20+ years of age trans masc who reblogs anything of interest if i reblog your post that you don't want me to reblog then please let me know+the actual post because i have poor memory and will not remember what it was Might reblog nsfw but that's not my main thing, be sure to curate your own online experience, don't like don't read, block button is free
national suicide prevention
national domestic violence hotline
national sexual abuse hotline
trans lifeline and resources
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as a polish queer woman and human rights activist, i know exactly how you're feeling right now and what to expect from these elections. i li
abortion clinic fund donation link
transgender law donation link
I'm Fidencio, he/him 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ 20+
Just be polite, i don't really have a do-not-interact or DNI list. I just block folks if they're transphobic, racist or something. I guess that's my DNI list and rules:
Don't hate people for arbitrary reasons and don't incite violence/hate.
This blog is basically for anything and everything. From sfw to nsfw. This blog itself isn't focused on anything in particular, however i can't say the same for most of the folks i reblog from so be sure to check that OP or something.
All i can say is curate your own online experience and if something you see isn't your vibe then block button is free plus there's a function to block or filter tags and even content.
Asks are usually on anonymous mode for this account, mainly for those who like anon cause of anxiety or privacy. It will be taken off as needed but like mainly for those that spam angry rants or something.
Asks are almost always open, and i am open to nearly any topic except scat kink and snuff/death . Will talk about literally anything else like talk about gastrointestinal parasites because i find parasitology and learning about diseases fascinating. Mostly into talking about either fandom stuff, monster lover stuff (especially worldbuilding and logistics, doesn't have to be explicit but can be- ), and any and all animal facts (birds are a favorite but i will talk about literally any creature from vertebrate to invertebrates, mammals lizards bugs worms parasite etc)
personal writing/fics master list <- Link is fucked I'm so sorry, my hashtags/tags for writing is #fiden writes and i generally tag the fandom for most all fics of x reader on it so yeah. #fiden rants is more personal and can contain literally anything so really take that with a grain, a very very large grain of salt
Current interests:
Got dropped into a ghost story still gotta work/GSGW 🌟
One Piece 🌟
Whatever faggotry (affectionate) is happening btn Gus and Shawn in Psych (they are married in my mind)
Creature art
My harpy oc and my various tragedy dog ocs that aren't concrete but that i think about a lot (pls ask about them 🥹)
donkey
Centaurs and taurs in general
Fandoms i will yap for and/or know about (in descending order of interesting)
-gsgw ghost story gotta work 🌟
-i know fuck all about One Piece but I'm interested
-HOCKEY pls God tell me about drama there i need yandere hockey ideas
-harpies
-CENTAURS
- freak circus
-Monster Hunter (specifically for my ocs and also monster Hunter stories my beloved and my toxic doomed yaoi coded Simon monster rider)
-Rune factory 4, Rune Factory: Guardians of Azuma (Cuilang my beloved- not the only one but shh)
-Homicipher
-Cloud Meadow (pls i need fellow fans of this game pls talk to me about the monster fucker farmer who helps acclimate monsters to society)
-Okami and Okamiden
-Old Harvest Moons and subsequently Story of a Seasons when the dev team diverged. I just love farming sims so much
Marine facts- Anything nature or organic or biological sciences- Art (especially creature designs)- Monster fics - Yandere fics
Current Energy Level:
Want to write but my usual interests are waning but I'm trying gang
Fic recs/ good posts/ recommended and mental health posts ↓↓ below cut cause there's a lot
My links are currently dead due to Tumblr bullshit so warning that they're all dead until i fix all of them
Defining dom and sub roles in roleplay post. In depth. Kink education
Yandere twst Yandere dream Riddle fic where he's basically a monster house. Really fucking good
Human pet ideas, Humans can't find out they're pets due to the fact it would end terribly for aliens. interesting ideas
Isekai idea: modern person gets by via pretending to be a doctor plus how difficult it was to make medicine back then
Super cool art reading with cool monster drawings (giant round featured monsters with distinct stereotypically matronly style)
Cooking when poor as fuck (resources)
American Girl dolls: history long post.
Asexual writing smut: why having to explain something not intrinsic ends up making you better at explaining it, fish don't have a word water
Butter rice recipe (funny story and delivery as well)
Media resources instead of YouTube
Autism and changelings
Eel pit guy (ethical)
Declaring a stranger is an egg, forcefem (force gender) overlap with dysphoria, terf and detransition, and the dangers of outing someone and misgendering someone of any gender. post
gender, lesbianism, trans, embracing gender freedom and expression. do not hate the butch, the femme, the trans, the masc, the gender freedom.
Mega post about fashion, fabric and clothing history (super cool)
Scorpion and frog timeloop love story
Anatomy references, sex education and genitalia references (educational)
National parks and nature: it can kill you, people are dumb, don't mess with nature, it's beautiful and it will kill you also reading recs in this
Cheese guy airport story uplifting -family drama but also diversity, very fun
Socially anxious orca at the fetish club mmo
Men and boys need physical affection too. The world needs love and affection.
Magic flute play, dorky bird man animation
No evil lives in this kingdom, it starved to death before i was born (not grand action not reactive just good planning)
Sphinx romance: tragic, lovely, dementia and the sphinx trying to come up with riddles that her lover can answer
Psa, do not conform, queer solidarity, it's either all of us or none of us.
Homelessness, be kind to your neighbors, you are all people
Pain information, take your meds, suffering is not noble, the medicine scientists are sad
Anarchy and Grand jury: survival
Drag Kings Post fuck yes
Tumblr advice to navigate it
Inconvenience yourself for your health. Learn things, combat learned helplessness
Post about how abusers have to be able accept and be able to improve themselves or risk relapsing and believing they will always be an abuser and thus never moving on. Allow room to grow and move forward.
Building mastery and therapy, studying the blade is a coping mechanism and gaining more is also good (semi comedic but genuinely helpful)
Condom education, proper use, why it matters, sex education
US history, puritans and how American Christianity was founded by several culty sects
Names and choosing them positivity
Action helps. Action inspires change and thus systemic change. Do things that you can feasibly do
Excellent post about thinking before speaking/posting and how it can happen to anyone and everyone
Good punk advice. Good advice. Stuff to do.
Free Media resource (watch stuff)
The noble thief, employees should be allowed to steal. The rich drain life. Helping your fellows cause the rich would shoot you dead for profit
Dream walker yuri- immortal thing x Lady
Drinking virus concentrate, i can be trusted with infectious diseases
Extremely accurate interpretation of nativity scene (humble beginnings and art of Jose and Maria)
Wikipedia, monkey photos and how this means ai art isn't copyrightable cause art needs to be made by humans
Why Americans don't know what's going on (all info is curated and vetted and it's extremely difficult to get access, this is on purpose from higher ups. Further resources in notes and in this post)
Tracy Town usa place that's definitely not being experimented on where they found a weird retainer in posters mouth
The sea eats metal (titanic is decomposing and also wood does better in the ocean and steel is used cause it's stronger)
Enlightened one helping others budhisattva
Cute kinder egg positivity
Plague doctor appreciation post
Abuse is long lasting. An eye for an eye makes the world blind. Breaking the cycle post
Sex negativity detracts from ability to view art as art in porn and vilifies the fact that sex is natural like hunger or thirst
BLOOD IS IMITATION SEA WATER (sorta a myth style but very true)
Vocabulary added! New phrases besides herculean task!
Solxamber's super sweet twisted wonderland fic where everyone comforts reader very lovely very cute
Balto and togo vaccine sled run
INCREDIBLE absolutely AMAZING dungeon meshi/delicious in dungeon analysis
Holy fuck what a read "dreaming about an entirely different life and grieving it after awakened by a lamp"
Pool stranger "she tore me open but she taught me a lot about love" post (very sweet, kid gets saved and stranger learned about how even just existing can save a life. very sweet)
Ecofascism and the myth of overpopulation (informative)
Floyd leech eating the fuck out of a fortune cookie (ruggie is appalled) animation
Ancient Egyptian leatherworking and the leather fishnet/mesh underwear post (history and leatherworking)
Dinosaur cloaca post (informative and funny)
Pomefioredove's comfort fic for awkward reader
Sol's kalim x reader fic (so good so fucking good omg)↓↓
Brighter than the sun- Kalim al Asim by Solxamber
Really good Jamil viper x fem reader smut (yandere) by cataclyysmiic
Really cute and AMAZING sebek x gn reader fic cafe shop meeting bodyguard actor au fic by zgvlt
Post about positivity and affection from pets
Yandere jade leech android by merakiui (very good, warning for death but not to reader)
Big dudes being cute long post (good for reminders not to judge based on appearances)
Another vil Schoenheit fluff fic banger from Solxamber (vil is out of it from anesthesia)
Peak athletes body positivity (w/ photos) body diversity post
Positivity post about loving yourself as you age (gender inclusive)
Transmasc sock method
Please read this man’s description of his dachshund and its most annoying habit
“I have a ridiculous dog named Walnut. He is as domestica
Health care stuff
Finch - Your New Self Care Best Friend
^ I've used this and it's genuinely nice. It's gentle, it's not pushy, no guilt, it's uplifting, there's a cute bird, you can add friends, it has actually mental health exercises in it. It's free.
Free worksheets, treatment guides, and videos for mental health professionals. Topics include CBT, anger management, self-esteem, relaxation
You feel like shit. That sucks. You Feel Like Shit is a game designed to help you help yourself through your shitty times and practice self
Introduction to the Analog Brain - Skip the intro and go to the tool - Sometimes (lots of times) (all the time), I have the urge to do
^ pdf to help you
^ full of tools to help when you aren't up to thinking or need to make a list but don't know where to start. Good for meal plans and recipes and to do lists. Really good if you have adhd and brain fog or just low energy and can't compute that to do list
I was in Mormon brain jail concurrently to when Elizabeth Smart was kidnapped and held, as it turned out, like 20 miles away from us. We would see billboards when we were driving past in our big white institution van, and we would see magazines in the checkout aisle, on the rare occasions we were allowed to enter shops accompanied, about Elizabeth Smart being held somewhere by some guy. This teenage girl who had been kidnapped and brainwashed and held basically in the next valley over. I don't remember how long she was with him, but this was when everyone was freshly looking for her and panicking about how she had been abducted and was being held against her will and brainwashed. Her picture was EVERYWHERE.
So. Imagine dozens of other teenage girls, being held against their will and brainwashed in Utah, seeing these billboards and going, "huh. I'm having a complicated emotional reaction to all of this. It's possible that I might unpack that in two to three decades."
Both of these situations arise from the same societal attitudes. This guy wanted a teenage girl to be trapped with him and unable to leave, regardless of her feelings on the matter, and for her to act a certain way and comply with his desires. He took her from her home and forced her to be somewhere she did not want to be and would not let her go, and he tried to turn her into a different thing. The difference in societal reactions to when one specific, unauthorized guy does this, compared to when someone's parents pay a fancy sounding institution to do it for them, tells you a lot about how we think about the autonomy of teenage girls.
In Utah, the reason these types of institutions are allowed is because their youth rights laws are abysmal even compared to the rest of the US. Children aren't people, they're the property of their parents. Elizabeth Smart's parents didn't want her to be kidnapped, so it was bad. Our parents did want us to be kidnapped, so it was fine.
Elizabeth Smart’s kidnapper’s crime was that he didn’t go through the established system for kidnapping and brainwashing teenage girls. This is not even a little bit hyperbolic.
Some ppl are confused about this, I recommend at the very least reading the Wikipedia article on the troubled teen industry. For more info, you can listen to Paris Hilton's podcast Trapped in Treatment or the Salt Lake Tribune's podcast Sent Away (or both). This is something you probably should know about if you have any interest in mental health treatment or youth rights in the USA. (Thanks Kuzu for the latter two recs!)
The types of institutions I'm referring to, which operate primarily in Utah, accept kids who have no criminal history or history of drug use, which is usually a requirement in other states, or that is my understanding of how it worked at the time I was imprisoned. And I am equally against them in both cases, to be clear. 👍
Disco Elysium is so effective at putting you in the shoes of a mentally ill heart attack survivor who is currently experiencing withdrawal from Every Drug that when you level up and gain the ability to do something most people can do as a matter of course it legitimately feels game-breaking.
Not shaving and not wearing make up are literally nonbehaviors. They’re a complete lack of action. But doing nothing is considered masculine because women are not allowed to just be. this goes double for trans women.
