Pratibha sharma

Trying different variations

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kashamkash

Kay kru kya ne kru,

ye kru ya wo kru ,

yaha jaou ki wha jaou,

Jindagi ka falsafa yahi h

kashmakash to es hava mai bhi h ..

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जो पाया वो कम नहीं, जो नहीं मिला उसका ग़म नहीं, जो मिलेगा वो एक ख़्वाब है, जो अभी पाया है वो ही लाजवाब है 😊😊

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Happiness 😊

Are you happy? 🧐🙄🤗🤔 Many ask this question to you .. before answering it as “yes” question this question to yourself . Are you really happy? No one is really happy . Something something is lacking in everyone’s life . Many of us not happy with the job , some not with their salary, some not with their family , and some not with maid , and some not with the 🍕 pizza slice , and my daughter , she is not happy with her ice cream 🍦which she ordered after testing only . So this happens with everyone “ not happy wala moment’’ . Enjoy that also . Because of that only we are looking for another way to find happiness. We try to get new ideas to be happy . That also gives a new chance to learn. See I am also finding a way to be happy with these thoughts. Be happy or pretend to be happy .. important is happiness what may be the reason.

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Weekend "Hello Rekha”, How are you. Where are you dear. It’s been a long time since we met. Are you free on this weekend. Let’s catch up. Sneha said this all in one breath. 

Rekha and Sneha were childhood friend. They did school and college together. After their graduation Rekha had family pressure to marry, so she got married to Anirudh who worked in a private company at that time and Sneha continued her studies and now she works in a multinational company. After their marriages there were no contact between them. But last Sunday Sneha got to know about Rekha from a common friend and got her contact number. So she called her to meet. 

On the other side Rekha was astonished to hear Sneha after so long. Because she tried a lot to contact Sneha in the past few years. "Sneha, you”, Rekha said. How did you remember me today and she started crying. "Rekha what happened why are you crying”, Sneha asked.

But Rekha controlled herself and said, "Nothing, you called me up after so long so. Where are you, where will we meet.”

Sneha said that she is in city for a meeting and got to know that you also live here. So she called. The two friends decided the time and venue to meet.  This phone call reminded Rekha everything of past and how badly she missed her best friend. But why and how did Sneha called her after such a long period, she wants to know .

Same night Rekha informed her husband that she is going to meet her friend this weekend and asked him too to come with her but he refused as he has some client meeting.  And the weekend came. Rekha was quite excited to meet Sneha. She got ready and left for the reunion.  "Sneha, and Rekha just hugged her tightly and started crying but to see people around her she hide her tears and controlled her emotions. And before Rekha could say anything, Sneha told Rekha that she wants to introduce her fiancé to her and Sneha said, " Sumit dear, please come here.” See my best and childhood friend is here. Rekha looked back and to see Sumit she was shocked . To see her husband Anirudh as Sumit Rekha got freezed. Sneha was telling everything about their connection, how they met and when they are getting married but Rekha was in her own world. This was the thing which she wants to share with her best friend that her husband is leaving her just because she is now not according to his status of this so called modern life. She wants to share everything with Sneha how they shifted from village to city and how tough time she had faced when his husband was jobless and how she helped her husband financially with her saving and started tiffin service and also did tuition. She wants to tell it’s been ten years that she visited her parents or any relative, just because of financial issue she didn’t attend her brother’s wedding.  "Rekha ,what are you thinking ? It looks like you are not here . What’s going in your mind. Will you not ask anything about Sumit. Where we met etc.etc.  " I have a client meeting” , Rekha said and left the place.

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ज़िंदगी तू भी बता तू कैसी है

एक सवाल था मन में मेरे,

सोच रही थी किस से पूछूँ ,

दुनिया की इस भाग दौड़ में ,

चलते पहिये को कैसे रोकूँ, 

इसी उधेड़बुन में सुबह से शाम हो गई, 

पूछूँ मैं किस से ये सोच के परेशान हो गई,

तभी एक आवाज़ आई , जिसने मेरी आँखें चौंकाईं,

काली सी उस रात में, तारों की रोशनी लहरायी,

सामने ज़िंदगी खड़ी थी, 

और मेरे सवालों की लिस्ट बड़ी थी,

पर अपनी तो रीत है ,

पहले मेहमान का स्वागत किया जाता है, 

चाय के बहाने हाल चाल पूछा जाता है,

तो मैंने भी पूछ लिया,

ज़िंदगी तू भी बता तू कैसी है,

बिना एक पल गँवाए, 

ज़िंदगी ने अपने राज बताए,

बोली ज़िंदगी, " अरे मैं तो बिल्कुल तेरे जैसी हूँ ",

ख़ुशी हो या ग़म सब तुझ से ही लिए बैठी हूँ,

हज़ारों ख्वाहिशें छुपी हैं इस दिल में तुम्हारी तरह ही,

जिन्हें पूरा करने की आस जगाए बैठी हूँ,

सुन कर बात ये ज़िंदगी की,

कुछ मैं चौंक सी गई,

ज़िंदगी भी मेरी तरह ही है, 

ये सुनकर

मेरे सवालों की लिस्ट छोटी पड़ गई॥

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फ़िक्र

किसी को शाम की तो,

किसी को सुबह की,

ये फ़िक्र ही है जो,

ज़िंदगी में चल रही ।

कभी पतझड़ तो,

कभी बारिश की, 

कभी चमकती हुईं ,

दोपहर से राहत की,

ये फ़िक्र ही है जो 

ज़िंदगी में चल रही ।

रात के खाने की,

दिन में कुछ कमाने की,

छोटी सी ज़िंदगी में,

बहुत कुछ पाने की,

ये फ़िक्र ही है जो 

ज़िंदगी में चल रही ।

बच्चों के खाना खाने की,

नाती पोतों को खिलाने की,

ज़िंदगी में उन सबके लिए,

कुछ कर जाने की ,

ये फ़िक्र ही है जो ,

ज़िंदगी में चल रही ।

किसी को काम की तो,

किसी को ऐशो-आराम की ,

किसी को वक्त ऐसे ही निकालने की,

ये फ़िक्र ही है जो 

ज़िंदगी में चल रही ।

ढूँढ रहे सब बहाने ,

लगे हैं इस फ़िक्र को छुपाने, 

पर शायद ये फ़िक्र ही अब ,

हमें कुछ सिखा रही,

ज़िंदगी की नई मुश्किलों से ,

रूबरू करवा रही , 

क्या करें ,कैसे करें ,

इस फ़िक्र में हमें उलझा रही॥

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What is special today ? A simple question which my almost 7 year daughter asks me daily for her lunch box. As a mother we always try to give something special and new in there lunch box daily . So why can’t we do or think special for ourselves to make everyday special. No need to do something big we can start with small steps like 5 minutes special break after every workout in office or in kitchen 😊. 10 minutes to always think jabout your special hobby and 20 minutes to do that 😜if possible to do that in that time . Plan a special lunch for yourself or dinner. Watch your special movie or tv serial . Think something special for yourself and make your day special so that you can answer what is special today. My answer to this today is this thought …

Thank you

Hope you will like it ..🎉🎉

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Acceptance of expectations

We all have plans and expectations. In our daily routine also we plan a lot to do this on time , to go somewhere on time or to finish the task on time . But when it comes to practicality something something makes our plans their plans. May be all are not facing the same rhythm… some or may be many of us doing or getting according to their expectations but my point of view is that if something is not happening according to your expectation then I think we all are getting a new chance to do something or accept something new . And may be this new acceptance give you a new vibe a new idea or one new opportunity to expect something new .. so cheers to unexpected thing as well . Who knows what will happen next . 😊😊😊😊