them on my desk, opening them, sitting at my desk , reading the first sentence, or paragraph, or few paragraphs, maybe rewriting key formulas as i go, then maybe after a break listen to music while doing practice questions... that's the trick that has been working for me. not setting high expectations for myself. when i start by the least i do not get overwhelmed by the task waiting ahead.

ps: i've applied this to other areas of my life such as exercice, yoga practice as well as reading.