blog for stuff that i am sick of seeing on the internet. this is basically my altar of suffering
pronouns are he/him, i am a trans man :p i am also aroace... so you know i've played these games before
call me steve and or seregios lol. i like monster hunter! this is an account separate from my main so that i can avoid the stress of these topics and just post about fandom stuff there. i will not be sharing, but if anyone knows me on my main they can prob figure who this is from how i type.
DNI:
(pro)radqueers
proshippers
terfs/tirfs, trash, radfems, bigots
ableists / fakeclaimers / armchair diagnosers
anti-recovery
pro harmful paraphilia including lolicon/shota (if I have the terms spelt wrong tell me, I rarely see / use those terms)
MAGA / pro ICE / pro war
transandropbes / transmisogynists / intersexists / exorsexists (100000 cuts for people who hate on others)
OTHER:
FREE PALESTINE!! FREE UKRAINE!! PEOPLE WHO USE CONTRADICTORY LABELS ARE AWESOME
TAGS (mostly for me):
\#steve squawk - thoughts on discourse
\#steve box - ask responses
\#steve info - intro post here, or maybe clarifying statements
\#steve bleed - reblog tag
stolen formatting from transandrophobia-is to be clear, i haven't made an intropost but for this blog that i made over night i feel it was important
been out for 7 years but can't get testosterone and my voice isn't deep enough still to pass to a stranger. if i see one more person say it's easier for transmascs to pass i will kill myself in front of them
we don't just gotta hold MEN (trans AND cis and intersex, etc.) to a higher standard by the way, but EVERYONE. we live in a white supremacist sexist society, we gotta all put in the work and i am not kidding
Flaming hot take apparently but if another trans person’s body causes you dysphoria you need to grow the fuck up and keep your mouth shut. I can’t stress this enough it is not their problem to deal with and YOU need to work on that.
If you want to support intersex people, stop using the TMA/TME binary.
I’m saying this as an intersex person.
The general consensus (from what I’ve seen) is that TMA means “transmisogyny affected” and TME means “transmisogyny exempt”. At first it sounds like a good binary, but quickly falls apart once you see its flaws.
In usage, TMA refers exclusively to transfeminine or “AMAB” people. It does not acknowledge the transmisogyny faced by those who would be exempt from it.
For example, a gender-nonforming cis woman would face transmisogyny for looking like a transgender woman. Would she still be TME, despite being a target?
An intersex man would be considered TME, but if he goes through an estrogenising puberty that makes him look feminine and become a target of transmisogyny, would he become TMA or stay TME?
Is a non-binary person TME or TMA? I know it depends on their assigned gender at birth, which makes the whole point of this flawed system completely moot.
And ignoring all those said flaws, what is the point of inventing entirely new binaries just to show who is “exempt” from bigotry, when everyone can face it one way or another?
What about the entire intersex community, who can’t neatly fit into every single binary you make? What about those who can’t be categorised as “TME”, nor “TMA”?
It is simply intersexist in almost every way. There is no point of showing who can be and can’t be affected by transmisogyny when you refuse to acknowledge the millions of people who don’t neatly fit in a binary.
And if your first thought is some form of “I don’t care” or “they’re TME by default” then you are the problem. This sort of binary is actively harming the community and only putting everybody in a divide.
Stop making useless binaries and actually focus on the real problems that plague the world!
Focus on the transgender men who are being silenced because of their assigned sex at birth!
Focus on the intersex babies being forcibly mutilated before they can even crawl!
Focus on the transgender people facing execution, possibly being stoned or flogged for the mere act of being transgender!
Focus on SOMETHING ELSE! Do a change in the world! Advocate for your community! Protest transphobic laws, regulations and policies!
Stop focusing on the West where you are (rightly) valued and help the people who are being actively kicked out of their homes, killed, and mutilated against their will for being queer!
And most importantly, stop referring to yourself as “TME” or “TMA”. It helps no one and only signals to the wrong people. It actively divides the community and harms everybody.
My own country has me banned from a normal life for being queer. I face a potential death penalty for being gay. I won’t even be able to go on Hajj if anyone finds out I’m transgender. I won’t even be able to practice my culture!
I am forced to stay in a shell that isn’t mine.
And I’m supposed to care about being “TME” and respecting every single order from radfems who live on the opposite side of the globe, who have never faced the possibility of being murdered by their own parents.
I am supposed to respect the same people who hate my mere existence, who want me dead for the mistake of being a man, while my parents actively talk about the “disease” that is queerness and how they want to protect me from it.
I am supposed to shut my mouth and let the people who mutter “theyfab”, “transandrobro”, and every single other slur under the sun at me speak for the entire community.
While my own people are ACTIVELY being shunned out of society for acting gay. For crossdressing. For having a face that looks even slightly feminine.
While my own people are being forced to “get fixed”. To undergo genital surgery for being intersex. While they are being actively murdered for having ambiguous genitalia.
And you care about me not being your model view of a good trans man?
i feel so fucking numb rn. my friend was venting about dysphoria and i, thinking the floor was open to it, mentioned a thing with dysphoria that i experienced the other day (having an intrusive thought about taking a knife to my breasts). and her response was that they didn't want to hear it esp since they wanted to keep theirs. like girl i am not asking you to take off your own breasts bc i am upset by mine. i'm just sharing the fact that we have an experience of feeling wrong in our own bodies.
honestly genuinely curious about the amount of people calling trans men "mini hitlers". like what about being a trans man is comparable to nazis at all let alone hitler. is just everyone you don't like basically hitler. where did this start
This is antisemitism (what OP is describing, not the actual post).
A) Trans men can be Jewish (hi). You're calling Jews "Hitler" just for existing as they are.
B) Referring to an entire group of people are "Hitlers" erases the incredibly negative significance of who Hitler was and what he did, and effectively serves to downplay the Holocaust.
back on this account for pride month because i wish i could change transandrophobes minds. why should i feel safe talking to you knowing that internally you think my gender is harmful? ugh.
Shout out to my mom who explains my transition as "Having a daughterpillar turn into a Boyterfly". It doesn't erase the fact I was an adorable little girl, and also affirms my gender now. I love my mother.
I think if you bully trans girls for their style or interests or hobbies, especially if they’re just starting out exploring and discovering themselves and their identities, then honestly please shut up and refrain from making your opinion their problem. Girls who love spinny skirts and thigh highs and hyperpop music and plushies are cool as fuck and the only thing you should be doing is buying them even more of the things they love!!
I had a fifteen minute long crying session yesternight over the fact that all I was 10 years ago, at the ripe old age of 14, is lost and lonely, and now, at 24, I am neither and that filled me with so much gratitude
reblog to tell a teenager that these aren’t actually the best years of your life and that things can and will get better when you have independance and maybe are away from your situation right now.
Its me reblog to tell me that
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