💖 Self Ship Asks That Make You Think 💖
How does your F/O respond to seeing you hurt or upset? Do they act caring, immediately go into “who do I have to beat up” mode, or both?
Does your F/O let you have independence and wait for you to come to them when something is wrong, or are they always checking in while concerned for your wellbeing?
Is your F/O ever willing to put themselves in harm’s way for you? If so, describe what you predict or imagine, or a time when they have before.
Does your F/O prefer sunny days or rainy days? What about you? Do your preferences match? How do you both handle these days? What do you do together on either of these days?
Do you and your F/O sleep together at night? Is there a specific sleeping arrangement? Who hogs the blankets and pillows?
Has there ever been a REALLY big argument between you and your F/O? What was it about? How did you two resolve it?
What’s the ideal date night for you and your F/O? Describe and share what it would be like.
How do you think your F/O would propose to you? If they already have, describe how it went!
Name your biggest fear. Now name your F/O’s. Are they similar in any way? Do they come from similar origins or events in your lives? How do you help each other manage your fears?
What’s your favorite physical feature of your F/O? What about your favorite aspect of their personality?
Does your F/O have any creative hobbies? If so, what are they? If you have similar hobbies, do you and your F/O encourage each other or work together at all?
What’s your favorite way to be touched by your F/O? Were either of you touch starved before your relationship developed?
What’s you and your F/O’s morning routine? What about bedtime routine?
Have you and your F/O ever pranked each other? If so, was your funniest prank? Did a prank war happen?
Do you know your F/O’s likes and dislikes? Do they match up with any of yours?
