Domestically Disciplined Hillbilly Hubby

Figuring out my new life with my strict wife, @strict-consistent-wifey An ongoing journal of our real life: semi-Trad yet F/m Domestic Discipline relationship.

[hillbillyhubby]

Hey,

I just wanted to reach out and say thank you. Your blog about your wife disciplining you has been really inspirational for both my girlfriend and myself.

Because of what you’ve shared, she has started paddling me regularly, keeps me diapered, and has me in bed by 10pm every night. She’s basically reparenting me now, and it’s honestly been life-changing in the best way.

So thank you for being open about your dynamic. It’s helped us more than you know.

Thank you, I’m glad the blog is helping you out. We are here to share, showing how our dynamic really works for us, in hopes that others can establish the relationship that they need.

Be sure you are following my wife @strict-consistent-wifey and let me know if you have any questions or want to discuss.

Behave yourself!

HH!

[robert-otk]

I'm game!

[hillbillyhubby]

One of the biggest surprises for me when @strict-consistent-wifey and I started a domestic discipline relationship was that she really did not care why. She recognized that strict boundaries, discipline, and consequences was what I needed to feel loved, and that was good enough for her. She was game.

Since then she has asserted her own system and authority over my behavior, but when we started, she just knew I needed my behind tanned good and hard…and she made sure I got it.

I think she understands the psychological benefits at this point, but by now I am her good boy… she got me all straightened out! Right Wifey? Haha

HH!

[just-my-kinky-dreams]

[hillbillyhubby]

There are plenty of benefits to a female led domestic discipline relationship. Oh, I may not like it when I am kicking and squirming over her knee, or when I am getting verbally chastised in public… but there are huge benefits.

One of those is no “silent treatment” or such things. When I mess up, I know I will be held accountable. I also know I will not like the very real consequences, but I know it will be addressed. I do not spend time worrying that maybe I upset her, what did I do… etc.

I will pay dearly for my bad behavior, but that is infinitely better than being ignored. In fact, it is the opposite. She is showing me she loves me too much to let me act up and disrespect our relationship and her rules. So I will treasure that hot bottom as a sign of our dedication to each other.

[beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too]

Fashion #26-19-1

[hillbillyhubby]

I was So, So scared to tell my wife of many years about the need I had for discipline and consequences. But it was of the best things we have done for our relationship. Setting up an F/m domestic discipline relationship was something we went into both seriously and with intention, and it has payed off for us.

While the reason for my fears were unfounded… I was right to be scared. My Wifey takes responsibility seriously, and she is very serious about my discipline. So for serious offenses, I can expect serious consequences.

Like last night, where I was openly defiant in public. She let me know, immediately, out loud and in public, that I knew what that meant and I would be dealt with. Sure enough, at bedtime she absolutely wore my behind out with her heaviest paddle. I deserved it, and I know she does it out of love for me. But Wow did it hurt! I knew better, but this is how I learn, and she seems happy to “provide guidance” when I need it. Behave yourself, folks!

HH!

[just-my-kinky-dreams]

[hillbillyhubby]

I’m beginning to understand what my Mother meant when she used to say that I needed my butt beat every now and then whether I did anything wrong or not. Everyone talks about attitude adjustment, but it is a real, measurable, effective thing.

Behave yourself, folks!

HH!

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[ck-spanky]

eating out chinese!

[hillbillyhubby]

With all of our big planning family commitments out of the way for the Spring, things are settling down. While @strict-consistent-wifey is as consistent as can be, DD is a responsibility unto itself. It helps to have the mental bandwidth to give it the focus that is needed. After a few weeks of pitching into important projects for my loved ones, I’m looking forward to giving more focused attention to our DD dynamic. It’s been good for us, and I hope it will be for many years to come.

HH!

[beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too]

Willing Women #26-17-1

[hillbillyhubby]

When my wife started tanning my hide it did me a world of good. Not just for accountability and consequences. Sometimes I just need to go over her knee to straighten out my head. I can understand and improve my own worldview. It’s that powerful.

If you have questions about how or why we do what we do, or are just curious about our particulars, feel free to reach out. We are here to help others and normalize domestic discipline if it’s the right choice for your relationship. If it works, it works!

HH!

[spankingcouple]

[hillbillyhubby]

Waiting is the worst!

Through a series of unfortunate circumstances, it has been about 2 full weeks since Mama has tanned my behind. There have been a few very, very good reasons however. With today being Sunday, I suspect my luck is about to end.

Focusing on the positive right now. Haha Discipline and accountability are the best thing for me, and that comes with consequences. If I want the positive outcomes on my life, I’ll just have to take my punishment as well.

HH!

[hillbillyhubby]

What are your favorite blogs beside your wife’s, lol.

I just made this account so I’m trying to add new people with similar interests.

@strict-consistent-wifey is the best, of course!

But I always appreciate

@beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too

@cyclepsycho57

@spanked2realtears

@badgnome929

[cyclepsycho57]

[hillbillyhubby]

Even after almost 2 years, I’m still taken aback by just how happily willing @strict-consistent-wifey is to paddle me when I need it. I am very grateful that she is looking out for me, even if I hate the “process.” I want to grow, to care for her as she needs, and to show true remorse when I slip. If it takes a paddling to get us there, I’m “happy” to accept the consequences.

HH!

[strict-consistent-wifey]

How long and hard is an average spanking? Are you able to get him to tears?

I don’t know that I have a great answer to this. They are hard enough to be effective and long enough to be memorable. The goal is consequences for misbehavior and those consequences are relative to the transgression. I’m going to use the example of being late because it’s something important to me, was one of the first rules I implemented, and is always a really good illustration point.

If he’s 10 minutes late and didn’t call, my goal isn’t tears. Will he still get spanked? Yes, absolutely, but it’s not going to be the worst spanking he’s ever had. The goal is to remind/reestablish the rules, as necessary, and provide a deterrent for continued misbehavior. If my goal is always tears, or always to “break” him, then we lose the sense of nuance that some correction is going to be more harsh than others.

[hillbillyhubby]

Do you and SCW have a written domestic discipline contract or written list of rules? What specific rules does she have the will result in you getting a punishment spanking?

We do have a written list of rules. It lives in our shared “notes” app so she can easily update and I can see immediately. @strict-consistent-wifey had a post where she shared most of our rules list, except a few that are personal for us. Check that post out for specifics.

Let me be clear here… Every rule that is broken will get me a spanking. She believes in consistent discipline, and considers a correction necessary each time the rules are broken. Maybe it is just a matter of vocabulary usage, but “punishment spankings” here are usually reserved for the worst offenses, thing that hurt her, our relationship, or our family. Those tend to be much worse. Or the occasional instance that I am completely out of whack and breaking multiple rules frequently. But the rules are not suggestions, and any offense seems to be a spanking offense. 🫤

[bathbrush-marriage-counseling]

[hillbillyhubby]

Welcome back folks! After ~10 days in the Land of the Rising Sun I’m finally back home, and already got myself in a little bit of trouble. During my Sunday night maintenance spanking, Wifey asked me if I had broken any of her rules. At the time, already getting my behind warmed with her hand, it seemed best to say no. But today I had to admit to breaking one of her rules, and she was displeased I did not tell her right away.

I had to tell her. She has cultivated these rules for my benefit, so that I can be my best. But now I was not forthcoming when asked and have to answer for that. Not looking forward to facing the consequences tonight… wish me luck!

HH!

[spanked2realtears]

[hillbillyhubby]

Happy Easter!

So last Wednesday I ended up making a serious of minor bad decisions and oversights that led to a major thrown off schedule for my family. Add to that fact that I was then three hours late getting back from my activity for the day… and you have one furious wifey. Being late is her ultimate disrespect, she hates tardiness. Naturally, she had to discipline me.

I have not been late without her foreknowledge in a very, very long time. I thought maybe that would grant me a little grace. That was not the case. Wifey put me across her knee and paddled the living daylights out of my poor posterior. 4 nights later I can still see a little bruising on my finely formed fanny.

I appreciate that she loves me and wants me to improve. I love that she cares for me enough to take action and correct my behavior. But… a real deal punishment spanking will never, ever be fun. I get it, I respect it, but that does not mean I like “it.” Wifey spanks with love, not with mercy. I need to take her discipline with an open heart and learn. This dynamic has changed a great deal for me. Very much for the better. But I “ better” behave. 😊

HH!

[cyclepsycho57]

[hillbillyhubby]

I’ve been living in a very well planned domestic discipline relationship with @strict-consistent-wifey for going on two years now. I follow the rules, do my best, and give my utmost attention to our family and my wife. If I don’t, I am corrected, and when necessary punished…

It has been exactly what we needed, and done more for us than I ever suspected. If you think this kind of relationship is for you give it some serious thought, I highly recommend it. If you have any questions for us please reach out. I am happy to share.

HH!

[beautiful-when-she-s-angry-too]

Willing Women #26-12-1

[hillbillyhubby]

If there is one regret I have, it is not sharing the idea of starting a domestic discipline relationship with my wife sooner. @strict-consistent-wifey knew that something was missing, that I needed to find a way to stay on track. I knew I needed accountability and effective consequences that I could count on. It really should have happened much sooner.

We are on the right track now. I hope she is pleased, because I see the growth and the strength this has brought to our relationship. I feel her caring for me with every stern word, every time out, and every time warms my behind. I hate the punishment… but it is truly for my own good. So men, if you need a firm hand guiding you, do not hesitate to talk to your partner. Answer her questions, be kind and honest, then get out of her way and let her take over your discipline. It was among the best decisions I could have made.

HH!

[hillbillyhubby]

So I got a bit of a surprise last week. If you will recall, my Sunday maintenance spankings lately have been good stern (emotionally laden) hand spanking over her knee. So last week, after a week of perfect behavior and no corrections I was expecting the same. Imagine my shock to see her “Pearl” paddle sitting on the nightstand. I got a very hard paddling… Wifey didn’t seem to care that I had been good!

After that as she held me I got an admonition to be her good boy this week, and a warning about just what would happen if I was naughty… I was. And she did. But I know what to expect. Clear expectations and consistent consequences are truly the best thing for me.

HH!