Ben Poindexter Headcanons!
warnings: sexual content, mean/possessive dex, mentions of primal play, exhibitionism, dex is a stalker,
I posted these to my TikTok earlier but I think you guys will like them more heheh. They were also requested here. MDNI!
𓏲ּ𝄢 Dex is incredibly protective. He has seen some of the worst that humanity has to offer and he would be damned if he let anything happen to you. When in public, he always has a protective hand resting on your waist or back. If he can't touch you, his eyes follow your every move. He is also used to scanning the room, trying to detect any risks or threats.
𓏲ּ𝄢 Dex is 1000% into primal play. He will drive the two of you out into the woods, strip you down and instruct you to run. He'll graciously give you a head start before he begins the hunt. He's a lot better at this than you. Once he finds you, he pounces, telling you he's going to take you there and then. He says the dirtiest things to you, reminding you that ,"there's no one here but me and you, sweetheart so make all the noise you want" (this idea was inspired by @duchess0fmalfi !!)
𓏲ּ𝄢 Dex likes to talk you through it. It's a nice reminder that he has the power to make you feel good. He never felt like he had control over anything in his life until he met you. Plus, you like him being in control, telling you when, how and even if you can feel good. He usually prefers when you ask for permission before you reach your peak and then he'll tell you to "let it all out, baby" "fuck that feels good, right?"
𓏲ּ𝄢 When he can feel that it's all too much for you, during aftercare he can be super sweet. "Yeah I know, baby it's ok" it's just me, I've got you"
𓏲ּ𝄢 You are aware of Dex's abilities however he would rather keep you in the dark about what he does. He doesn't want his perfect girl being infected by his urges. But the first time you saw him in his suit, he had snuck back in after a particularly long night. You were so turned on by his body, the way his shirt hugged his arms and abs. His rugged face covered with his glaring eyes peeking through a cutout.
𓏲ּ𝄢 Dex recognised that you weren’t scared in fact, it was the opposite. You were turned on. He swaggered over to you, huge grin plastered across his face. Within minutes he had you bent over the bed, plowing into you like a mad man. "You like being fucked by big, bad, scary bullseye, huh?" He said against your temple. You were too fucked out to even respond.
𓏲ּ𝄢 Dex doesn't feel jealous of other men. He cannot even fathom the idea of you wanting another man. He is perfect for you, why would you need anything else? This is partly him being cocky and partly because he himself couldn't imagine himself with any other person. If you try to make him jealous it just won't work
𓏲ּ𝄢 Instead, he'll flip the script, fake cozying up to some bartender. He scans your face, looking for the telltale signs of your jealousy. The twitch in your eye and the way you run your tongue across your teeth and take a deep breath. Dex is amused by this, seeing just how easy it is to get you heated. The night usually ends with you ontop of him, reminding him that he's yours and you are his. Always. Exactly how he wants it
𓏲ּ𝄢 Sometimes Dex just prefers to watch. He will dress you up all pretty and sit you on the bed. He'll tell you how he wants you and instruct you on how to touch yourself. He'll sit and watch, completely sucked in by your sounds and movements.
𓏲ּ𝄢 Once he realises you enjoy this, he manages to convince himself that it's ok to watch you all the time. He sits in his car, telescope in hand, camera perched on the dash and he just sits and watches you through your window. He tells himself it's ok. That he's just keeping you safe. You'd be ok with this, right?
𓏲ּ𝄢 Before you guys got together, Dex was completely enamoured by you. He would spend time observing you, your behaviour, your reactions, mannerisms, speaking patterns. He would try to guess what you were thinking and feeling.
𓏲ּ𝄢 If you're ever in a big group, he secretly looks at you to see how you react. If you laugh, he laughs. If you're interested in what’s being said, so is he, or at least pretends to be. He sees you as perfect. An angel that can do no wrong...
