Looking for the Feminism Cure

[dimsmrtlearninghouswife-2]

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I have returned! tumblr killed my last blog :( 35 trans woman learning to be a housewife & being more submissive to men and most importantly, correcting my feminist ways (kink thing). I am focusing on housewife training and practicing modesty, and learning to support the patriarchy in anyway I can ❤️ always open to dms! Men please help train me! I am a very fast learner <3

[lovelym4galvr-deactivated202510]

[yourperfectbunnygirl]

me thinking that my mutuals' likes and reblogs are about me like those guys thinking that the stripper is in love with them

[cottaqecore]

julia fischer

[glorybimbo]

“it’s just a phase”, “i can stop doing it”, “it’s just a fantasy, it’s not real”

but now I’m doing Ahegao every time I f4cking touch myself..

[traddykes]

this kink ruined my life man i used to find sucking dick disgusting now i actively get off to imagining myself gobbling it up and drooling all over it

[messedupdoggirl]

You could drop a pill in my drink right in front of me and id drink it making full eye contact the entire time with the widest smile on my face

[spankedquail]

Game Time = Mouth Time

He watches sports games with his cock in my mouth. If I've been consistently well behaved, I'm allowed a pillow from the couch to kneel on. Otherwise, I stay kneeling on the hardwood floor until he's done using my mouth, no matter how sore my knees may get.

Usually it's cockwarming. That involves keeping his cock warm and wet in my mouth while he focuses on the game, texting his buddies, drinking beer, what have you. The important part about cockwarming for me is to breathe softly and quietly around his cock. This usually means I have a few millimeters of space that I lose once he begins thrusting and face fucking begins. I can pull in air quietly without being a distraction. Drool pools in my mouth when I cockwarm, and I practice swallowing discretely, often enough to not drip out of my mouth, but always insuring that his cock stays wet and warm. Teeth are a big no-no. Feeling teeth on his cock earns me a warning slap, and a proper thrashing for repeat offenses. He's well-endowed, so it can be tricky, but I've learned to use my lips and tongue as aids to keep myself out of trouble.

Downtime is for face fucking. Whether it's a commercial break or a quick lull in the game, this is when he usually wants to thrust in my throat and fuck my mouth. Usually, he has me kneel up, and he'll hold my neck as he thrusts in and out. There's no escape here, the only option is to relax my throat and time my breathing to avoid gagging. Face fucking is an ordeal I'm expected to suffer through for his maximum enjoyment. It's a highly submissive act, and one that serves as reminder that my mouth is another hole for him to use. My jaw and throat are usually quite sore after being face fucked.

He gets oral service on command. Sometimes he wants more stimulation than cockwarming, but wants something more relaxing for him than face fucking. My husband generally likes my hands out of the way when I'm sucking his cock. Sometimes he wants my hands behind my back, sometimes he'll cuff them, other times he'll want my hands to gently stroke his balls as I work up and down his cock. We've been together long enough that I know what he likes, and my husband will also give me clear instructions if he wants something specific -- "I want to feel that tongue", "get your tongue moving", "all the way down", "make your lips tighter when you suck".

For all of the above, my husband demands that I maintain eye contact when his cock is in my mouth, like a good little porn star. He's usually not looking at me, since the game's on, but he expects to look down and see me obediently looking up at him.

All of the above are my job to do, and do well, with a good attitude. He doesn't hesitate to punish me if he feels any disrespect, lack of effort, or if what I'm doing is simply less pleasurable than what he expected. Spanking is the baseline punishment, and occcasionally a sports game ends with me over his knee, taking a session with the paddle for a subpar performance, followed by corner time to reflect on how I can improve my performance next time.

High standards keep me docile, happy, and a better wife for him. I always look forward to a game night -- another opportunity to improve my service. It boggles the mind that there are girls out there who suck cock half heartedly or do not eagerly swallow their man's cum (and men who accept this kind of behavior).

In our household, my tongue better keep moving, my lips better provide adequate pressure on his cock, and I better be doing all of this with enthusiasm, or there will be painful consequences. And that's how it should be. ❤️

[dumcuntpuppy-deactivated2024062]

Mansplaining Asks

want multiple men to explain super simple things to me like im dumb and in a language that my dumb girl brain can understand because i am a girl and girls cant be smartsy

[housewife-dreams]

PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEE help out my dumb girl brain

[dumbprincesslearning]

Tumblr is my coping mechanism ♡

I miss you Tumblr 💔

[banphrionsa88]

[metamourmatador]

[sweetsurrenderdoll]

Things to make your sub feel owned.

Have her wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her submission.

When she has broken a rule, talk to her as you punish and make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.

If your submissive does not respond to a command ask her first “Are you fighting me?” Check she has understood what is being asked, re-explain and the give her the full command again.

Make her take her take her clothes off every day as soon as she enters your house, apart from a collar: If she is not wearing make her kneel for you to fasten it .

Dress her when it suits you, or leave her instructions on what she is to wear.

A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.

Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.

Whenever possible, have her kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.

Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to your specifications.

Whenever possible, have her display herself whenever you come into the room — legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, she is to be sure your view is unobstructed

When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has an alternative title for you besides Master, such as “my love” etc.

Use her sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever she was doing.

Choose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.

Hand feed her from time to time

Have her crawl to bed each night.

Forbid her to touch herself when you are out of town

Choose her clothing each day.

Have her get your daily wardrobe ready for you the night before.

After punishment, have her kiss your boots and thank you for loving her enough to correct her.

Have her bring a warm towel and wash and massage Your feet each day after work.

Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).

Get her pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself).

Get her branded.

Respect, but push her limits.

Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.

Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.

Reward her by allowing her to please You sexually.

 Supervise her workout routine.

Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with her Master, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank her Master for the privilege.

.Have her polish Your boots weekly, on her knees at Your feet.

 Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.

Pin the contract on you wall where she can see it

Give her a writing assignment: “The definition of Pain – 1000 words”

 Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission

Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.

Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do….even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.

Forbid her to speak or look at you for several days and simply have her obey.

When appropriate, she is to speak when spoken to.

Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.

On occasion, share her, even if it is not sexually and in the form of servitude.

When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.

Have her keep her body clean shaven at all times or else send her for waxing to suit your preferences.

Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.

Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.

Have her keep a butt plug in at occasions, during sleep, or when you punish or use her.

Train her to sleep with her legs spread

Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare.

Give her reading assignments.

Test her on the reading assignments, to make sure she learned the appropriate lessons from each.

Have her write a Diary to reflect on lessons she has learned.

Have her write a blog on her submissive journey

Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed

Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.

Reward her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.

Call her your slut, your pet, toy etc

Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.

work with her, having her do the things on the list, so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.

Sometimes, pamper her — wash her body and hair, having her remain perfectly still as you turn her and move her about.

Hand feed her like a small child on occasion.

Have her eat from a dog bowl on occasion.

For transgressions: make her wear a sign to the next public function naming her crime.

Praise her dedication when she has pleased you well.

Instruct her that she is never to touch your body without permission.

Have her write a meditation about her submission, devotion and trust in you, to be said aloud each night before falling asleep.

For transgressions: deny her play.

For transgressions ignore her aide from using her, do not pet her, or talk to her, and forbid her to speak, move or touch you.

For Transgressions forbid her privileges i.e. food she likes, eating at the table, sitting on furniture, listening to music, watching television, use of phone/internet.

In the same ilk, For transgressions: deny her orgasm. Give her sex, but she can’t cum.

. For transgressions: Command that she is to be silent for a week.She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure you give as silently as possible.

Treat her like a pet in front of friends, making her present herself, turn herself, sit etc.

Give her a writing assignment: “The definition of Obedience – 1000 words”

Have her wear nipple clamps all day.

Tell her one morning that she must cum for you 15 times that day, and then write about the day.

Have her wear a butt plug under her clothing out to dinner.

On your birthday, let her receive your spankings.

Spend time training her how to move to please You.

For transgressions: stand her in the corner like a 3 year old.

Always flog her after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.

Speak about her as if she were not present.

For  serious transgressions: deny her any D/s at all for a week, letting her do just as she pleases, not allowing her to serve you in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame her and certainly make her strive to please you when it is over and she is in her place again.

Defend her honor to those who would disrespect your prized possession.

Pet her often.

Ban her from using the word “no” in ordinary conversation and have her say “I would prefer not”, or “I do not think so”.

Fondle, pinch, grope, slap your submissive at random times when you are preoccupied, out somewhere or passing on a staircase, simply because she is yours and you can.

Modify her body – have her pump her lips daily (both sets!) to keep them plump, keep her corseted under clothes in public.

Make her be webmaster for your site

Whenever possible, have her sleep in a cage.

Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to your liking.

Teach her things, expand her knowledge, in a patient daddy way.

When you are apart, call her and have her masturbate for you.. If you choose to play with others, make sure your slave knows who is first in your heart and that some things are just for her.

Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.

Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day and make sure it is done by day’s end.

Have her clean keep the house sparkling with her body naked, her legs spread, or on her hands and knees where possible.

Teach her patience.

Videotape your play sessions and watch them together.

Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside. Inspect them periodically.

Have her kiss the hand/crop/whip that spanks her.

Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book. Let her slip for a while thinking you are not noticing. Then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement.

Have her be perfectly still and quiet while you bring her extreme pleasure. When she moves or makes a sound punish her then return to the pleasure.

Keep her locked in her collar when you are home. Wear the key to the lock around your neck.

When possible, have her cook and serve your dinner wearing nothing but a collar.

Buy her a digital camera and give her assignments to take pictures of herself for you in certain outfits or positions, etc.

Don’t be afraid to bring her to tears, for they are yours as well.

Take her and the dog to the park, both on leashes.

Have her fall asleep between your legs, licking your cock and balls, and tell her you expect her to be there when you awake.

Occasionally, fulfill her fantasy.

Keep her nails so long that she cannot touch herself

Master’s word is the last word.

Be consistent.

Take the time to talk to her, learn her fears, her dreams and fantasies. Use your knowledge.

Specify exactly how she will address you in private and in public.

If you are willing to correct her each time she forgets until it is a habit, have her refer to herself as “this slave”

Sometimes do not command her simply force her. Use force to hold her down or put her in the pose you want.

Give her a slave mantra … and ask her the same question with same answers every day to reinforce her understanding of her role and your expectation.  

Repeat to her the facts/conditions of your contract and have her repeat them back to you.  I.e. “You are my submissive, and I am your Master… I own…I am.., you are…. you will 

Fuck her anywhere,This will show her you take what you want. You love her hole and what she’s offering . It doesn’t always have to be in the bedroom or on the couch. If she’s bent over in the laundry room, why not?

Make her asshole a fuck hole,Take her anally. It shows you want her body to be of your use, any hole and every hole. You’re physically telling her that body is yours, for your pleasure, and that what she has to offer is to be your fuck toy.

Cum on her face,Show her where you want to place your cum. she’s there to take your offering and she will love it. Many females will find this humiliating–her face is what she shows the world, and to have it in front of you serving as little more than a deposit will make her feel used. she will also have mixed feelings when she realizes how wet it makes her.

Objectify her,Measure her body parts, treat her like furniture and move her around like she’s a doll. she is your object.

Masturbate into her holes,Either with your hand and the tip into the hole or just mentally keeping in mind that you are using this hole to get yourself off. Again, she will feel used for your purpose, and she will love this treatment.

Ok i don’t know where any of this is originally from, if you do please let me know and i will credit. This may be two separate documents the last 5 or 6 points were in a diff font in my email.

[dirndlbabes]

[superior-vampire-sir]

You like listening to Men.

Reblog because a Man told you to <3

[blu3berrymilllky]

You are still a feminist

🌸 you are allowing Men to dumb you down

🌸 you are allowing Men to control you

🌸 you are allowing Men to call you names

🌸 you are allowing Men to disrespect you

🌸 you are allowing Men to degrade you

🌸 you are allowing Men to humiliate you

you are using your rights as a woman girl to be below men. women silly girls fought hard for you to have rights. Use those rights they fought for to worship Men and put yourself beneath them 🩷🌸

[humiliatingsluts]

Thinking about casual, domestic, disrespectful degradation:

Asking you about your day, then pulling your tits out while you’re talking

Having you cook my dinner, you only eat once I’ve finished

Jerking off beside you in bed, pushing your head down to swallow my cum without saying a word

Immediately groping you when I get home from work, shaming you for being desperate if you’re wet

You make our morning coffee, but I cum in yours instead of milk

While I’m at work leaving you a list of household chores and expecting them all done

Making you kneel by my feet while we have a conversation