If you are a white man who is interested in black women, I hope you know that it’s not enough just to love black women. You have to love black men, black children, and black communities as well. If you want to be with a black woman, you need to respect her culture, her family, her people, and her struggle. Otherwise, what you’re doing is merely a continuation of what white Americans have done to black people since the first slave ships arrived - undercutting the prosperity of an entire race solely for personal benefit. You see, in a society where black men are marginalized, abused, and incarcerated disproportionately more than any other race, it is often the women who serve as the glue that holds black communities together. So if you can’t respect the unique and often tortuous journey her people have taken to get here, and if you aren’t willing to do what it takes to help her people take the next step forward toward prosperity, all you are doing is stealing one of the black community’s most precious resources. The idea that you need to “get one of those” is gross to me on so many levels, but I guess that is to be expected from a society that largely views black women as a fetish. The true power of black women rests not in their curves or flawless skin, but in their strength, passion, resiliency, poise under pressure, and commitment to their loved ones and their community. If you invest in that vital resource then you will become a part of what allows today’s black communities to flourish despite all that is done to hold them back, but if you take away that resource solely to satisfy your hard-on for big butts then you are hurting a race of people who have suffered too much already by the hands of white men. If you want to be part of the solution then you have a lot of growing up to do, but if you want to be part of the problem, continue sexualizing black women and wondering why you can’t find one who wants you.
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