Demisexual Comics

A Blog telling the story of human beings who are strange and quirky, only 2% of which has to do with the fact that none of them are very interested in sex. Pronouns: (Mod Lyca) She/Her (Mod Bliix) They/Them (Mod Sora) They/Them (Mod Luna) She/Her Ask Box: Open

[emerypens]

a lil vent doodle about when i finally started to understand a part of myself

a very gay part of myself

[demiace-ask]

My coworker: You’ll never get a girlfriend wearing anime jackets everywhere

Me: Glad I’m homoromantic then

[demiace-ask]

ngl if a dude walked up in a Naruto jacket, said “hey can i buy you some sushi?” and gave me flowers, that would be the Catch All for me, lads

~ Mod Lyca

[i-am-a-fish]

touch this post and feel the power of gay course through your veins

[demiace-ask]

Me: Pines after someone for 2 years

Me: ... think I’m fine now

Them: hey :)

Me:

I’m super gay

~M.Luna

[genderqueerpositivity]

Part 4

(Image description: the gray asexual, gray aromantic, butch, queer loving queer, lesbian, and polyamorous pride flags with centered cursive white and black text, the text reads “______ magic” with each identity represented by it’s own flag.)

[demiace-ask]

My coworker: You'll never get a girlfriend wearing anime jackets everywhere

Me: Glad I'm homoromantic then

[tblmemesbr]

[why-do-i-need-to-type-a-name]

Oshit

[fortjester]

[actualmichelle]

:D

[candidcaleb]

[wickedwonderlandd]

[i-am-a-fish]

LET BOYS WEAR SKIRTS

LET BOYS SHAVE

LET BOYS PAINT THEIR NAILS

LET BOYS LIKE PINK

JUST LET PEOPLE DO THINGS!!

[demiace-ask]

Come back, y'all are my favorite little cuties and I miss this blog

I know that Bliix and I are both very busy most of the time – he has band responsibilities, instrument training, tests, and a job to work through; I am literally a full-time college student with a part-time job.

As a Comics and Sequential Art major, this blog - and its origin as a place for demisexual/demiromantic/asexual/aromantic positivity, support, and comics explaining my experiences as someone working through understanding what it is to be demi - is one of my very roots. I may not always be active, Anon, but I’m always here, checking in. The problem is that I’m so exhausted and go-go-go all the time now that being able to sit down, draw a Demicomic, and fill up the queue is more than I’m capable of (I know my limits and press them gently. If they get pressed too much, as they have in the past, I am likely to break down, have a panic attack, and get overwhelmed by anxiety for Who-Knows-How-Long. Baaaaaaad way to start a semester).

My intention was to do some comics and be more interactive over my winter holiday. Remember the exhausted part though? I was so exhausted I did 5% social friend things, 95% I’m sitting in my room watching Danny Phantom at 3am eating granola things. I did very little drawing, even for myself.

I continue to promise this, Anon, though I have no idea when I will fulfill this promise – but I swear, I’ve got more to give, and you certainly haven’t seen the last of me or the blog!

~ Mod Lyca

[demiace-ask]

Don’t know if this counts as coming back

But I got a girlfriend and I’ve been spending a lot of time talking to her on the phone and texting her and stuff

~Sorry Mod Luna

[demiace-ask]

Hello everyone, it’s 3:43 AM and I’m listening to Three Days Grace and I should probably sleep but I don’t want to so I am still awake and I know I forgot to do some DemiAce Holiday Content so I will do that when I stop being tired and goofy.

I’m so sorry I’ve been slacking on this blog. I don’t get why I’m so tired and uninspired. I mean, I get it, it’s probably the depression, but I really, really want to do nice, fun things for everyone but I can’t which is STUPID because I can and I should!!! So.... eventually. There will be content from me. Which I keep promising and not really doing anything for but.... the want is there, my dudes. I just need the Will. And then there will be a Way!!!

~ Mod Lyca

[demiace-ask]

GUYS

Guys I just realized it’s our very first DemiAce Holidays!!! And I, THE ULTIMATE FESTIVE FOOL, haven’t done anything for it!!!!

This must be remedied…. immediately

~ Mod Lyca

[demiace-ask]

why am i like this

~ Mod Lyca

[demiace-ask]

GUYS

Guys I just realized it’s our very first DemiAce Holidays!!! And I, THE ULTIMATE FESTIVE FOOL, haven’t done anything for it!!!!

This must be remedied.... immediately

~ Mod Lyca

[demiace-ask]

It’s story time

So uh… I’ve started falling for a boy that’s straight… At least I think… He’s really sweet and caring towards me and always asks my opinion of his sketches when he’s done but I’ve never seen him ask anyone else before.

He once said that I’m very attractive before (honestly made me uncomfortable but like wha-) and another time he said that a light blue flannel I wore really brought out my eyes.

He also held me on the bus for a few moments and I was so effin happy…

One thing is strange though.

He asked me what demisexuality was because he wanted to learn more about it…

Maybe… Maybe he feels connected the same way I do…

~Mod Bliix

[bug-catcher-silva]

See, now I’m super invested and want to know how this turned out…

[demiace-ask]

I mean this is a story that's actually happening to me lol so I guess you'll have to stay tuned

~Mob Bliix

[demiace-ask]

It's story time

So uh... I've started falling for a boy that's straight... At least I think... He's really sweet and caring towards me and always asks my opinion of his sketches when he's done but I've never seen him ask anyone else before.

He once said that I'm very attractive before (honestly made me uncomfortable but like wha-) and another time he said that a light blue flannel I wore really brought out my eyes.

He also held me on the bus for a few moments and I was so effin happy...

One thing is strange though.

He asked me what demisexuality was because he wanted to learn more about it...

Maybe... Maybe he feels connected the same way I do...

~Mod Bliix

[trans-boy-comics]

working on an lgbtq+/ally discord server! itll be up in a few days! :)

[debthedemi]

Demisexuality vs. The World

The definition of demisexuality: not experiencing sexual attraction without a strong emotional bond.

The world: That’s what regular people do.

Reality: What allosexuals do is find someone sexually attractive and get to know the person, most likely via dating for a relative amount of time, to determine if they’re worth a relationship and/or having sex with. Thus, the results determine the action, not the attraction, which was already there.

For a demisexual, the results of interactions with a potential partner determine the attraction, which was not there already. So things like flirting aren’t really going to get our attention because we haven’t established a sexual attraction for the flirter.

There’s a “but” coming:

Even if a demisexual happens to develop a strong enough bond with another person, it doesn’t necessarily mean they will become sexually attracted to them, but they might be more open to intimacy with them.

Personally, unless we have had an honest, engaging conversation that makes me interested in seeing you more often, I won’t say yes to a date, even if I find you aesthetically attractive; and more often than not, I will be turned off if the conversation swings toward my body or sex. First impressions reveal first intentions.