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An insight of things i like, things ive made, people i've seen. ohh the feels ;-)

[donepi808]

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[tboj]

Malec + text posts 

- What do you mean this isn’t what happened…

[thepsychmind]

Fun Psychology facts here!

[nathanielatakora]

Life is full of magical moments, so long as we are willing to find them.

[love-for-boys]

[bigdcdnguy-deactivated20150709]

[donepi808]

Ocean View Pier, VA. (at Ocean View Fishing Pier)

[zackisontumblr]

NEW VIDEO: i read an amazing article that i absolutely had to share… [x]

[iamnoonewhoareyou]

Spread this

[northbelt]

So important

[reservvedd]

if any of you are gay, have gay friends, or are questioning your sexuality watch this it really opened my eyes

[nearlyhuman]

idk anything about this guy but he seems like the nicest and i really appreciated hearing his thoughts. Passing along in case anyone else is interested, too!

[vdavis0789]

Even though I’m a girl, this is LEGIT

[brenniboo]

I read the article from this, and definitely agree. Minority stress is a serious issue that affects gay and bi men, but is never really explicitly discussed in the mainstream of gay culture. 

[yorha]

Spread this like fire!!!

[softmotherswimming-deactivated2]

True for all the queers honestly and this is something I’ve known forever. Especially the feeding emotional trauma with sex part.

[studymagik]

this is all relevant and important for wlw too!! (just swap out toxic masculinity for misogyny!!)

[mapplethorpesyrup-deactivated20]

BUMP THIS SHIT OH MY GAWD IM ON THE VERGE OF TEARS

[thepsychmind]

Fun Psychology facts here!

[cartnsncreal]

Reblog and you might save someone’s life, especially with all our Black Girls going missing #ProtectBlackGirls #SaveLife

[lazorsandparadox]

For those who don’t know what’s happening in the video, she untied her shoelaces, pulled one through the inside of the zip tie binding her hands, then tied the shoelaces together. Then, by pulling downward and back and forth on the shoelaces with her feet, she created enough friction to wear away part of the ziptie, making it weak enough to snap right off her hands.

[m3rcykill]

SIGNAL BOOST

SIGNAL BOOST

SIGNAL BOOST

[sensitiveblackperson-deactivate]

[robmyheart]

SHE DID THAT

[thejoeboard-deactivated20181230]

me at the family dinner, sometime in 2036

[democraticsenator]

Every time I see this video, it renews me

[donepi808]

Ive messed up so much of my life that I just don't think good things will happen anymore, love will never happen, happiness, fulfillment, a career, my health. I messed it all up. Im just living day by day as it is until my life is over.

[cutie-boyboy]

Too real

[nsfwcobaltsnow]

[slavetomyheadcanon]

Just in case you needed a reminder of how big wolves actually are… because sometimes when there’s no context for size, I tend to think of them as a lot smaller than they really are.

[lionloveshisbear-deactivated202]

Adorable

[bhritscold]

confession

ever since i found out i’m poz i’ve really been trying to rebuild my sense of self-worth. it’s been tough. most days (especially since i became single) i actually have to tell myself that my value isn’t determined by my status, that the people who will matter in my life don’t care and that the people who care don’t matter (thanks dr seuss). sometimes i catch myself thinking that i’m not good enough to talk to someone because i fear rejection (not that i have any interest in actually dating; i’m not emotionally ready for that yet). i have to check myself and remind myself that i deserve lasting relationships, whether platonic or romantic, and that thinking that others are better off without me is a toxic way to look at the world.

so here’s me asking the tumblr sphere if you know someone who’s hiv positive, help them know that you value them and that they have a place in the world. if someone confides in you that they’re positive, they’re trusting you with a huge part of themselves. it’s literally just as frightening as coming out of the closet, if not more so. if a romantic interest tells you he or she is positive, don’t run away - ask how their treatment’s going; if they’re telling you, they’re expecting you have questions and are more than likely willing to answer them, including about the risk of transmission (which, if their treatment’s going well, is probably extremely close to zero). help fight to end the stigma that positive people face both externally and internally. be an ally for your positive brothers and sisters. we need your support.

also, feel free to reblog this so more people can see and know and be aware of one of the many struggles that people living with hiv face. as a cis white gay male, my experiences definitely don’t run the gamut, but i feel like this is one a lot of poz people can relate to.

[thepropertylovers]

[curlsandstems]

HIV + and proposal

A couple weeks ago, a speaker who told his story about getting HIV proposed to his, now fiancé. Prior to him meeting his fiancé, I remember when he was crying in denial because he believed that no one will ever love him again. I knew that wasn’t true but I couldn’t tell him because I barely knew the guy. The reason why I knew he would find love was because he was an attractive guy with a great personality. Luckily I was raised not judge someone because they have this disease. Y'all know I hate ignorant ass people and after I saw him speak the first time, I went up to him, shook his hand, and thank you for sharing his story. After I came back, my friends looked at me all kinds of crazy.

Since some of lack basic health education, HIV cannot be spread through handshakes, hugs, and not even kissing. STOP THINKING THAT JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS HIV MEANS YOU CAN’T TOUCH THEM! Like, Google is free. Do your fucking research.

If you have HIV and think you will never find someone to love you, you will. Just be patient and speak it to existence… Y'all I’m glad he found love and a women who would love him and his son for wholeheartedly. I wish y'all could have seen how I felt when I found out he proposed to his fiancé and if ever see him speak or even see him, I am going to rub him being in denial of finding love in his face… I’m so happy for him.