Good girls wait for permission

Male, 31. Into female orgasm denial. Be a good girl and don't cum.

[denialanddesperation]

Making her desperate again after a while ❤️

[denialanddesperation]

‘Your traumas aren't your fault. But they are your responsibility. Not the entire world's.’

Okay and when someone is trying to block shit that triggers them and it isn’t tagged properly how is it their fault

Hi. (For context, this was about weed, on a post on someone's blog). What I meant is, it's reasonable to expect certain sensitive topics to be properly tagged as they are trauma-related topics by essence, such as rape or murder. But you can't expect topics that don't fit that category to always be, such as weed. If you've struggled with addiction, I'm sorry and I hope you get better. But you have to work on yourself to react better to the mention of it. Because people will talk about it. That's a completely normal topic for most people. It's not your fault you've had problems in the past but you're not entitled to be warned everytime someone talks about it. I hope you see someone about it, because it's not healthy to react like this at the mere mention of it.

[denialanddesperation]

Hi 🫣 I was reading through your blog, and I'd like to ask what is Cal's Curse? Thank you 😊

Hi, this is an hypnosis audio that supposedly makes you unable to cum without permission. I don't know if it works, I have never tested it or had a sub try it but it's supposed to do that!

[alrighty--aphrodite]

Alright, I've always wanted to try this:

1 like = 1 hour of edging

1 reblog = 1 day of edging

Maybe you can send me asks to help me get painfully wet ;)

[denialanddesperation]

I like the ache but I don’t get the ache in my clit often. Is it because it is not trained enough? How many edges does it need to be dripping and aching. It has not yet met the standards of dripping and aching like those I’ve seen under denial. They turn me on. I’m learning.

Women experience denial differently. You don't have to seek the experience of others, what matters is your own experience. I'd say as long as you edge every day at least and feel the desperation then you're doing it right. Some people aren't horny 24/7 during denial. If you wanna be more desperate try edging more.

[denialanddesperation]

Sir I’ve not cum for almost a year. I listened to Cal’s curse daily. My clit aches a lot. Can I cum sir please. Please give me permission to cum.

"almost a year"

1. Well, get to a year obviously.

2. Ask again off anon. I wouldn't consider saying yes if I don't know anything about your journey.

[lustingnerdydoll]

It’s my birthday 🎉

And it was epic

Birthday denial slut challenge posted

My birthday started with a

A boudoir sexy pinup feel photo shoot Part of my self love journey

I felt like sex on display today

After I spent 7 hours there, I went to lunch dolled up and boho vibes with my tattoos on display

Walks, chats, home, cleaning, family time, then a night on the town.

Finally home !

And what maybe 3 ppl were waiting for

From now until november 15th every note counts on this post. Every like. Every reblog. Every comment. All of it counts

(If we go over the notes potential to add more results. )

Drumroll

5 Notes : Day without panties

10 Notes: Day wearing a plug only+ night wearing a plug

25 notes : workday no undergarments and a plug

50 notes : track bra for an entire day pictures for anyone who asks

75 notes : edge with a lush to start the day wear the lush all day

100 notes : turn off auto correct no corrections -on work day .

150 notes: vibe every hour on the hour for 24 hrs (to time or edge - whichever is first)

200 notes : tiger balm on my cunt and anal plug for a day

225 notes : degrading phrases on my body in sharpie with photo proof (send suggestions)

250 notes : edge with panties on, edge with panties in my pussy. Sleep with edged wet panties as a gag. Photo

275 notes: blows job video on dildo (no face)

300 notes: week no touch. But constant mental stimulation. Begging for your attention begging to be told no and adding a day of denial for all the no’s

325 notes : write a fantasy while edging, edge while reading it with clothespin on tounge-recorded audio

350 notes : week of punishments from tumblr

400 notes : audio of me edging with all holes stuffed

425 notes: video of having to fake an orgasm

450 notes: controlled by tumblr.. lush, hush, tasks, getting you off

500 notes: Polling tumblr for decision on task/punishment/reward that will last for the following month

223 days since I’ve had an orgasm. Atleast 276 until I’m potentially allowed.

I want to make my denial more interesting !

So as previously done, I want to ask the ghosts, few people who follow along, and anyone who stumbles in here to help get me back on track and possibly make me more needy, desperate, humiliated, etc

For every note this post receives, it pushes me further down the path of denial degradation and humiliation.

So like, share, reblog, comments, tell your friends , pass it on Let’s see if this gets anywhere

[annabellesdesires]

These tasks all look so so fun! Reblogging this partly because I want to make your denial more interesting, but also because you look so sexy in that boudoir shoot 😍😍😍

[lustingnerdydoll]

I love all of that ! Thanks luv! 😘

[denialanddesperation]

I haven't cum in so long, I'm horny and needy all the time and even having sex dreams where I wake up at the edge of an orgasm. I'm so desperate, please please can I cum? I want to cum so badly please!

Oh you gave me very good reason. To stay denied. No, what are you thinking? Good girls don't cum.

[justalittlestuff]

I'm just so horny though! Is there anything that'll get you to say yes so I can cum? I'm so desperate and wet...

[denialanddesperation]

If it's been that long, might as well go longer.

I think you asked because you want to be reminded to be good .

[justalittlestuff]

I meannnn I was kind of hoping for a year to be able to cum....

[denialanddesperation]

A year sounds like a good plan, you should do that

[denialanddesperation]

I haven't cum in so long, I'm horny and needy all the time and even having sex dreams where I wake up at the edge of an orgasm. I'm so desperate, please please can I cum? I want to cum so badly please!

Oh you gave me very good reason. To stay denied. No, what are you thinking? Good girls don't cum.

[justalittlestuff]

I'm just so horny though! Is there anything that'll get you to say yes so I can cum? I'm so desperate and wet...

[denialanddesperation]

If it's been that long, might as well go longer.

I think you asked because you want to be reminded to be good .

[denialanddesperation]

I haven't cum in so long, I'm horny and needy all the time and even having sex dreams where I wake up at the edge of an orgasm. I'm so desperate, please please can I cum? I want to cum so badly please!

Oh you gave me very good reason. To stay denied. No, what are you thinking? Good girls don't cum.

[verysecretlykinky]

hi, um, have you ever considered getting a fleshlight, that you can rub when you feel needy? obviously you're not allowed to touch yourself, but maybe that will help you feel better!

i mivht have considered 🙈🙈 also in case i wanted to fuck it with my strapon 🙈🙈 would just be two dumb toys feeling nothing 🥺

[denialanddesperation]

... Two?

[denialanddesperation]

can i have a ruin please? i was bad and sir told me if i can get you to let me ruin then he'll go easy on me

I don't know you so, just in case, I'll say no, you don't need it.

[denialanddesperation]

my pussy aches and is very wet because it has been allowed only ruins for a week! any suggestions what to do about it? <3

Yes, more edges and more ruins. I really don't see any other solution.

[hxrnyonmain-deactivated20220829]

I can't remember the last time I had an orgasm I gotta ask my Dad

[denialanddesperation]

Curious, did you get an answer?

[denialanddesperation]

hi i listened to cal's curse and it worked and i wanna cum so bad, pleasepleaseplease can i cum

You listened to Cal’s curse for a reason. No.

[denialanddesperation]

Hi :) just wanted to say I really like your blog! Also, do you have any tips for an aspiring denial slut? I really want to be a good girl but whenever I decide I’m going to just edge and not orgasm, it makes me so aroused at the thought that I can’t help but tip over the edge 😣

Hi, thanks! Self denial isn't easy, you're going to have to take baby steps. Start with small durations, and increase gradually. Don't be afraid to take it slow. Try to decide in advance for which duration you're going, set reasonable goals and really, stick to it! If you're struggling, try everything to make it as long as it doesnt negatively impacts your life. Making your goals will allow to both get better and understand yourself better. Learn to know your limits, not everyone can go for very long term denial (a year or more), but everyone can push themselves to be the best girl they can be!

[droolkink]

i rlly need 2 never cum again!

i’ll add a day 2 the counter 2 my next orgasm 4 evry note this post gets until may 31st! plz spam replies n reblogs, give my pathetic life meaning!!! 🥰🥰