DeviantDM

34 Male Dominant Ler NSFW - Minors DNI

[deviantdms]

Pleasure to meet you -

You can call me DM.

Born in '91, neurospicy male gynesexual, located on the east coast of the US.

This space is meant to be an outlet for the chaos of my mind, and the occasional destination for the limited works I create that I hate the least.

The vast majority of what I post is fetish/kink-focused.

Therefore, if you’re under 18, please block or I will do it for you if I find you following. Ageless blogs will be assumed to be minors.

My tastes can run… intense. As a Dom I can be strict, controlling, even insatiably cruel—but only inside the confines of a safe and consensually negotiated space.

This blog is a safe space for all people, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

I make an honest effort to avoid any blogs that don't want to cross paths with mine (such as Men DNI), so please pay me the same courtesy of not following me.

Here's a flavor of what you can expect to find here:

Tickling

Bondage

Dominance & Submission

Sadism & Masochism

Degradation and Humiliation

Praise and Pet Names

Orgasm Control

Impact Play

Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)

Foot Fetish

Limits for me include:

Ageplay

Food Play

Incest

Bodily Fluids

Cheating

Body Horror or Disfiguration

Lastly, I wanted to mention that I am battling a long-term illness and unfortunately may not be online or as available as I might like. I do my best to catch up when I can.

Outside of that, you’ll find I’m easy to talk to, playful, patient, and perhaps just a touch disarming (or perhaps narcissistic instead).

My inbox is always open, feel free to drop a message or ask.

Until then...

Last updated 12/2025

The purpose of a storyteller is not to tell you how to think, but to give you questions to think upon.

[deviantdms]

AWESOME blog btw

My ego thanks you. Always great to hear that people enjoy my dark corner of the internet.

[sadistic-tickler]

soft and gentle and incredibly cruel 🌸

* from 'Tickling hyper sensitive armpits and sides of Little Agness' by the studio 'Russian Fetish'

[abbkml455]

A ticklish interrogation, only the victim gets one chance an hour to fess up. They’re asked once, and only once. If they don’t give the answer that the interrogator wants, back the gag goes and it’s another hour of relentless tickles.

[deviantdms]

Hey, why do you like my particular flavor of smut?

[ken1180]

I WANNA TICKLE FEET ALL DAY LONG 👅💋❤️👣👣👣👣👣

[aylifox]

Cold, calculated eyes staring at the object of their desire.

Surely they would have no way of bringing down their ire

Why don't you fly away, little bird ?

I'm afraid of the hail that will come down on my feather

[deviantdms]

Tell me you love it. I want to hear you say it.

We both already know the answer.

[chokemebratty-deactivated202507]

“can I please cum?”

“Beg.”

[thisusernotfoundatthismoment]

“Look at me”

“Use your words”

“Good girl”

“Come here…”

“That’s my pretty girl”

“Don’t get shy now”

“I won’t ask again”

“Get on your knees”

“Don’t move, darling”

“Just like that”

“Faster baby”

“You’re mine”

“That’s my girl”

“Say please”

“I’m not done”

[katchleeifyoucan]

Do you think you've learned anything about being a ler from being tickled yourself?

absolutely! honestly so much of what i’ve learned about myself and this kink and bdsm are from @deviantdms

there’s sooo much that goes into tickling that i’ve learned from him… the temperature of the room, how turned on the lee is, and my favorite, the psychological aspect of it all—just to name a few.

i’ve also learned so much about bdsm. safety, standards, RACK, bondage testing, etc.

there are also things i’ve learned more through our experiences than through our conversations! i’ll notice certain things he does before, during, and after we play like testing knots, offering me water, repeating safe words, and reading body language.

i love learning new things from and with him, especially when they make for a better session!

thanks for the ask!

[deviantdms]

I'm going to pretend this didn't make me feel things.

…it made me feel things.

For the record: the learning goes both ways. every good lee teaches their ler something — about patience, about reading a room, about when to push and when to just… wait. They've taught me more than they probably realize.

There's a version of this dynamic that stays surface-level. Transactional. Fun, maybe, but ultimately shallow. And then there's what happens when both people let themselves be open, genuine, and willing to be known.

When that happens, you don't just play together — you leave pieces of yourself with each other. I'm proud of what we built together.

Proud of you.

[hunteroflees]

Did you really think you could hide behind your phone screen for so long? Hiding your every perfect little smile, every quiet muffled giggle? Keeping it all for yourself? 

Not sharing any of that with me?

Well that is about to change and don't act all suprised, you knew this will happen eventually~

I will take such a great care of you my new toy, we will have so much fun together, well mostly me but who cares when your mouth is stuffed and closed with a nice shining piece of silver tape, your body wrapped around in your favorite blanket to keep you All warm and cozy, and of course all of those leather belts I could find around your place to keep you all secure and helpless, so there aren't any dumb ideas floating to your head~

You didn't think about escaping hm sweetheart?~

I really hope you didn't, cos right now I just want to gently pull those socks off your perfect little soles, every revealed inch making the whole situation really sink into your brain as you try to wiggle and trash, scream and beg for anyone to help you but it's just you and me, your soft bare soles and every mean tool you told me you hated~

But I want to start slow.

Real slow.

I don't want my toy to break too easily, I want to take my sweet sweet time with you. Watching your reactions as you try so hard to surpass that adorable laugh when I slide my fingers up your soles, as your pupils go so small and scared as you see me pull a grooming glove over my hand.

I bet you would love to trash your head a bit from left to right as soon as you feel every little bristle slide over your helpless skin but all you can do is cry, as your vision gets all blurry, your eyes rolling into back of your head from pure agony as your mind is slowly shattering into million pieces. 

You scream and scream inside but I can't hear anything other than pathetic muffled noises of a pup who misbehaved, nowhere to run, nowhere to hide your giggles and smiles now.

And the moment I stop and pull that strip of tape from your quivering lips, I know you won't even remember your name, reduced into a giggling crying mess~

[lu-writes]

Okay... the Boundary Doc

I've mentioned this a number of times and there's been some mild curiosity about it. I've also received some really good feedback from session partners about it... so, I'm deciding to share a template of my boundary document.

Lil background: I created this before I attended my first event. I have anxiety along with general nerves... and the first thing that checks out is my memory. I also get flustered easily when talking about tickling and while some view that as endearing 🙈, stumbling over words while discussing boundaries is less than ideal. Negotiations are essential and critical for ✨everyone's safety✨.

So, I did some research and some journaling and figured out exactly what my boundaries were and the kind of session I wanted to have. My goal was to make this document clear and to the point... something I could easily read off my phone. Which yes, this is how sessions always start with me. 😅 This version is something I made for a friend who wanted to share it with others in their local scene.

Note: I'm fairly new to the community and this isn't me positioning myself as an expert. This is simply a resource for anyone who could benefit from it. And it can just be a starting point too... my actual doc is an ugly bulleted list. 🤭

I do hope some of you find it helpful! 😸💜

PS- it's a capybara 😹

[minors dni]

[deviantdms]

I love seeing this kind of thing in the community. Nerves are real, memory blanks happen, and having something you can just show someone and feel safe is genuinely smart. Good work, Lu - I'm a fan.

[vacation-rental-by-own-her-favs]

[ticklechambers]

I can reduce you to a squealing little girl any time I want, actually.

[yomiko22-deactivated20250103]

edge her. and tell her, she isn't allowed to cum until you tickle her feet. watch the desperation grow in her eyes. watch her plead. beg. watch her desperately trying to talk you out of it. watch her finally surrender as she begs you to do it.

'do what hmm?'

watch her blush. breathing heavy. watch her squirm. watch her fighting as she cannot say the t-word herself.

'what do you want me to do hmm?'

'please..'

'you want me to tickle your feet?'

watch her nod in embarrassment. watch her sigh in relief when you finally touch her soft soles. when she finally gives up on hiding how much she secretly loves this. watch her cum.

and enjoy linking her arousing to you touching and tickling her bare feet.

[deviantdms]

5, 17 and 19 😇

5. What's your drink of choice? (Coffee/tea order, alcohol of choice, pop, etc)

Coffee. Always coffee. Black in the morning, cortadito as an after-lunch pick-me-up, espresso after a big Italian meal. Alcoholic drink would be an Old Fashioned. I'm a bit of a stereotype when it comes to the classics, and I like a drink that I don't mind sipping but can bite back. 17. Do you believe in luck and superstition? Do you carry any lucky items or follow any lucky rules?

This is always a funny topic to me. I am not an avid believer in it... but I also prefer not to tempt fate, so to say. I have been known to knock on wood or throw salt over my shoulder lol But I don't really believe that something bad will happen if I don't. I sort of see it as: if it costs you nothing, then it can't possibly hurt; might as well give myself the best chances. 19. Write, type, or speak?

I find this question both fascinating and frustrating lol. There as aspects of all three that I resonate with, it just depends on the situation.

Writing by hand, to me, is where I feel the most connected with the material. Creatively, when I feel stuck, I will brainstorm by writing since it seems to be able to tap directly into that part of my brain that doesn't get distracted by the noise. I also regularly keep notes that way for work (using a reMarkable for those who are interested), before transferring them digitally elsewhere.

Typing is also just more efficient most of the time. 90% of the time I prefer a text, message, or email to a call. One of my biggest pet peeves are phone calls about nothing or that drag on for no reason.

The only exception to that last one is if it's an audio or video call where I'm spending time just hanging out with a friend. To me, speaking and seeing one another is really when you start to connect with the other person on a more meaningful level. When you can see someone else's expression and tone without the filtering of a backspace key is when you really start to know who they are. Oh, and I've heard that people find my voice attractive... so there's that. I suppose I'll go with that one then. 😏

[deviantdms]

3, 8, 14, 20 x

3. What are you looking forward to right now?

I have an upcoming trip down to Miami that I've been looking forward to for far too many weeks. I go down a few times a year, but this time I'm especially looking forward to it for some reason... 😉 8. Favorite month of the year and why?

Popular question, someone beat you to it.

14. If you could give a TED talk on anything, what would you talk about?

Oh Gods, what a great question. You already know I can ramble about nearly anything that's even slightly interesting to me lol... If I had to pick one, I would probably do something to do with Storytelling.

I was reading something recently that said, "There are two universal languages. One is math...the other is story". They've been around forever. It's how we learned history about thousands of years ago, it's how we share wisdom, and teach about right and wrong. They say there's only 7 types of stories, and yet there are countless ones that have been created, each speaking something very personal about the author and resonating with a complete stranger. There's something really special about that.

20. What do you wish someone would ask you?

I hate questions like these because the analytical asshole part of my brain is determined to find the "right" answer, which doesn't exist.

In an attempt to not overthink it, I'll go with: "What are you most excited about today?" I like this because (if you've been following the other answers) I can yap about anything I'm interested in, and the wonderful superpower that is ADHD makes it so that could at time be almost anything. If I had $5 for every time I went down an internet rabbit hole of something I'm only mildly interested in only to find myself watching a 45-minute YouTube video on the subject... I'd probably just retire and do that for money instead. Man, that would be awesome.

But it's cool when someone else wants to engage with the random chaos that is my brain. Makes me feel like they are genuinely interested in me.