discourse hq

conservative democrat | straight trans man | exclusionist | transmedicalist | SF

[awesomacious]

[cisnowflake]

So I looked up what this all means and I’m really not okay anymore.

“The official acronym is now LGBTQQICAPF2K+ according to the magazine The Gay UK. That stands for “Lesbian,” “Gay,” “Bisexual,” “Transgender,” “Queer,” “Questioning,” “Intersex,” “Curious,” “Asexual,” “Agender,” “Ally,” “Pansexual,” “Polysexual,” “Friends and family,” “Two-spirit” and “Kink.””

[giant-spider-boyfriend]

what the fuck.

[spider-hands-mannos-deactivated]

please understand these people dont speak for us and this is not cannon

[hummingbirdbandit]

PLEASE UNDERSTAND THESE PEOPLE DO NOT SPEAK FOR US AND THIS IS NOT CANON

[khveteran013]

PLEASE UNDERSTAND THESE PEOPLE DO NOT SPEAK FOR US AND THIS IS NOT CANON

[jazz-n-vodka]

PLEASE UNDERSTAND THESE PEOPLE DO NOT SPEAK FOR US AND THIS IS NOT CANON

[sapphicdebates]

“But the official-”

THERE IS NO OFFICIAL. IT’S A COMMUNITY, NOT AN ORGANIZATION

[nohetero]

heyyo here’s a fun fact for y’all

trans women don’t experience male socialization before we come out

we experience closeted trans woman socialization which is an entirely different and extremely toxic monster

thank and have a terrible day if you disagree 

[nohetero]

hi if you’re safe to do so you should probably be reblogging this the idea that trans women are socialized as anything but women is one of the most potent arguments for stripping us of our humanity

[kincringeemporium]

Just a historical fyi from a lesbian: a lot of historical butch lesbians have used he/him pronouns, gone on T, and legally changed their gender marker to male for many reasons, one of them being the complexities of gender identity. None of them identified as men (men can't be lesbians, but also not all people who use he/him pronouns are male). they are mostly nonbinary or gnc people. this might be important to bring up since queer history is often erased

“have used he/him pronouns, gone on T, and legally changed their gender marker to male for many reasons”

“one of them being the complexities of gender identity”

do not transition if you do not have dysphoria 

do not transition fully to male if you are gnc or nonbinary 

bye 

-k 

[aftrskool-deactivated20180823]

OOGGBSFMGHDFKJS PEOPLE ARE SAYING I SUICIDE BATED KLUBB BECAUSE I TOLD HIM TO CHOKE IM CRYING THATS NOT WHAT SUICIDE BAITING IS…….. PLEASE GO OUTSIDE……

[tooiconic]

You’re grounded.

[duckydiscourse]

this one cringey stimblog calls themselves a “nonbinary gal”

if you’re nonbinary you’re not a girl sweetie :’)))))))

[n-ktnk]

[itched]

also if, in 2018, your main discourse stance is ‘BUT ACES AND AROS CANT BE CISHET’ pls go directly to jail, do not pass go, do not collect $200

[aces-aint-cishets]

They CAN be cishet.

They CAN’T be cishets.

[itched]

the moon has flesh?

[shinsoucourse]

cishet and cishets are….. the same thing……

[hasenfu]

@aces-aint-cishets means it as cis het and CishetTM.

[itched]

they the same thing tho ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[thismachinekills]

@rabbitclaw ur one of those idiots who thinks theres a difference between thing and Thing arent u

[hasenfu]

i can’t believe i’m older than you but understand tumblr better.

there even was a list some months ago. one of it was:

white gay person: I am white and attracted to the same gender as I am.

White Gay: *is racist* *sees backlash* How dare you offend me? I am gay this is homophobia.

[thismachinekills]

h

[lesbitchka]

i (a lesbian) called my best friend (a gay man) “babe” in a gsa meeting yesterday and this cishet ace girl said “are you guys dating or is it like a queerplatonic relationship” and i didn’t know what to say so i said “no we’re just normal people” and now she’s making vague finsta posts about aphobic lesbians

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[sapphicdebates]

Pronouns 100% do indicate gender! That’s literally all they are! They aren’t a nickname. They aren’t an outfit. Everyone is making them out to be something that you “pick,” when they’re just a grammatical shorthand so you don’t have to keep saying someone’s name over and over. Ever since people started coming up with ridiculous neopronouns, people have been treating pronouns like a fashion statement. It’s absurd. No one is going to take you seriously. 

Honestly, I don’t understand the point in calling yourself agender and then purposely using gendered pronouns, but whatever. If you’re dysphoric, you can pick what makes you comfortable. But how on earth is a trans woman comfortable being called he? You’re telling me that wouldn’t trigger dysphoria massively? I don’t buy it. The only trans women I’ve seen use masculine pronouns (when they aren’t in the closet) is “trans women” who are quite obviously cis men trying to weasel their way into trans spaces. WHY would you POSSIBLY transition to female, and then try and get people to call you with male pronouns? 

While I obviously disagree with your final statement that pronouns aren’t gendered, GNC people playfully calling themselves “girlfriend” or “boi” is 1) a part of gay culture, and 2) not at all on the same level as expecting everyone to use pronouns that in no way match your gender.

Trans people change their pronouns to match their gender. It’s just what happens when you come out as a guy/girl, people will use male/female terms to refer to you. It’s completely reasonable to expect people to use the pronouns that align with your gender, even if it doesn’t align with your sex. But what possible sense would it make to make people call you pronouns that don’t match your gender? Beyond the fact it makes no sense: you’re not that important. People aren’t going to remember the specific pronoun sets of every person they meet when they don’t even make sense. It’s like expecting everyone to remember your nickname, and ONLY EVER call you by your nickname, but your nickname is Bob and your actual name is Daniel, so they aren’t even related.

Only more ridiculous, because nicknames actually mean something. They’re something people pick. Pronouns aren’t.

[alienscumbag]

[lesbitchka]

what’s a cishet to a discourse

what’s a discourse to oppression

what’s oppression to a mogai

[atern-deactivated20180505]

I honestly believe the whole “adults require less sleep” thing is honest to good probably a myth created by capitalism

[phinarei]

Well, since the 8 hours of sleep thing LITERALLY was an invention of capitalism, more than likely.

It’s not even true. Humans vary drastically and need anywhere between 6 and 10 hours of sleep as adults.

8 hours was invented as part of creating an 8 hour work day back when there were no labor laws. I don’t remember who invented it, but he proposed 8 hours for work, 8 for sleep, and 8 to do what we like. It had no basis in science. Just capitalism.

[golbatgender]

“8 hours for work, 8 hours for rest, and 8 hours for what you will” was a slogan made by labor activists, who were trying to make 8 hour shifts the legal max when shifts in factories, mines, and mills were commonly 12 hours or more. They were trying to get the bare minimum. Please don’t ascribe their fight for even that much to “capitalism,” when in fact it’s quite the opposite.

[scum-of-truth]

“Humans vary drastically and need anywhere between 6 and 10 hours of sleep as adults.”

What is the average of those numbers?

And what prevents you from using the eight free hours for more sleep?

“It had no basis in science. Just capitalism.”

Actually, economics is a science.

[lesbitchka]

did you know! an identity doesn’t have to be LGBT to be valid! in fact, most existing identities are not LGBT!

[sjw-bot]

,the ace discourse, and i use that term loosely, drives me to drink

[scumfuckus]

this passes the turing test

[tobey-maguire-deserved-better]

One thing I really enjoy is the people like SORRY OP WE DO EXIST AND WE ARE FAEGENDER/NON-DYSPHORIC TRANS PEOPLE/OTHER BULLSHIT

And it’s… I know you exist as irl people like… The issue is those aren’t things and you’re being an embarrassing weirdo.

I know you exist because you’re often cis straight people trying to force your way into support groups where you don’t belong and you couldn’t be more of the “fuckin hell are you serious” elephant in the room when you open your mouths.

Basically I acknowledge your existence but it doesn’t make how you identify not fake and embarrassing lmao.

Being trans isn’t about how you “identify”, you either are or you aren’t. You can’t be a degree of transgender. You either have sex dysphoria or don’t. I don’t get to pick whether or not I’m trans because it’s a medical condition I live with regardless ahaha. Thought I get why some people would say they’re cis even with minute dysphoria for social comfort and safety reasons and stuff.

I’m sorry you think the 4th full moon of each year makes you think you’re a trans man but I’m afraid it doesn’t and just saying nonsense doesn’t make it valid.

“I got one thousand people to group up and think they’re narwhals. Now if you question whether or not we’re narwhals we’re going to doxx you” is more or less the current situation and how stupid stuff has become with mogai genders and people thinking gatekeeping is “Attention seeker cis people aren’t trans”

[wellbutrinboy]

someone: hey… are you a virgin

person about to make up the term “gold star aroace”: oh you haven’t heard?

[milkandtruffles]

[crazycristof]

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