和

God is my whiteness

[diaryofasimpybitch]

★ ★ ★

[dyingenigma]

Chien-Chi Chang

A rave party in Hong Kong, China, 2000.

[nailsonafretboard]

any sense of heartbreak i surrender myself to, not to hurt but for release. i have so much gratitude for every soul i’ve met and been seen by and learned from. i see the value in every experience and am grateful to know more of what i want and where i want to be.

[fvckfanta]

i nvr fake the funk in how i feel. whether i am sad or happy. we’re all human, filled w imperfections. every1 is so quick 2 flaunt on the good but never bad. how can we b authentic + raw if we’re not fully vulnerable or exposed? we all go thru the same things more than we realize

[theambitiouswoman]

Audit the people in your life

Not everyone in your life deserves permanent access to you. And this isn’t about judging people, it’s about being honest with yourself. Pay attention to how your body feels around the people you spend time with

Ask yourself:

Do I feel calm or tense around them?

Do I feel at peace after being with them?

Do I feel confident around them?

Do I feel supported without having to explain myself?

Do I feel emotionally safe with them?

Do they respect my boundaries?

Do they really listen to me?

Do they respect me even when we disagree?

Do they celebrate my growth?

Do I feel like myself around them?

Do I hide parts of myself to keep the connection?

Do we share the same core values?

Do they want me to grow, or stay the same?

Do I feel energized or drained after spending time with them?

Do I feel grounded or overwhelmed after talking to them?

Do I trust them with my feelings?

Do I constantly make excuses for them?

Do they bring clarity or confusion into my life?

Do they approach me with curiosity, not judgment?

Do they take responsibility for their actions?

Do they respect my time and priorities?

Do I feel chosen and valued by them?

[aidashakur]

[nomadki]

Get in the habit of talking about your joys more than your problems.

[diaryofasimpybitch]

[dozydawn]

[cozyvu]

exploring the art of being alone

[imanbenerrabeh]

this is so special

[dozydawn]

michelle kwan, 2005.

[diaryofasimpybitch]

[diaryofasimpybitch]

sheissobougie.com

[weltenwellen]

Carmen Maria Machado, In the Dream House

[diaryofasimpybitch]

real

[cloth-fabric]

Ashley Williams - ss26

[girltalk]

𝑶𝒄𝒕𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒋𝒐𝒚.

𝑶𝒄𝒕𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆.

𝑶𝒄𝒕𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒓𝒖𝒔𝒕.

𝑶𝒄𝒕𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒆.

𝑶𝒄𝒕𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒄𝒍𝒂𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒚.

𝑶𝒄𝒕𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒎𝒊𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒍𝒆𝒔.

𝑶𝒄𝒕𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔.

[beneaththemooon]

The sexiest thing a woman can do is move on. Whether it’s from their partner, career, family, etc. Society has programmed women into believing there’s a moral reward for enduring and staying. Fuck that. Get a new partner, new career, move to another state/country, please just MOVE ON.