It's So Romantic

Lukas, mid-20's, self insert blog

[lemonselfship]

Intro and Lists

Hi, it's Lukas! My pronouns are he/him and I'm an adult. I was selfshippassion before, but I'm remaking since I've dropped the majority of my f/os. I'm a self shipper, but I also like to self insert into media even if I'm not romantically involved with anyone. I am a sharer!

Self shipping is a stress relief for me. I like reblogging other people's ships and sending ask game questions to others, and my DMs are always open to listen to gushing about your relationships. I may or may not post fanfiction and drawings about my self ship sometimes, as I use it to practice.

I do enjoy both fluff and angst so some of my self ship content may be occasionally sad.

I don't think DNIs actually work, but I'll still say it anyways: rpf selfship, proship and variants DNI, please. Minors DNI. If you post a lot of real world events or drama, I'll probably unfollow or block you for the sake of my mental health, it's nothing personal. If you use AI for your self ship, I will block you.

Currently, my f/os are Brynjolf from Skyrim and Loke from Fairy Tail!

[nebbymakesimagines]

For trans/nonbinary selfshippers, imagine your F/O(s) helping you pass in public.

(Post is written to be as neutral as possible. Please let me know if my language is wrong.)

If you need help styling your hair, your makeup, or your clothes, they'll be more than happy to assist. Even if they aren't the best at it at first, over time your F/O(s) will know exactly what you need to pass.

Do you have parts you want to hide? Your F/O(s) will help with that! If you have breasts you don't want to show, your F/O(s) will get you the perfect binder, both in size and in that favorite color or pattern. If you have a penis, they'll help you tuck and make sure that your pants/shorts/skirts/dresses aren't too tight on it.

And of course, they'll check if you haven't skipped your dosage of hormones before you go out.

Do you want them to accompany you? They'll gladly be by your side.

If somebody uses the wrong name/pronouns for you, your F/O(s) will correct them if you're too shy to. Maybe if they're the talkative type, they'll be glad to inform about how to use the right terms. Though, you might need to pull them away if they get too lost in conversation.

If somebody tries to misgender you or be rude, your F/O(s) will get you away as quickly as possible. They'll protect you and reaffirm who you are. If your F/O(s) are on the more vindictive side, maybe they'll plan a way to get revenge on the person who wronged you...

But regardless, they'll be there to help reaffirm your gender.

Intended for romantic, platonic, queerplatonic, altreous, or otherwise undefined F/Os. Dividers by cafekitsune.

[lemonselfship]

Never mind happy pride I had sushi and a nap and I'm okay again uwu

[bunny-lovers]

Imagine your f/o celebrating your identity:

If they don't quite understand it when you first tell them about it, they'll sit down and listen once you explain it to them. They may even do some research on their own once they have some time for themselves, until everything feels clearer to them.

From then on, they're your biggest (and loudest) fan! If they ever find anything that has the same colors as your flag(s) they'll absolutely buy it as a gift for you! If you're okay with it, they may even get themselves one of those cheesy shirts that say things like "I love my trans girlfriend/boyfriend/partner/etc".

If you ever feel invalidated because of bigots and other assholes, online or in real life, your f/o is quick to comfort and reassure you! Your identity is beautiful and valid, if it works for you then that's all that matters! You don't need other people's approval to exist as your happiest self.

Stars forbid you and your f/o encounter a bigot in a public place, because your beloved will 100% take the chance to argue, yell and maybe even lunge at them. They will never tolerate disrespect towards you, especially when they can directly do something about it.

If they're a bit of a geek, they may even bring it up to you that some of their favorite characters from books, games, shows and movies share the same label (or lack thereof) as you!! They're also very excited to hear about your own headcanons about your favorite characters, if you have any.

Your f/o is thankful that you trust them to share such an important and beautiful part of yourself with them, and they'll always do what they can to make you feel safe and celebrated! You are perfect to them just by being yourself, no matter how you come to express it!

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

[eldritchbauble]

My old person take today is that I feel like people have normalized being on your phone every single moment including when you're spending "quality" time with others so much that they're defensive if someone isn't ok with it. Yes, you have a problematic relationship with your phone and social media if you physically cannot put it down for a couple of hours to like, have dinner with your friends. It's a show of respect for other people's time and energy as well as important to be present and connect with people around you. Your parents who told you no phone at the table were right for that one.

[bunny-lovers]

Your f/o respects your identity, regardless of your presentation:

If you're unable to change your presentation due to safety concerns, your f/o will always support you however they're able to. They'll never misgender or mislabel you, but they won't put you into a position of risk either.

If you're unable to change your presentation due to the lack of acceptance of your peers, your f/o will make sure you know that they see you, for who you really are. They'll remind you that one day you'll be able to freely be yourself and from now until then, they'll be by your side every step of the way.

If you're unable to change your presentation due to lack of access to resources, your f/o will still do what they can to help you feel comfortable in your skin! They'll get you reaffirming clothes, use your names; before you're able to change your documents, and they'll be more than happy to show you off whenever possible.

And if there's any other reason why you're unable to change your presentation, just know that your f/o will always be your biggest supporter! You don't need to prove yourself to anyone, especially not to those who add no value to your life, so rest your heart in the safety your f/o provides you.

If you simply don't wish to change your presentation to begin with, your f/o is all for it! There's no reason to shove yourself into crammed boxes and expectations just for the sake of labels. You're what you identify as simply because you know yourself better than anyone else!

Your f/o is proud of you, no matter where you may be with your presentation! Just like how they were proud of you yesterday and how they'll be proud of you for the rest of your lives!

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

[rubysue1909]

[dollieclair]

basically selfshipping

[iamthetruestrepairman]

women’s bodies weren’t “made” to do anything, nature didn’t “intend” anything, no human action is “unnatural” and there is no inherent “purpose” to a human life

[iamthetruestrepairman]

people weren’t designed to do anything because they weren’t designed at all. Hope this helps 🤩

[shambhalala]

Did I ever mention how much I love my pal’s OCs?? Every single one of them? They are all amazing? Like, you created this fictional human from your own imagination and I’m so wowed by them thank you for your, and their, existence

[bunny-lovers]

Happy Pride Month Self Shippers!

There's nothing wrong with playing around with your f/o's sexuality and gender identity! Make their sexuality match yours, or make it so they're attracted to your gender, even if that's not the case in canon!

Your f/o loves your identity and they'll always respect you and your existence! Regardless of how you choose to label yourself, your f/o will always do their best to be as understanding and supportive of you as they possibly can!

Your love is beautiful and your f/o is so very honored to be able to experience all the joy and fondness that comes with being in a relationship with you! And rest assured, they'll always be proud of having you as their partner!

Your existence deserves to be celebrated! Everyday that your presence graces this earth is a whole new reason for your f/o to find the drive to stay on their feet. They're proud of you for making it through all the hardships you've faced!

Your f/o will always be happy to show you all the love and affection in the world! Anything that feels more comfortable for you, they'll do it with as much cheer as possible. Judgement and fear will never speak louder than their adoration for you!

Your f/o knows your sexuality deserves to be celebrated! Whether you're attracted to the same, multiple or no gender at all, they'll always show you all the love and support in the world! They're truly honored and overjoyed to share such a beautiful bond with you!

Your f/o will always respect your autonomy, especially when it comes to how you present yourself! Whether or not you decide to transition or change your appearance, your f/o will always be your number one supporter and defender. They'll always make sure you feel loved and respected for who you really are!

Your f/o will always be your safe place! They know you're more than capable of caring for yourself, but they also know that no one can be strong all the time, and they're more than happy to be your home and foundation! They'll always encourage you to share your hardships so that you can work through them together!

Your f/o loves every aspect of your being! Anything that you may be insecure or anxious about is just as valuable and treasured by them as everything that you enjoy about yourself. This pride month, let your f/o and yourself love you for who you are, unapologetically and proudly!

proship/darkship/neutral DNI

[candyheartedchy]

I love self shipping and having fun :]

[ziridotmidi]

[honeydewdrops333]

what doesn’t kill you makes your nervous system more sensitive for the rest of your life

[malwarechips]

"i think", i say, about my own ocs, who i made,

[rosexknight]

“my headcanon is…” i say about the canon that i made about my own characters

[bunny-lovers]

We're gay! 🏳️‍🌈🥰

[lemonselfship]

I think I just want to crawl back into the closet and shove my transness down into a deep dark hole and go back to dressing like a girl and having long hair. It's scary out there, I'd make an even uglier guy when I'm already ugly as a girl, and I'm too much of a coward to transition anyways.

[lemonselfship]

I don't know how to deal with the awareness that my f/os would definitely find me ugly