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do u ever remember all the horrible offensve things u said when u were like 15 and u literally feel ur soul detach and turn 2 dust

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your fave is problematic: yourself

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Basically, yeah. That’s kind of the point – you always have to look back on yourself and be mortified and resolve to be better. Shit, the stuff I said just five YEARS ago (and I’m almost 33) makes me cringe like a motherfucker. Burn in mortification. Rise from the ashes and be better. Lather, rinse, repeat for the rest of your life.

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This is why purity culture doesn’t work!!! We’re all shit! We can all grow and do better!

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Men not being allowed to be emotional & rampant homophobia are the reasons men commit suicide 3.5x more than women… most men are given no outlet to feel feelings. To the point that they kill themselves.

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sigmund freud, watching us being kinky fucking shits from afterlife: i was born in the wrong generation :/

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where the meme saying that hood nigga think dressing up for a date is a nike tech set 😭

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Right here..

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thank youuuuuuuuuuu lol

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I’m dead.

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MAC MILLER

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“You started young, right? What is your advice for young people?”

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FINALLY!

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“The belief that unhappiness is selfless and happiness is selfish is misguided. It’s more selfless to act happy. It takes energy, generosity, and discipline to be unfailingly lighthearted, yet everyone takes the happy person for granted. No one is careful of his feelings or tries to keep his spirits high. He seems self-sufficient; he becomes a cushion for others. And because happiness seems unforced, that person usually gets no credit.”

— Gretchen Rubin, The Happiness Project