so like how many years does it take to stop comparing everyone to your ex that treated you like a goddamn queen but couldn’t be loyal 😩 these other guys have no clue what to do with me

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@daziedaydream
so like how many years does it take to stop comparing everyone to your ex that treated you like a goddamn queen but couldn’t be loyal 😩 these other guys have no clue what to do with me
if you’re not silly fuck you
boy oh boy do i need a 3 hour make out session
in the ocean in the rain with nothing on but sombreros
Stop doing out of character things to teach someone a lesson or try to “get even.” It doesn’t prove a point, it just pulls you out of alignment with who you are. I won’t do anything out of character to prove a point to their disrespect. I’m not matching anyone’s trash energy or try to prove a point or anything to someone who disrespects me. That’s just too close to proving myself to someone who already showed me is beneath me
A person with good values can you see your worth even if they can’t reach it. And they act accordingly or leave respectfully. Really need you guys to understand this
Once a person disrespects you, lowering yourself to their level just shows you’re willing to abandon your standards to match their behavior. And the moment you do that, you blur the line between what you tolerate and what you become
Real power isn’t in retaliation. It’s in restraint, clarity, and boundaries. It’s in being so grounded in your standards that disrespect doesn’t provoke you, it disqualifies them
You don’t teach people how to treat you by acting like them. You teach them by what you allow, what you ignore, and what you walk away from. If a person doesn’t treat you how you treat them or deserve to be treated, you leave. “Easier said than done.” Not really
It only feels hard when you’re more attached to the person than you are to your standards. When you are looking for love outside of yourself, because you’re not giving it to yourself. When you start valuing your peace, your self respect, and your time more than temporary connection, the decision becomes extremely clear. If it doesn’t feel that way, then you’re just not at the place with yourself I am describing. Because it indeed becomes extremely clear
You’re not losing them. You’re choosing yourself
And that’s the standard. You should never lower or lose yourself to keep anyone
shut uppppp for just 5 seconds or i will not be able to gather my words to respond to your millions of empty words
“you’re too little for that” i love you ♥︎ say it again
you know what would be nice? lying in bed with my head nestled on your chest, listening to the rhythm of your breathing... having your nails scratch my scalp while my eyes are closed, not sleeping just... existing, happily. "i like holding you like this, y'know. you always get so sleepy, baby. are you comfy?" a silly question bc ofc i am, but i respond anyway, "mhm. very much so." your hand dips a little lower, caressing the back and sides of my neck. "mmm" i exhale and turn into you, pulling you closer. your perfume smells wonderful, my new favorite scent. "you're such a puppy when you get like this, it's adorable." it's a harmless tease and i don't mind it at all bc you're absolutely right, i am. please don't make me move 🥺
Every little kitten loves some head scratches.
Forgive yourself for all the wrong things you did just to be loved.
best efforts
sympathy magic, florence and the machine
you, after you i’m new
Need my stress fucked out
…🥺… pls
stop looking at me 😭