22 tips for a starting Lifestyler to experience happiness from Alexander Tikhomirov
some things out of my life philosophy
1) Stop doing what you dont want to do. If not right away, then with time, try to distance yourself from the necessity to do what you dont want to do.
2)Dont sacrifice yourself. The most important thing in your life is YOUR life, along with your interests. Everything else that is purchased and influenced by others- comes and goes.
3) Dont waste your energy on the little things. Part of the “dont sacrifice yourself” topic. Someones energy may be stronger, someones weaker, but the fact is YOU have your own reserve of energy and you must decide whether you spend it on meeting with friends, helping at home, phone calls, sex, work, studies, h/w, mastering PS, playing the piano, training, going to the store, etc. our future depends on how and on what we spend our energy on.
4) get some sleep. Dont drive yourself in a tight circle of concern and work. Try to organize your duties in a way so that you dont have to use an alarm clock.
5) find the tasks of your life. Try different things, small and big ideas. Even if 9/10 ideas turn out to be failures by trying something new, in time, one way or another, you’ll find that one thing that you need and that will bring you happiness. Dont EVER stop searching. If you think that youve already found the task of your life its not essential to drop it, but im sure its possible to find another one or two that will make your life brighter.
6) dont regret losses. I think that everything that was lost unfairly- will return. What was lost- will be found in something else, something better.
7) if you do it-put your heart in it
Dont be afraid to do more then you were paid for. Trust me, it will all come back to you! The rule of saving energy. If you choose to do something - put your soul in it If your soul isnt in it look at tip 1.
8) develop your body
Use the best instrument in your life, enjoy it, keep it in shape, test it
10) dont believe in sayings
A black cat crossed the road- wait for bad luck. These ppl always wait for bad luck
11) dont be afraid of the opinion of others
12) speak of your plans and ideas
This is my life-hack to always share of plans, thoughts, ideas. Others prefer not to so, since they think they wont prosper. I, on the contrary, believe that if someone knows and believes in your idea it gets more energy to be brought to life
13) dont take anything seriously
I can distinguish things like death, serious injuries, imprisonment as things that i take seriously and always try to avoid these as much as i can. Everything else that you consider “serious” i distinguish as a game. A game which you dont need to worry about.
14) remember-problems dont exist
I pity those twolegged with their constant problems. Their problems are in their heads. To free yourself from problems i can recommend to substitute this word to “Tasks”. As they say “if you cant solve the problem then its not your problem and if you can solve it then thats not a probkem but a task”
15) aways be a kid
“Im to old to jump on your trampolines, i have work to do” “im not a kid to skate”
16) dont stay connected always
Overdriven ppl are always ready to pick up the phone anytime of day. Learn to be disconnected from the outside world.
17) leave the things that bind you, dont acquire things that will bind you
Business, friends, relationships. For example your friend or gf doesnt want to leave a small town to move with you to St. Petersburg- leave them!
18) take steps out of your comfort zone
As ive already mentioned the 1 st thing a lifestyler must do is move out of his parents house and the other steps out of the comfort zone will become easier. I’ll quote once again (russian quote) “home is not the home of our fathers but rather there where the home of my children are And my ships shall search for it”
19) stop believing in god already
If youre a realistic and logical person then chances are you already understand, that there is no god. All religions state that you must suffer and sacrifice your whole life and then, sometime later, you will experience something sweet. But if you do something that isnt by his book then you will go to a place where you will burn and suffer for eternity. But remember- God loves you. I like the thoughts of George Carlin on this matter if anyones interested.
20) choose your circle of friends
The old saying that you dont choose your friends isnt relevant!
Be friends with those who are better, who you can learn from. By choosing your path you choose those who will walk alongside you.
21) strive to do things so that a person from the other side of the world can say -“ Wow, thats cool!”
22) if you have a choice between learning algebra or english- learn english
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