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blog is 18+, but generally sfw other socials under the cut

#reupload since I deleted the fucking post like a dumbass. whoops #please lmk if ive followed you and youre underage it was a genuine mistake I follow 3000 people

which-ocs

Which OC?

#Aether the hedgehog #one day I'll design him

nonbinary-reminder

Maybe don’t assume a binary presentation for a nonbinary character at all! Maybe, the solution to “people assume masculinity for nonbinary characters a lot” is not “lets assume femininity instead.” maybe the solution is actually to stop assuming a nonbinary character has to present one out of two ways. its in the word. non-binary.

EDIT: If you come onto this post to try and tell me “transfem” means “transitioning away from being AMAB” or anything another than simply “trans and feminine”, I will only try to correct you once.

#transphobia #why cant this fucking website be normal about nonbinary people

nadir--nadir

Stop taking your trauma with masculinity out on trans masculine people right the fuck now

#transphobia

lastoneout

I know it's more nuanced than this but I think having a hard policy of thinking anyone who genuinely hates one group of queer people for their identity might as well hate all of us and thus I should block any queerphobic queer person I see can do a lot to save you from believing anything exclusionists say.

"bomb that kills all-" "I just don't get bi women bringing their-" "pansexuality isn't a real thing-" "all lesbians-" "trans men really are the men of the-" "theyfabs-" "pfft aroace people are cringe-" "nonbinary people are actually all-" Instant block. Goodbye. Not listening. It's for both solidarity with your fellow queers AND to protect yourself, because once a person is convinced to hate one group for their immutable traits they can be convinced fairly easily to hate another too, and thus I do not trust them.

Just block these people the second they pop up, they aren't your allies and nothing they have to say is worth listening to.

lastoneout

These types will often try to guilt you into defaulting to their judgement by citing their own identities but that's bullshit. You can, should, and must completely ignore them. A bigot is a bigot, and if you wouldn't listen to a cishetperisex one then you shouldn't listen to a queer one either.

tsunderecamour

and YES this SHOULD and DOES include polyamorous people too

lastoneout

I am poly too and damn straight it does 🤝

lastoneout

AND INTERSEX PEOPLE

isotopeboy

I've seen so many posts lately like "trans men have got to get more feminine" and it's lowkey pissing me off because we haven't even normalized trans men being masculine yet. Have you not been paying attention to trans men when they talk about being kicked out of LGBT spaces for "appearing too cishet" like can we lock in and understand that sexuality and oftentimes gender aren't something you can visually tell before we start trying to normalize something that's already normalized

redstonedust

the thing about fandom is it tends to thrive on unanswered questions and doors left open. space to make up your own bullshit and theorize and headcanon. so to an extent i understand why shipping Two Guys Who Stand Next To Eachother is always so overwhelmingly popular because like. well if you know the writers are never gonna go there then it basically becomes your city now. you're the giant rat who makes all the yaoi. i can't really deny the appeal.