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Hi my name is Sierra and I have just given birth to my beautiful son 4 days ago. I was … Sierra Abrams needs your support for Help Sierra w

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Kiki’s Delivery Service | ‎魔女の宅急便 (1989) Spirited Away | ‎千と千尋の神隠し (2001) My Neighbor Totoro | となりのトトロ (1988)

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You don’t remember your name? No, but for some reason I remember yours. SPIRITED AWAY (2001) dir. Hayao Miyazaki

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Yes

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melisica

l'un des nombreux

k-eke

Relax and have a spoopy massage.

keikomivra

Castiel ➤ Wings

shizukku

kimetsu no yaiba week- DAY 2: Favourite Pillar

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what I actually mean when I send the kissy face emoji

nemomoses159

At what point in an argument do you stop explaining your side when the other person doesn’t get it. When they don’t feel like they did anything wrong or it’s all on you, is it still worth it to keep arguing the point or do you drop it and forget it. It’s not a pride or ego thing, its something that if you let go you’ll always feel like you were never able to get your side across and it will fuck with you down the road.

ginger-ale-official

‪If I were The Godfather I would greet everyone based on my daughter’s schedule for the day. “You come to me, on the day of my daughter’s McDonald’s job interview”‬

furiousgoldfish

Abuse masked and presented as concern is the worst to combat, how are you supposed to figure out that person who seems honestly scared and concerned for you is only saying it with intent to control you? how are you supposed to not give the benefit of the doubt that this person might care about you, that they might be worried for you, that it’s hurting them when you do things they say are bad for you or dangerous for you? abusive parents are able to convince everyone, even you, that everything they do is out of worry, to make sure you’re safe, because if you went off on your own it would be too much, that you need them to stay alive. It puts you in position where you have to watch what you’re doing, you have to stop doing activities that cause them to “worry”, you have to pretend in front of everyone that you’re okay even when you’re not, because otherwise you’re making your abusers “worry” about you. I’m so sick of it and it’s so hard to dismantle. Abusers can burst into tears out of fake worry only with intent to keep you trapped, to keep you guilty and to keep you controlled. And they feel nothing while doing it, they would break your heart and feel nothing, only desire to control, to keep you in the dark, to keep getting away with abuse.

Someone who hasn’t experienced real care and love couldn’t possibly know that it’s freeing, it’s opposite from being confided in tight walls of what you’re allowed and not allowed to do, it’s supportive, it’s caring in the way that doesn’t stop you from doing whatever you want to do.

Abusers have no interest in protecting you! Abusers have no interest in keeping you safe! They’re very interested in making you feel guilty and like you owe them something, they’re interested in making you stay right where they can keep abusing you, they’re interested in making you believe you’re actually hurting them if you resist their rules and orders, that your free will is theirs to do as they please with. If you are unhappy, and someone is trying to keep you where you’re unhappy, telling you how much they would worry or be hurt if you were anywhere else, don’t fall for it. Your own life is more important than that. What you want matters more than keeping someone else worry-free. Seek out people who believe in you instead. People having faith in you is much more powerful than people worrying about you.