Did someone say anal?

To get it out of the way: NSFW material here. Most-likely of a straight, anal nature but otherwise I'll share my thoughts and shit. If you're not of age, please vacate this space. The material here is not owned by me unless said material specifically states otherwise. I'm 31, male, and straight. I know what I like and I'm happy to share.

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The only cat I would ever love

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Will send a nude to everyone that reblogs this 😘

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Still active on here huh?? Lol

Not really, I get notifications though.

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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Break free of Addiction to Approval

1. Recognise that other people do not determine your worth and value. It’s your life not there’s. They are responsible to themselves for their life; and you are responsible to yourself for your life. Don’t give up your “self” to please someone else.

2. Also, people change, have different values and outlooks and want different things for, and from, us. It’s simply impossible to please everyone all of the time, or even most of the time.

3. Recognise that spending our lives trying to make others happiness is a recipe for failure and low self-esteem. It’s a pointless way to spend your life. It will stop you being happy and true to yourself.

4. Be kind to yourself. Understand that we all have weaknesses, and things that we regret saying and doing.

5. Also, we’re all on our journey – and the journey is harder and more challenging for some than others. Perhaps you are dealing with obstacles that other people have not had to face.

6. Develop your self esteem from within. Decide on the type of person YOU want to be, and work on being true to that.

7. Think about what really matters to you, and the different goals you’d like to achieve – then set these as a priority. That is, decide what YOU want to do instead of worrying about what others would like you to do.

8. Develop a plan for the direction of your life. Focus your thinking, energy, choices and decisions around living a life that is meaningful to you. At the end of each day, check to ensure you’ve done something that is taking you in that direction.

9. Work on developing your self-reliance – so that although it is nice to have help and support from others, you’re not dependent upon it (or them). Also, being able to think, act and choose for yourself will greatly increase your self-confidence.

10. Work on accepting, valuing and loving yourself. Appreciate the good things about YOU. Notice your successes, and any moves towards living out your goals, and becoming the real you.

11. Choose to live in the moment. Decide not to keep going over the past, or worrying too much about what lies ahead. Notice and relish what is good about “right now”.

12. Choose joy. Allowing yourself to experience joy is freeing, motivating, energising. It keeps your focus on the positives in life.

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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Are you Addicted to Approval?

Signs of being addicted to approval include:

1. You are very aware of the expectations of others. They also affect how you feel about yourself.

2. You are constantly worried about how others view you/ what they are thinking about you.

3. You choose NOT to do things that others don’t approve of for fear of judgment and rejection.

4. You DO things you don’t want to do as you fear others making fun or you, putting you down, or talking about it.

5. You feel anxious and upset if you think you have upset or irritated someone – and desperately try to make things right.

6. You think the views and opinions of others are more informed and valuable than yours.

7. You agree when others criticise and put you down. Then you start to attack and feel ashamed of yourself.

8. You reject yourself if other people reject you, and basically believed that at core you are flawed.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Reminders for When you’re being Judged by Others

1. It doesn’t matter what THEY think; the only thing that matters is what YOU think.

2. Their judgments say more about them than you.

3. You don’t have to explain yourself to others.

4. You don’t need the approval or acceptance of others.

5. You can’t stop others being negative, judgmental, critical and unkind. Some people are just like that.

6. Emotionally distance yourself from them. They’re unhealthy people to have in your life.

7. Instead of focusing attention on them, focus your attention and energy on things that build you up, and remind you of your worth.

[didsomeonesayanal]

Most females aren’t in tune with that depraved little girl in desperate need of being used as nothing more than a mere cock sleeve. Whose cunt is meant to be tortured, sopping wet and needy from being teased to the point of edging. Plead for it, say just how badly you need it inside of you, how giving it to you will make your world continue to revolve....then cum so hard when they're denied that pleasure in exchange for a hard cock in the ass.

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[onlinecounsellingcollege]

My entire life can be summed up in one sentence: things didn’t go according to plan.

Unknown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

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Conditions are never perfect. ‘Someday’ is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you. If it’s important to you and you want to do it ‘eventually’, just do it and correct the course along the way.

Tim Ferriss (via onlinecounsellingcollege)