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The way proshits talk about minors is insane. They'll gleefully talk about drawing porn of 13 year olds, but when actual 13 year olds say "hey that's weird as fuck" SUDDENLY they're just stupid immature babies who need to go play in the sandbox while the adults are talking (about jerking off to the thought of children their age being raped). Like, which is it? Are minors immature idiots who know nothing about sex or are they mature enough to be sexualized and have relationships with adults? And if it's the former, then doesn't that say something about proshitters if they find the idea of someone who's not old enough to understand sexuality to be sexually appealing? No matter how you slice it it's gross
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A reminder for those that need to hear it: inappropriate intrusive thoughts are not desires, dreams are not desires, even uncomfortable sexual dreams are not “unconscious” desires. OCD can work in mysterious ways. “testing” yourself to see if you have a bodily reaction to those intrusive thoughts is not and will never be helpful!
another thing is: Intrusive thoughts are not gateways to harmful paraphilias. If you experience pedo-OCD, zoo-OCD and other life draining subtypes, that does NOT mean it is a sign you have a harmful paraphilia.
I've seen paratards say "if you have pedo-ocd then you have to come to terms with accepting that you might be a pedo."
No, because thats NOT what fucking OCD means or is. These types of OCD are ego-dysonic. They heavily go against your morals, sometimes they are triggered by SA or other trauma, other times it can be brought on randomly.
They are repetitive, UNWANTED thoughts, and people with OCD like this never seek out any abuse material to try and "lessen" the thoughts. Hell, alot (not all) dont even want to watch certain shows that have kids or animals in it to avoid going into a spiral. Thats how much OCD-ers are afraid of these thoughts.
Intrusive thoughts arent desires and they dont mean you have disgusting urges.
Your OCD isn't a sign you are a predator who wants to hurt innocent beings.
Its a sign you have intense catastrophic thinking, that you're afraid to hurt others. Your thoughts dont bring pleasure, even if you have a groinal response, that isnt a sign you like those thoughts.
Dont let these nasty radqueer/proharm para fucks tell you you're on the same level as them, ok? ok ♡
HAVE A GOOD DAY TO ALL THE PEOPLE STRUGGLING WITH INCONVENIENTAL AND UNTALKED ABOUT SUBTYPES! You WILL get through it.
This take is probably gonna be controversial on tumblr but fuck it we ball
It’s absolutely ethical to bully pedophiles and zoophiles and make them feel unwelcome in queer spaces.
Push them out and keep pressing them if they try to weasel back in. No matter how much they whine and bitch, keep pushing.
It's always morally right to bully pedophiles, zoophiles, necrophiliacs and people who enable this behavior out of ANY social space, PERIOD. unless theyre putting in the work to actually become a better person and not offend or identify with bullshit dogwhistles, you do not owe these people your time, your energy, nor your grace. Let their guilt swallow them whole if they feel it, and let them dig their heels into the sand until they meet whatever fate they choose.
These are grown adults in 99/100 of these cases. Not children. Do not coddle them, do not make them feel bad, do not make them feel "welcome". If you let a nazi into your bar, it is a nazi bar. PUSH THEM OUT. MAKE THEM UNWELCOME. MAKE THEM AFRAID.
And if they try to compare it to lynching or social murder, real things experienced by US, people of color, beat them with rocks. In no world is saying "you are a predator, I refuse to allow you to offend" equivalent to hanging someone and making a spectacle out of it. And If you're a predator, and that's how you feel? Boohoo cracker. Cry about it. I don't care. Either lock in or shut up. :-P
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Yeah actually I am ableist and discriminatory towards pedos, necros, and zoos, idgaf about them. Hope they all get anvils dropped on them.
Pro-para and radqueer are cults meant for normalizing abuse, run while you can
Also can we please stop labing kinks as paraphilia. objectum, somno, cnc, ect. It's all just kink, don't let these losers delude you into believing anything else.
kinks are by definition paraphilic. paraphilias are "abnormal sexual attractions" and kink such as BDSM has, historically, been labeled as sexually deviant- aka paraphilic. so has homosexuality btw but that's not important right now. sadomasochism is still considered paraphilic. bondage is paraphilic. choking kinks are paraphilic because they can lead to death if done incorrectly. somnophilia is paraphilic because it can include nonconsenting entities, even if there is a way to do it consensually. cnc is paraphilic because it's a rape kink, and even if cnc itself is consensual, obviously actual rape is harmful. objectophilia is paraphilic because it's considered "abnormal" by mainstream society, even if it's objectively harmless. many paraphilias, *including the harmful ones*, have ways to enact them consensually, such as through roleplay between consenting adults.
i agree the definition really needs to be changed and that there should be a distinction for paraphilias that can result in serious harm and or nonconsensual harm. the definition itself is subjective, because who defines what's "abnormal?"
but then you have to accept sadomasochism, choking kinks, and a lot of other BDSM practices are paraphilic due to the extensive harm they can cause, especially if done wrong, and the fact pain and harm is oftentimes directly involved, even if done consensually and safely. you're digging your own hole here.
pro-para is not normalizing abuse, it's advocating for the destigmatization of paraphilias because attractions themselves don't equate to predatory behaviors or beliefs. you can be a pedophile, necrophile, zoophile, etc and understand acting on it is wrong. most do, in fact. minimizing the social ostracization paraphilias face, spreading helpful resources, and just acknowledging that non-offending paraphiles exist, actively helps stop people from offending.
you're thinking of the pro-contact community. those are the abusers and predators you're after. radqueer is supporting abuse, though. fuck radqueers and fuck pro-contact paraphiles.
im now going to block you because you evidently think it's okay to tell people to kill themselves, as seen by the tags on one of your posts replying to a reblog on this one. i'm not engaging with you any more than this. go do some actual research instead of relying on your disgust response.
Don't care didn't read, go touch some grass and stop trying to humanize people who want to touch kids and dogs.
Pro-para and radqueer are cults meant for normalizing abuse, run while you can
Also can we please stop labing kinks as paraphilia. objectum, somno, cnc, ect. It's all just kink, don't let these losers delude you into believing anything else.
somno nor is objectum a kink...
Objectum is an attraction that hurts no one, and somno is a kink that can be practiced consentually. They shouldn't be lumped in with child rapists and dog fuckers. It's some pedantic ass shit.
Pro-para and radqueer are cults meant for normalizing abuse, run while you can
Also can we please stop labing kinks as paraphilia. objectum, somno, cnc, ect. It's all just kink, don't let these losers delude you into believing anything else.
Objectum is based on objectophilia and somno is short for somnophilia lol. They are literally paraphilias.
You could say the same thing about most fetishes, if it can be practiced consentually and safely it shouldn't be labeled as a para. Especially when people use "pro-para" as an excuse to normalize and prepetuate abuse (beastiality, pedophilia, necro).
Harmless fetishes and attractions shouldnt be lumped in with child rapists and dog fuckers.
Pro-para and radqueer are cults meant for normalizing abuse, run while you can
Also can we please stop labing kinks as paraphilia. objectum, somno, cnc, ect. It's all just kink, don't let these losers delude you into believing anything else.
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