Ladies, I promote hypergamy (“marrying up”) and following your aspirations/achieving your dreams. You may not agree with everything I say, but this piece of advice is something I hope you will remember. Especially my younger ladies who follow me.
1. Do not build a man. Do not support a man financially. I have 2 friends right now that spent thousands of dollars supporting their “boyfriends” (rent, one bought him a car, other paid for school). These men did not work or do anything, just sat back and “promised” that they would “pay them back in the future”.
Today, both of these friends are HOMELESS. IN DEBT. And lost their JOBS. Where are their “boyfriends”? Living comfortably because they had been saving up their money. One of them even has a new girlfriend who he cares for financially 100%.
I cannot make this up. This is the reality for most women who do this. There is NO reason that you should be financially supporting your boyfriend. Even if you “want” a “50-50″ relationship (scam, does not exist, do not do this, you will always give more) why are you supporting a man that is not your HUSBAND? Make it make sense!
2. Do not be a doormat. This isn’t just with men, do not let people walk all over you (friendships, work, etc). If someone does something that crosses a boundary you either need to voice it or remove yourself entirely. Do not let someone cross your boundaries twice.
3. Keep certain things on the low. If you’re applying for a new job, wait until you have the job to share. If you’re buying a new home, wait until everything is confirmed before sharing. If you are dating, keep it vague. This tip is mostly towards friends and certain family members (jealous family members, narcissists). Not everyone is celebrating with you, so be careful who is allowed access to you and your life.
4. Always have multiple streams of income. If you only have 1 right now, change this ASAP. I don’t care if your second stream of income only makes you $10 a month. Start, and keep going.
5. Learn to say no. No explanation needed. Just no.
Ladies, this is basic advice, but a lot of you don’t know this. If you do not know the basics, hypergamy will not come easy for you. Study up.
izzy806
germansingergirl
jacobvanloon
