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She/It | girlthing | 30s | does bite(affectionate)

[darkfalli]

hello this is my intro thingy, welcome to my blog!

Please interact if you're a kinky wlw transfem who hates capitalism (other folks welcome too, but am mostly gonna be t4t lesbian posts)

If you have a problem with wlw transfems who hate capitalism, this blog is not for you, and you'll probably get blocked if you try to interact!

If you express bigotry(transphobia, homophobia, misogyny, transmisogyny, racism, abelism, etc), that's a good way to get blocked!

this is a kinky blog, kinkshamers will get blocked

please remember to eat, drink, take your meds, and get sleep

I hope you have a lovely day!

[animepopheart]

★ 【Eien】 「 Handler One 」  ✔ republished w/permission  ☆ follow our YT interview show! 

[mousidy]

a lot of my disillusionment with the trans "community" comes down to the fact that too many of you take "gender is different from sex" and go "ah ok, so instead of saying women are fragile and men are strong, I should say afabs are fragile and amabs are strong. to be Inclusive"

then you just treat gender like a surface level aesthetic draped over what someone "actually" is. really is indistinguishable from terf rhetoric

[mousidy]

you all need to unpack your bioessentialism, but we also need a better theory of gender than "it's just dressup." I will pick my words carefully here, but the word "gender" itself refers to so many different phenomena that have been lumped together, and we need to un-lump them

[mousidy]

in a feminist context, "gender" has historically referred to externally imposed categorization and the internalization and performance of said categories. in a paper I wrote on this subject, I called this sense of the word "extrinsic gender"

"intrinsic gender," on the other hand, is what I used to refer to the sense of the word "gender" that a lot of trans people are talking about when they discuss social gender dysphoria and euphoria. it's the internal sense of category that's resistant to external impositions

but then we also use the word "gender" to refer to subconscious sex, which is the term Julia Serano coins in Whipping Girl to name the phenomenon we're talking about when we talk about bodily dysphoria. it is the "gender" being "affirmed" by gender affirming healthcare like HRT and bottom surgery

so, "gender" is: a social classing system, a performance, and at least two internal phenomena as well. and I really don't know if it's doing us a service to conflate all of these things!

[capnsoapy]

okay but seriously what's going on with [tumblr] moderation right now

[capnsoapy]

okay but seriously seriously

[capnsoapy]

Not even in an "I'm outraged" kind of way, in a "genuinely perplexed as to what could be going on behind the scenes to produce these outcomes." I want to stop staring at the shadows on the wall and exit Plato's allegory of the website moderation

[puppetprincesses]

genuinely all it wonders as it gets banned multiple times a *day* is. what the fuck is happening to make them respond so actively to kill girls with maybe a hundred followers. why? why *right* now? like *this*. it just cant comprehend the cruelty.

[tamamoland-with-a-gun]

tumblr moderation is two thirds AI and two thirds transmisogyny and 0% anything that isn't at least one of those two

[thelensart]

Make my day

[d-e-w-p]

incredibly cool pose, I thought.

Is Archeops gping to land on her arm like a hawk? If so, how heavy is it. Can't be too-

oh

[thelensart]

Divas don't care about numbers

[thelensart]

Had to

[baka-its-not-like-i-really]

[emnesoi0]

[markovchaingang]

you guys do realise walking doesn't actually move you anywhere right? it just destroys you entirely and places a perfect copy of you right in front of where you were standing

[foxgirlmindcrank]

Comm for a friend sorta

Complex girl with many details (very cutes)

[darkfalli]

Is my sona!

[ciosui]

[zoesupreme]

[kriosv]

[foxgirlmindcrank]

Comm for a friend sorta

Complex girl with many details (very cutes)

[not-freyja]

Can everyone who makes video content do a Deaf bitch a favor? Watch your shit with the captions on and the sound off, and then do another round of editing to fix things including but not limited to:

Captions cover the spot on the screen you put the information I need

The dialogue is captioned but not the song you have playing that the dialogue is responding to

You only captioned the person on the screen, not the person off screen who is also talking

No captioning of critical sound effects (alarms, bells, dogs barking, etc)

Speakers are not labelled at moments where it is not clear on the screen who is talking.

Captions cover the spot on the screen that you put the information I need!

Other d/Deaf people welcome to add.

This post brought to you by the fifth video tutorial I could not follow because the bad, auto-generated captions covered what I was trying to watch today.

[interestingmistakes]

Reblogging this manually. Op doesn't want credit for fear of being terminated.

[demilypyro]

surround yourself with many trans women

[mousidy]

on TME/TMA: being mistaken for a transfem and catching strays is not the same thing as actually being a transfem: the actual targets of transmisogyny

I know a lot of trans men want to be TMA reallllll bad because someone mistook them for a transfem once and called them a tranny, but the "Affected" in "TransMisogyny Affected" doesn't just mean you have been Affected by transmisogyny at some point--it means it affects you, inescapably, in uncountably many more ways than just random harassment, every minute of your damn life. and it worms into your brain and stays there, because you ARE the tranny they were talking about

you may be a tree near the target and catch the occasional stray, but you are not the target

[mousidy]

[storyweavingspider]

I had a really good example of this pop up on the bus a while back. TLDR an older cis woman accused of being transfemme was protected by several people, while I, visibly transfemme, was not when the same person started threatening me.

Reblog by @storyweavingspider

💬 11  🔁 1676  ❤️ 2448 · Transphobia is so fascinating sometimes because I just got an example of why “everyone is transmisogyny affected” is

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[milf--adjacent]

As much as I appreciate the support and understanding of the TME persuasion, it is endlessly disgusting and disheartening that all to frequently it takes someone who isn't transfem talking about how they see the axis of oppression is real to convince people we transfeminists aren't just manhating-ugly-chronicallyonline-sexpredator troons who should be hunted for sport 😾