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Before I writing anything about Love Lock, I want to reflect on the meaning of this ritual which is resonated with couples.

It is all about opening your hearts and lives to one another. Finding that partner who is the only key who has made it till here, so that you know why it never worked with anyone else. Just like every problem has a solution, every lock has a key. A key, who has made LOVE possible!

A soulmate is one, to whom you feel safe enough to open the lock, show our true selves and be loved for who we honestly are and not for the pretentions world desires. No matter what goes wrong around us, we will always feel secure in our paradise.

It's like two balloons who have found each other and moving in up direction. If so, then probability is that you have found the right partner. Everything that remained unsolved in your heart has come to life. The key to love is inside all of us, it's only until that mate unlocks! 🔐

Do not hold onnnn... Let people go when they want to go. Only when the past clouds pass new ones arrive. The actual ones who are meant to stay will find their way. Do not spend too long on something/someone not meant to you. Time is precious and you have one life. #passingclouds #letgo #relationships #loveyourself #loveforlifeandbeyond #loveyourlife #respectandlove #ashwiniajjappa #prioritiesoflife #setpriorityright #lifeandlove

High Maintenance and High Standards are two different things. Don’t confuse!

More often people jump to a conclusion that just because you do not want to settle for any guy who would not treat you right, it means you are looking for someone who can spend thousands of rupees or give all his time to you and make you as his priority. Noooooo… Wrong!!

I am simply a girl who knows what it is like to be treated with Love and Respect. It is easily known when someone values you, treats you well, stands for you and above all do not waste our precious time.

It is never a problem in admitting that we have some seriously high standards. It makes you a woman you truly want to be. I personally do not like men spending money on me all the time. Relationships have so many things worthwhile more in getting to know each other than to do with money. A real woman will treasure memories and experiences. It is more about an emotional connection than about material things for her.

#highstandards #highmaintenance #beingwoman #womanofsubstance #womanoflove #realwoman #ashwiniajjappa #beingme #relationshipsdie #loveandrespect #loweffort #selfesteem #respectwoman #respectforwomen

Kindness is of the highest form of intelligence. That which specially grows in the midst of challenges, circumstances and in distress. It is not some action shown to or by kids or some aged adults. It is also often discounted as weakness or unimportant. But let me tell you, kindness has the ability to change someone's day and bring in that hope. It can be a small compassionate act but can create a better safer and happier world more humane. If you are one who wants to make a difference, try kindness! It's within you!!😇🧚🙌💝🕊️ #ashwiniajjappa #beingkind #kindness #loveforpeopleandbeyond #loveforlife #alwayspossible #loveyourself #compassionateliving #livinginpeace #onelife #livetofullest

We are so bound by wordly affairs and become what the world wants us to be rather than being ourselves.

Because, the world constantly reminds a man to perform well, make more money, be mentally strong, be dynamic, and more competent…. not with another man but more than a woman. This inturn has such a negative impact. So when a women does better, is smarter or even earns more than his man, his ego is easily hurt.

When a man is questioned about his abilities, he forgets being a person he is meant to be and tries to achieve more by joining the rat race. Whereas self esteem is a very personal thing for any women as she wants to be confident in one’s own worth or abilities.

A woman does not want to outdo men or compete with a man. A man and a woman equally need each other in every step of their life. While the Man wants to be Loved, the Woman wants to be Accepted.

In the rage of EGO many relationships die. My humble request and advice would be to set a priority to relationships and not to society’s offerings. 💖🙏😇💞

#ashwiniajjappa #egoandselfesteem #egoinrelationships #manandwoman #menandwomen #killego #womenselfesteem #maleego #loveandacceptance #beloved #beaccepted #saverelationships

When you are in your bad days, you look around to find people happy. But let me tell you, they’re not. Every one of us struggle in their own way, every single day. While some sob, crib and stay depressed, many won’t talk about it. Truth is, you will know you’re not alone in such journeys when you share experiences. There is no feeling of embarrassment as many of us fight more or less similar battle. Remember…… There is always someone who can understand you and some one who can relate to you. You are never ALONE… We are never ALONE!

The only realisation one has to have in their life is…

‘I am less than PERFECT!’ ‘I make MISTAKES!’ ‘I am just like another human’

You will see the difference it could make in one’s life. 💖🤗🧚😍

#youareneveralone #ashwiniajjappa #shareyouremotions #shareyourfeelings #beinglonely #beingalone #beingyou #killdepression #beinghuman #beingunderstanding #fightdepression #onelifelivehappy #lifeisagift

John stands truly to be a legend by his simple lines…. “Cause all of me Loves all of you. Love your curves and all your edges, All your perfect imperfections, Give your all to me, I’ll give my all to you.” …… Wowww!

Isn’t this LOVE all about!

There are places that enclose me and places that leave me scalped. There are places that have lost and places that have scrawled. There are highs and there are lows but what makes me HAPPY is that it ain’t PERFECT. 💯

I do not want to be a straight line to belong to a man but would rather want to be a curved to belong to the God. And whoever is seeking for a curvy women like me let him pass through the GOD to reach me.

To all the CURVY women out there… You are the MOST beautiful creature of GOD.💐🧚 Blessed are these hearts that can bend and never be broken. 😇😍

Loads of LOVE!! ❣️💞💗💖💕

#curvedbeauty #curvacious #keepcurvy #curvedasheart #perfectionisimpossible #loveyourbody #bodyshamers #ashwiniajjappa #stayhealthy #stayfit #staminaisthekey #beingfatandfit #loveyourcurves

We are just humans. We cannot be someone who says 'I know everything'. It is simply impossible. Let me tell you a secret for successful living. 😉 You might be an expert and have a great knowledge about something. Similarly, there is another human who is an expert as well in his own area of interest. Now, a man has to learn to share, receive and accept knowledge. You cannot know everything but you can know as many people as you want to know a thing. 😉🤗😇 Having said that, sometimes certain things are beyond human visibility and interpretation. There is covered truth, unknown circumstances, tremors arriving your way. All you have to believe is in your prayers and good will. God is the MaStEr, a SuPrEmE pOwEr who will never let go of his disciples. Your belief and trust in him will never be let down. He shall change your path and will make your realise to thank him for he stopped you from something you never knew about! 🙏😇🧚😍💐 #godandgoodwill #supremepower #beliefingod #trustingod #beliefandtrust #ashwiniajjappa #lifeisachallenege #lifeissimple #simpleisdifficult #miraclesoflife #tremorsoflife #goodwill #GODiseverywhere #Godisinus

BUSY!

A word used when one wants to run away from someone or something.

Setting priorities right in your life is of utmost importance. When someone does not take an effort to put you in their priority list, never bother asking for one. When someone actually tells they are busy, it does not reflect their schedule but does reflect YOUR spot in their schedule.

Everyone exists but fail to be a human. Humanity is what we are losing these days. If we appreciate our living then we equally should respect another person’s existence. Yessss, people are complicated and one different. They may not be a connect to you but can be on someone else’s list. Telling people that you are not their priority and closing on it is more humane than having them hanging on to you.

Being BUSY is a Myth. Being HUMAN is Real. Choose wisely! 😇🙌🤗

#BUSY #Beinghuman #mythandreal #ashwiniajjappa #traveldiaries #loveforlifeandbeyond #lehladakhdiaries #nubravalley #indiatours #travelworld #knowingpeople #understandrelationships #loveyourself #respectabeing

3P Alert!!! 😊

All a woman wants is to be Protected, Provided & Pampered and only a real man owns it all.

A woman truly cherishes her womanhood and will love being a woman in presence of her good man. Only his strength can allow her feminine heart to bloom. His pursuit can bring out her beauty. And in presence of a real woman, a man loves being himself. Her admiration and support will always bring out his strength. Her beauty arouses his being and inspires him to be a real hero.

A good man would know all he has to do in being his woman’s man and in return he will gain his woman. A woman is truly a reflection of her man when she knows she is still all of this and more.

#beingwoman #beingman #manandwoman #ashwiniajjappa #lovebeingyourself #beingloved #loveforlife #relationships #acceptingloveasis

When a woman gives herself into a relationship, she makes it all about him. One who gives every thing in the beginning end up being the hurt most. Well… that’s what woman are capable of, to love unconditionally.

I always wonder about people coming back after they have left. In a relationship talking into to find the possibilities to stick to each other is always an option. If it still doesn’t work, you walk out. Makes sense! BUT why come back.

You deserve someone who never leaves when you are in trouble, when you tell about things that happened to you, when you narrate things you don’t like about yourself, when someone else is trying to get his attention, when bad things are lined up, when fearlessly you are showing your emotions, when you show your passion, when you display crazy love, and even when you show your hatredness.

You simply deserve someone who stays no matter how dark it gets. It’s a colorful LIFE and definitely gonna have all the colours in it. Even though we have that one person wish could come back, what we really need is someone who never leaves.

#loveneverleaves #loveforlifeandbeyond #beingyourself #loveisacceptance #woman #beingwoman #beingselfmadewoman #beinginlove #rightkindofmen #menandwomen #manandwoman

#BeliefinGod #ashwiniajjappa #beprepared #goodisyettocome #colorsoflife #loveforlifeandbeyond #loveyourself

One lie leads to another… yet another and another. By the time you figure out u have too many lies in your basket, you have come too far by walking just on carpet of lies.

You may be an excellent player but what if everytime your games are dirty. Either you are addicted to winning or never want to lose it to your ego. Either ways, you shall continue with a series of games just to put yourself first in every event of you life.

I believe people play games only because they neither are brave enough to face failures in life nor have courage to be true to oneself and others. But darling…. How long?!

If you keep running away from what life throws at you, you will eventually lose what ever you have falsely gained. Note that: What is meant to stay.. Stays and what is meant to part… Parts!😇💞💐😊

#mindgames #lieovertruth #truthoverlie #choosetruth #beinghuman #beinghonest #ashwiniajjappa #loveforlifeandbeyond #loveforlife #loveyourself #acceptfailures #losingissteppingstoneforsuccess #losetowin #nomindgames #nogameswithlove #noplayingwithlove

Fellas… Take no offense….

Your masculinity does not define you. A lady won’t love you for your heavily built body, well a girl might! 😉

Redefining masculinity: One who is accepting responsibility than defying it. Values and respects the ladies and other men of the house and even outside. Cares and protects his family. Does the understanding before he reacts and never afraid to show his other side too, proving that he is a LION and not a PEACOCK.

Again… I am not saying only MAN has to do all the learning rather saying he has the potential to even make HIS WOMAN to master the skills and combine them in creative ways.

All it takes is some effort in being the man a woman needs. Knowing what you both want for your own life and for the relationship. You might be surprised to see a woman turn into what you actually want with all that she gets from a supporting husband. A real woman would never walk unheard, unfelt, unobserved or unnoticed by every little thing her man does for her.

If she does, alas… she ain’t a REAL woman!

#beingwoman #beinglove #ashwiniajjappa #loveforlifeandbeyond #manandwoman #relationships #marriage #beamanwomanwants #beawomanmanwants #needsandwants #keeptitsimple #simplelife

Whoever said being human is difficult, try being a woman!

It is always easy to hate and find faults. But trying to be near to perfect or being someone whom people can love and accept is everything that is wonderful.

Love is a feeling when expressed and shared you receive it back. Everyone wants to be greeted well, cared for, and deserve that respect. When even you tend to stand one amongst them, then you equally need to share to receive it.

Next comes the hard part! People entering your life have no hard and fast rule to stay. They are destined to either walk away and teach a lesson or stay to be a part of lesson. Either ways, you don’t break when you know all these are written and meant to happen. Being glad about colors of life is itself an achievement.

No matter what shit life throws at you, never lose your composure nor let go your self. All the hardships or mellow drama should only nurture you and not change your being. If you are a person who wishes good to everyone and intend to only spread love and smile, continue doing it. My lady… that’s when you win over hearts!

#easytolove #hardtobreak #impossibletoforget #ashwiniajjappa #beingwoman #beingloved #spreadlove #spreadsmile #maturity #loveforlifeandbeyond #loveyourself #standstrong #gracefulattitude #attitudeforlife

Ask... Believe.... Receive!! 😊😇

When I ask you what does ‘I LOVE YOU’ mean… You would pause before saying anything. This is not because you do not want to answer, it’s cos your mind says what would make my love stay and not walk away! You simply do not want to lose on that happy moment, or being together.

Falling in love is a real journey where at every stage there are uphill climbs and slippery slopes, cosy snugs and breezy trails and everything in between.💘

There is a different meaning to when you say ‘I LOVE YOU’ for the first time to an year into the relationship. (Or even past 😉) These three dangerous words change it’s definition throughout your journey. Whether you say it with laugh or tears, say it first thing in the morning or before going to bed, say it once a day or many a times, say it for a month or for an year, there is some love present. 💞

Reason could be: ‘I care for you’ ‘I’m there for you’ 'I’m committed to you & our relationship’ 'I want the best for you’ 'I need you’ 'I want to wake up with you’ 'I am attracted to your beauty & brains’ 'I laugh with you’ 'I am myself with you’

Over the years,(or till the last breath) when one really wants to not just use them as words but have the real meaning lie within one’s heart and soul for the one you loved, then it simply means you weren’t just there for the pretty parts, stayed no matter what!

💕💝💖😇

#truelove #loveforever #lovegrowswithyears #relationships #ashwiniajjappa #loveforlifeandbeyond #loveforlife #ILOVEYOU #loveprevails #lovenomatterwhat

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