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Hey everyone,

As you can tell, this blog is fairly dead. I’ll be honest, when I joined, I was in a very loving relationship, but due to circumstances beyond our control we couldn’t stay together.

That was nearly two years ago. I still feel responsibility to our community, but I have found different ways to help out, in my outer-net life.

I am sorry that it’s come to this, and that this blog never quite took off as it could have. I’m not sure where mod kit has ended up, but we’ve been out of touch, through no fault of anyone.

That being said, I bid you all adieu, it’s been lovely. I’m going to resign as admin after this post. Keep loving, you diamoric lovelies.

#mod cogs #nb love

(QPP/QPR anon) Hey, it’s been a while! I hope you’re doing well. kind of a life update— my friend who I meant to ask about being QPPs a while ago texted me the other day and referred to us as quasiplatonic friends! We’ve been texting more lately, and they told me they really care about me, and they’re generally low empathy so that means a lot to me! I think they’d say yes if I asked them to be in a QPR with me, I just have to work up the courage to do it. I’ll let you know what happens!

Exciting! I am glad it is working out for you!

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#mod cogs #Anonymous

I am diamorromantic can I follow?

Yes! Everyone who wants to support diamorics is welcome!

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#Anonymous

(the QPP/QPR anon) So, it turned out, I never actually asked them about it because I’m anxious and not good with rejection. I worry that if I did ask, and they weren’t comfortable with that, that it would ruin the good thing we already have. So I think I’m going to leave it and not say anything about it, unless they bring it up. And I also don’t want to make it seem like they’re not enough for me, because they’re so kind and care about me so much.

Only do the things you are comfortable with, mate.

#Anonymous

Can someone be both achillean and sapphic if they are genderfluid/bigender/an identity that has more than 1 gender?

Do not quote me, but I believe that you can be only one or the other. I am not entirely sure. Sorry, love.

Community?

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#diamoric #achillean #sapphic #Anonymous

the dodie clark song she, but the berry robertson cover where they use they pronouns for the whole song :)

#diamoric #s #nb love #mod cogs #submission

when you don’t know what to call your sexuality because you’re nb, so you say “I’m gay for many people” :)

#nb love #diamoric #s #mod cogs #honestly i say similar things #submission

I’m in love with one of my best friends. I’ve known them for almost exactly 7 months, and we cuddle and write letters to each other. Hopefully we’re going to get together this week. In their most recent letter they said “I like-like you”, and that they really *really* wanted to cuddle with me. But then they said they don’t want to do anything romantic with me, so I’m confused. I’m definitely not going to overstep their boundaries– they’ve been clear, and I want to be their friend. (1/2)

(2/2) But as much as I want to be their friend, I wish I could be more to them. Or... different, I guess. Like, to be cheesy, I want to ~be more than friends~ to someone. And I’ve been kissing and flirting with people lately, but wondering what they’d (one of my best friends would) think of that. They also said in their most recent letter that I’m “way too good for them”, and I felt so bad. Like, I know how that feels, and at the same time, I’m not too good for you. I’m thinking of asking (2/3)

(3/3, hopefully this is the last one) them if they would want to be QPPs with me. I’m not asexual, but they are. And obviously, I’m not going to force them to date me or do things they don’t want to do. I just care about them so much, and I really really don’t want to lose them. I’ll probably send another message about how seeing them in person goes. :) if nothing else, I care about them deeply and want them to be a part of my life for as long as they’re comfortable with that.

How all did this go?

I am sorry, I’ve been quite ill and unable to answer.

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#mod cogs #diamoric #nb love #Anonymous

idk if this is weird but thanks to the words enbian and diamoric i found out i was an enbian and a sapphic person (im still bi but still) and im SOOO happy :DDD

YAY!!!

I can definitely relate. I am so glad you found out more about your identity!

And you can be Enbian and Bi! Since Non-binary people are not a monolith.

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#diamoric #sapphic #enbian #nb love #terminology #mod cogs #gaymyrose

I'm a bi lunarian and I wanted to say that I love the words "diamoric" & "enbian". I don't feel my attraction to girls can be labeled as "gay", it's more accurate for me to say it's "very bi!", "pluralian" or "diamoric"💚 And my attraction to enbies too, along with "enbian"/nblnb💛

!!!

I am so entirely glad to hear you love our words!

And I totally understand what you mean. Gay doesn’t cover my love for non-binary people. The bulk of people I am and have been attracted to have been non-binary as well.

Enjoy your love!

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#nb love #nb attraction #diamoric #enbian #nblnb #mod cogs #Anonymous

diamorics

A vaguepost

THEY’RE SO WONDERFUL AND I LOVE THEM SO MUCH

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I changed my mind about vagueing. I’m going to start namedropping. This post is about my datemates

#positivity #nb love #mod cogs

enbiesheartenbies

a list of enbies i love

enbies who are chubby

enbies who have long hair

enbies of colour

enbies who wear makeup

enbies with deep voices

religious enbies

enbies who have stretch marks

enbies who wear glasses

closeted enbies

enbies who paint their nails

enbies who enjoy singing

boy aligned enbies

girl aligned enbies

enbies

i love all enbies. every single one

(feel free to add onto this list of enbies you love!!)

#mod ezz #diamoric

nbhaven

a friendly reminder that diamoric nonbinary people are just as valid as sapphic and achillean nonbinary people!!! your love for other nonbinary people is beautiful and deserves to be respected just like the rest!

#mod ezz #positivity