diep in mijn gedachten

het gaat niet altijd even goed.

[borderlinexcrazy]

my trauma did not make me stronger. It made me angry and scared.

[diepinmijngedachten]

Iemand uit mijn vriendengroep is deze week onverwachts haar vriend verloren. Omdat het zo onverwacht was, is er niet gerekend op een begrafenis en door de leeftijd was er ook geen verzekering afgesloten.

Om de nabestaanden te helpen is er een gofundme gestart om de kosten voor een mooie begrafenis alsnog bij elkaar te krijgen. Mocht iemand nog iets kunnen missen, hierbij deel ook ik de link: https://gofund.me/3ca32264

[theprideful-deactivated20251201]

why autistic/adhd people may not ask for help

i’m not sure where to start and i don’t even know what questions to ask that would help me understand any of this

i want to ask you but i’m deathly afraid that you will hate my guts and resent me forever

i feel stupid and embarrassed for not knowing/understanding this

i wasn’t paying attention/i zoned out/you were talking too fast while going over this

“oh my god are you serious? it’s obvious, weren’t you paying any attention?” thanks for confirming i’m as stupid as i feel, appreciate it

i forgot about this deadline and i should’ve done it sooner but now it’s too late and awkward to say anything

your criticism will cast me into despair

i have no idea how to articulate my concerns so i will sit here silently until i can

i feel horrible about not doing it and not asking you initially and so i’m avoiding talking about it in the hopes that i will miraculously and suddenly understand it instead of doing the walk of shame to your office and risking the chance that i’ll piss you off and ruin your night

i’m working up the confidence to ask you

i’m formulating in my head a way to ask that doesn’t make me sound like i didn’t care enough to do it sooner, and that i actually have the willingness to do it, and that doesn’t place any blame on anyone except maybe me

autistic/adhd people feel free to add on! obviously this will vary from person to person, but this is my personal experience as an autistic and adhd person. if you’re neurotypical, please don’t try to offer tips for how to get around this because i can almost guarantee it will not be helpful :)

[siir-poesia]

I wish none of you were sad.

(via siir-poesia)

[thelatestkate]

♥

[esmee191]

I made a insta for my nature pictures. If you're interested feel free to follow!

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[hotchocolatewriting]

That time of the year

The time of the year had come. The time where the trees would get beautiful colours and the leaves would slowly fall down on the wet ground. Rainy days, cosy vibes and warm drinks like a good coffee or tea with honey and a good book. If you were the type like Villain was, a hot chocolate would also perfectly do. It was the time of the year Villain loved the most. Walking outside, looking at the beautiful changing nature or sitting inside with candles, watching the rain outside as they enjoyed a good book. If Villain was really lucky it would rain during the night. The soft ticking against the window would help them keep their mind at ease and fall asleep. Villain had never been bothered by the days getting shorter. By the sun disappearing behind the horizon when the day had been so short. They liked the cosy feeling it gave them, especially on the rainy days with the fireplace burning and spreading warmth through the house. Neither had Villain been bothered by the cold as they were already used to always feeling the cold, even during the summer. Besides, it was easier to dress for the cold then for the burning feeling of the sun that almost left you melting on the floor. ‘Autumn,’ Villain thought as they looked up from their notebook gazing into the rainy nightsky, 'Is the best season I could ever wish for.’

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

true or false, everyone should be making their best effort 100% of the time, it’s lazy to do otherwise.  

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

excellent! now true or false: leisure time is only valuable if you spend it productively. if you are not creating something or enriching yourself, you are just wasting time.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

terrific work!

so logically, you can stop feeling guilty about “wasting” time on “useless” things, because it’s neither wasteful nor useless if you enjoy it.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

glad ya’ll are enjoying this post

[enigmatic-mystery-777]

Why does my brain see these things all the time and still refuse to l e a r n what they’re saying

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

because you are literally re-training your brain and physically updating your neural pathways. and because writing over ingrained beliefs is harder than just learning new facts that aren’t replacing old one. you’re not just learning something new, you’re un-learning something old. that takes time and practice. but eventually you’ll get there, i promise.

[diepinmijngedachten]

Een vriendin doet mee met haar schilderij. Als je voor haar zou kunnen stemmen zou dat haar enorm helpen! Duurt nog geen minuut. Alvast bedankt! https://woobox.com/makdvr/gallery/79GJ1aGRc18

[lovelysuggestions]

don’t be ashamed of your interests, especially those of you who are younger. don’t quit doing something you love because some rando said it’s lame. you’ll regret it when you’re older - being good at things is cool, no matter what it is.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Yesterday my boyfriend told me "you're not any less of a person just because you can do less things" and I wanted to pass that reminder on to other physically and mentally ill/disabled people who might need to hear it.

[cupcakelogic]

a msg to u from the dog that finally learned how to give me the dang ball

[pathcend]

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

For every person who thinks you're "too quiet" there's one who thinks you're an amazing listener. For every person who thinks you're "too clingy" there's one who loves how much and how openly you care about others. For every person who thinks you're "too weird" there's one who admires how you dare to stand out from the crowd. For every person who thinks you're "too sensitive" there's one who respects you for being so in touch with your feelings. For every person who thinks you're "too confident" there's one who thinks your self respect is an inspiration. What's a negative trait in one person's eyes might be exactly what someone else is looking for. It's not black or white.

[allsadnshit]

[int3rnvlfl0w]

[incendavery]

hhh