#diamoric

[lgbtqiatext]

Requested by storiartest

[this-is-varsexism-transphobia]

Labelling every non-binary relationship as sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi is exorsexism.

It is one thing if a non-binary person personally labels their relationship as such. However, the active neglect of non-binary specific labels is exorsexist, especially since sapphic/yuri is predominantly used to refer to feminine relationships and achillean/yaoi is predominantly used to refer to masculine relationships. (This is not to say sapphic and achillean can't refer to other gender types, but theres no denying the binary-centric history these terms hold within the community.)

Fandom spaces are even worse with this, treating all non-binary relationships as just sapphic-lite and achillean-lite.

If you are in a fandom, and you have a character with a non-binary ship, please promote non-binary language.

At the very least, please mix in non-binary language with your binary-centric terms (ie; a non-binary person who is dating a binary man, and prefers to be called a husband, while using terms such as toric or adonic for their relationship.)

Here are some terms used in the same way sapphic/yuri and achillean/yaoi are:

-Diamoric (A relationship that involves a non-binary person in some shape or form) -Trixic (NBLW) and Maedic (WLNB) -Toric (NBLM) and Adonic (MLNB) -Enbian (NBLNB) and Binitian (Binary Loving Non-binary)

Here are some terms used in the same way lesbian and uranian are:

-Feminamoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to women.) -Viramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to men.) -Ceteramoric (non-binary person primarily attracted to other non-binary people.) -Tria (binary person primarily attracted to non-binary people. This could be any type of non-binary person, or specific types of non-binary people). Can be spelled alternatively based on attraction (ie; triasexual, triaromantic, triaplatonic, etc.)

Here are some terms used for dating/marriage:

-Bach/Bachlorex/Bachloree/Bachloren/Bachlorum (unmarried) -Partner/Joyfriend/Datefriend/Enbyfriend/Enfriend (dating) -Fiance/Nearlywed/Betrothed/Celebrant (engaged) -Marrier/Newlywed/Bridegroom/Brigroom/Gide (getting married) -Spouse/Wifeband/Huswife/Wifen/Husen/Wifet/Huset/Esso/Essie (married/spouse)

And while we're here, stop calling non-binary people "they/thems." Non-binary people do not all collectively use they/them pronouns, we can also use he/him, she/her, it/its, neopronouns, multiple pronouns, or even no pronouns. Our genders do not deserve to be boiled down to infantilizing language like "my little they."

When referring to a singular person, use the words non-binary person, enby, or enban.

When referring to a group of non-binary people, use the words non-binary people, enbies, or enben.

[our-enbian-experience]

shout out to enbians whose relationships are perceived as straight. shout out to enbians whose relationships are straight. shout out to enbians who describe their relationships as straight in some contexts (for example, if someone is closeted). shout out to enbians whose relationships are sometimes straight and sometimes other (for example, if someone’s gender and/or orientation is fluid).

you have a place in the community. in queer community, in enbian community, in whatever communities you want to be in. you don’t have to live parts of yourselves or your experiences behind the door to be welcome. you belong here as a whole being.

[technicoloranarchy]

I genuinely do not understand the vitriol people — even other enben — have for the terms trixic, toric, etc. Nobody is saying “you have to use these words because you are nonbinary and you can’t describe yourself any other way”. There is simply a good chunk of us who feel like terms such as “lesbian” and “gay” are too binarizing for us. It’s not going to kill you to learn the terms that enben are using to describe their relationships. It really just reads as incredibly exorsexist. How can you say you support nonbinary people while insisting they don’t make more inclusive terms for themselves when they feel it’s necessary? Have you ever considered that we might want to create our own space instead of having to carve ourselves one inside of binary labels?

[ultrainfinitepit]

Pride Angels 2024 - Part I

Here are the first half of my new Pride Angels designs! Featuring the following flags:

Abrosexual, Achillean, Agender, Ally, Aroace, Aromantic, Asexual, Bigender, Bisexual, Cupioromantic, Cupiosexual, Demiboy, Demigender, Demigirl, Demiromantic, Demisexual, Diamoric, Gay, Genderfae, Genderfaun, Genderfluid, Genderfluid (Alternate), Genderflux, Genderqueer, and Intersex.

Additional flags in Part II and Part III. You can go to each flag's post for transparent images, flat colors, and lineart. Read the FAQ and follow the campaign here: Pride Angels🌈

[sproutshq]

I get that gay men/veldians and lesbians can be nonbinary and some are also attracted to nonbinary people, but as a cenelian can you at the very least stop tagging nblnb if your post is about a (binary) man or woman please

(This is a problem in #wlnb, #mlnb and sometimes #enbian as well)

[diamoric-culture-is]

Diamoric culture is getting frustrated that our terms are barely known within our own community, yet alone anywhere else.

This!! Please, if you’re not sure what term to use do your research! Chances are the nonbinary community already coined something and there’s no need for condescending terms such as “they-dies” or “a pair of things” or any other jokes in bad taste. Nonbinary language is not ridiculous, is not childish, not “made up”. Enben use those terms, they give us the vocabulary to describe and communicate our experiences and it’s important to know them and to take them seriously, no matter if you’re nonbinary yourself. Think of yourself as a trans ally? Respect nonbinary language!

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