Preggoalways

The blog is about my personal journey through conception, pregnancy, postpartum, lactation, as well as our kinks (breeding, pregnancy, and hucow). I am poly, Mr.P is my husband and G is my second partner and my Bull/Daddy. 40’s/50’s poly couple

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Hey fam!~ Glad to hear y'all are doing okay, I'm not gonna take up too much of your time, I just wanted to check in and say, send my usual vibes to yall~.

Mrs.E, congrats on making it to 30 weeks, i hope you are glowing today, and I send my love and good luck vibes to your little one

Mrs.P, congrats on making it to 22 weeks, once again you are GLOWING~. Words alone can't describe, let alone come close to explaining how much you shine and how beautiful you are and your life is, and the love in it~.

To the Papa Bears, keep up the good work and spreading the live and affection you have for your family and others. I wish nothing but peace, love, growth and happiness for you all and the newest additions coming to the family~. I'm rooting for you all👍🏾💙💚💜

With warm love, lots of big hugs, good luck vibes and prayers,

Yours truly,

-Sable💙💚❤🧡💜🖤💛💖

Sable,

You always seem to show up with exactly the right amount of kindness.

Thank you for thinking of all of us and for continuing to cheer our family on. Life has been moving very quickly lately, but we're doing well and enjoying this season, even when it feels a little chaotic.

Mrs. E is getting closer and closer to meeting her little one, which is exciting for all of us. She's still keeping herself busy, still managing to do far more than we tell her she should, and she's looking wonderful.

Mrs. P is also doing great. At 22 weeks, the babies are becoming harder and harder to ignore, and I think she's reached the stage where every week brings some new surprise. She'll tell you she's just carrying on as usual, but from where we're standing, she's doing an incredible job.

The kids are thriving, the house is loud, and the calendar remains completely full. In other words, everything is pretty normal around here.

And yes, the Papa Bears are doing our best to keep everybody fed, hydrated, comfortable, and occasionally convinced to sit down and rest for five minutes. Whether we're successful at that last part is another story entirely.

Thank you again for all the love, prayers, positive thoughts, and encouragement. We hope life is treating you well too, and we appreciate you taking a moment out of your day to check in on us.

Until next time,

The P Family

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Looking absolutely gorgeous and in need of worship. Burger sized babies in the oven and melons on the table 🤤. Have you noticed any real growth spurts across day to day?

Well that's certainly one way to phrase it 😅

And yes, I actually have noticed what feel like growth spurts from time to time. Not every day, but there are definitely periods where the changes seem much more noticeable.

Usually it starts with the babies feeling particularly active, my appetite picking up, and me having a few really good eating days. Then suddenly my clothes fit differently, my belly feels heavier, and positions that were comfortable a few days ago aren't quite as comfortable anymore.

Most of the growth happens gradually enough that I don't notice it. Then every so often I'll catch my reflection, compare a photo, or simply wake up one morning and think, "Okay... we're definitely bigger than we were last week."

At 22 weeks, the babies seem to be making their presence known more and more each day, so those little jumps in size are becoming easier to notice.

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Wow thats so awesome! And absolute so beautiful tha k you for sharing them.

Do your breasts get them with as much as they expand and contract? Let alone grow bigger and rounder?

They definitely can.

My breasts have gone through just as many changes as my belly over the years. Between pregnancy, nursing, weaning, and then becoming pregnant again, they've spent a lot of time growing, shrinking, filling, and changing shape.

I do have some stretch marks on my breasts, although they're generally less noticeable than the ones on my belly. Like my abdominal stretch marks, they started out more reddish or pink and faded over time.

And yes, when they grow quickly during pregnancy or when my milk comes in after birth, the skin can feel very tight and stretched. That's usually when I'm most likely to notice new marks appearing.

At this point, it's just part of the story my body tells. Growing babies, feeding babies, and doing it over many years leaves its mark, and I've never really minded that. 😊

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Do you actually feel bigger everyday?

Not every single day, no.

Most days the changes are so gradual that I don't notice much of a difference. But every now and then I'll have one of those mornings where I wake up and immediately think, "Okay, we're definitely bigger than yesterday."

I notice it more in how I feel than how I look. A position that was comfortable the day before suddenly isn't. Rolling over in bed takes a little more effort. My belly rests differently on my lap. The babies feel heavier or more spread out.

With multiples especially, those little jumps seem to happen more often. It's less of a steady climb and more like several days of subtle changes followed by a day where everything feels noticeably larger.

So no, not every day. But often enough that it still surprises me sometimes, even after all these pregnancies.

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With as many times as you've bein pregnant? Do you still get those deep purple stretch marks ? Or are they translucent, like the rest of your bellys growth ?

For me, stretch marks usually start out more reddish than deep purple.

As my pregnancies progress, especially in the second and third trimester, the skin on my belly becomes much thinner. Because of that, newer stretch marks don't always stand out as dramatically as they did when I was younger.

I still get stretch marks, but they tend to blend in more with the overall stretched appearance of my belly. After delivery, they gradually fade and lighten over time.

So the short answer is yes, I still get them, but they usually appear more red or pink than deep purple, and later in pregnancy they're often less noticeable against the rest of my stretched skin.

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Just some anecdotal stuff on the moment birth happens.

The last few hours of pregnancy feel so amazing. One moment you’re so big and full then within a few hours the womb is emptied.

You’ve been so gravid for such a long time and then it all goes away so fast.

There is something surreal about those last few hours. One moment you’re carrying this tremendous weight, feeling babies move, stretch, kick, and hiccup inside you, and your entire world revolves around being pregnant. Then a few hours later, everything changes.

For me, especially after longer pregnancies and multiple pregnancies, there is always a moment afterward where I instinctively reach for my belly and realize it’s different. The movements are gone. The tightness is gone. The constant awareness of the babies is suddenly replaced by little people lying beside you instead of inside you.

It’s exciting, emotional, and a little bittersweet all at the same time.

I love being pregnant, so there is always a small part of me that feels sad when that chapter ends. You’ve spent months growing these babies, protecting them, carrying them everywhere you go, and then suddenly they’re no longer part of your body in the same way.

But at the same time, the trade is worth it. You get to finally see their faces, hold them, learn who they are, and begin the next chapter.

With multiples, that feeling can be even more dramatic. Your body changes so quickly after delivery that it almost feels impossible. One day you’re carrying what feels like an entire soccer team, and then within hours there’s all this space where there wasn’t any before.

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I feel as though pushing for one baby isn’t enough of an experience. Bearing down and pushing multiples, whether it be twins or triplets, even quads just sounds so much better.

Much more satisfying to be pushing out lots of babies during a long birth

I can understand why it might sound that way from the outside.

And honestly, I probably romanticize it a little myself.

Yes, multiple pregnancies and multiple births are harder. There are more risks, more discomforts, and more opportunities for things to go wrong. I’ve experienced many of those challenges firsthand over the years.

But I would be lying if I said I didn’t genuinely love the experience.

There is something incredibly unique about carrying more than one baby, feeling them move together, watching your body adapt, and eventually bringing them into the world one by one. It’s exhausting, overwhelming, beautiful, and unforgettable all at the same time.

When you’ve done it many times, there is also a sense of accomplishment that comes with it. Not in a competitive sense, but in the sense that your body and mind have gone on this remarkable journey together. You’ve carried the weight, endured the discomfort, faced the uncertainty, and ultimately brought life into the world.

I think every mother who has given birth understands that feeling to some degree, but for me it became something deeply ingrained in who I am. Pregnancy, birth, and motherhood have shaped my personality and my outlook on life in ways I can’t fully put into words.

There is something profoundly humbling about realizing your body was capable of growing and delivering another human being. And when you’ve experienced that more than once, especially with multiples, it leaves a lasting impression on your heart.

Even now, after all these years, I still find it a little magical.

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When you guys say very knocked up, I bet quints again

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sorry if i asked this. What do you think about men having birthing fetish? Did your husband ever get aroused when watching you giving birth?

I think people are often uncomfortable admitting how closely connected intimacy, pregnancy, and birth actually are.

As for men being attracted to pregnancy or birth, I don't think it's nearly as unusual as people make it out to be. Pregnancy is literally the result of intimacy. Birth is the culmination of that process. It's a deeply instinctual, emotional, and powerful experience.

And yes, my husbands have both been aroused while watching me give birth before. That isn't something we've ever hidden or viewed as strange.

For us, birth is an incredibly intimate experience. It's full of trust, vulnerability, emotion, love, excitement, and anticipation. You're watching someone you love bring your child into the world. That's a very powerful thing.

We have also practiced orgasmic birth as a form of pain management and intimacy during labor. I know that makes some people uncomfortable, but for us it was simply another tool that helped me work with my body rather than against it.

I think people sometimes try to separate birth from intimacy entirely, but that's never been how I've experienced it. Obviously labor is hard work, it's physically demanding, exhausting, and sometimes overwhelming. But it can also be intimate at the same time.

At the end of the day, passionate lovemaking is what got us there in the first place. The birth is the arrival of the child we created together. For our family, those things have never felt disconnected from one another.

That doesn't mean everyone experiences birth that way, and that's perfectly fine. But I don't personally find it strange that a husband or partner would feel emotionally, physically, or instinctively affected while witnessing the person they love deliver their child.

We're partners. We experience those moments together.

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I find it really neat that you’ve had so much experience giving birth that your able to tell if a baby is oversized before it even shows at your vagina

After enough deliveries, you start to recognize certain sensations 😅

Now, I wouldn't tell you a baby's exact weight or measurements while I'm in labor, but I can usually tell when a baby is going to be a challenge before they're fully born.

A lot of it comes down to experience. You learn what certain types of pressure feel like, how much stretching is happening, how the head is descending, and how your body is responding. Sometimes a baby just feels broader, sturdier, or like they're taking up every bit of room available.

And honestly, head size is often what I notice more than weight. A baby can be lighter overall but still have a larger head circumference or broader shoulders, and sometimes that's what makes them feel more challenging during delivery.

At this point, I've done it enough times that I'm usually pretty accurate. There have been many moments where I've looked at my husband or the medical team and said, "this is a big baby," or "this one has a big head," long before the baby was fully born, and more often than not I've been right.

It's not some special talent so much as having experienced labor enough times to recognize the differences. When you've spent decades carrying and delivering babies, especially multiples, you become very familiar with what your body is telling you.

So when I say, "this one is going to make me work for it," it's usually because they're already making themselves known on the way down 😅

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when giving birth to multiples, is it like one at the time? like one is in the canal crowning/being born while its siblings wait in the womb?

or is it, and sorry for this analogy as i could not think of a better one, a conveyer belt and two are in there at the same time?

It’s much closer to the first example 😅

When you're delivering multiples, it's generally one baby at a time. One baby is the one moving through the birth canal, crowning, and being born while the other baby or babies are still inside the uterus waiting their turn.

That said, it doesn't always feel quite that simple from the mother's perspective.

After the first baby is born, there can be a pause. Sometimes it's only a few minutes, sometimes it's longer. The medical team will often assess the position of the remaining baby or babies, monitor everyone closely, and wait for labor to continue or help things along if needed.

What's interesting is that once the first baby is out, the remaining babies suddenly have more room. They can shift positions, move lower, or sometimes decide to become much less cooperative than they were five minutes earlier 😅

So there isn't usually a "conveyor belt" situation where two babies are simultaneously moving through the birth canal together. The birth canal is occupied by one baby at a time.

But as the next baby begins descending, you can absolutely start feeling the pressure building again while you're still recovering from delivering the previous baby. That's part of what makes multiple births such a unique experience.

And mentally, that's often the strangest part. You deliver a baby, hear a cry, feel that enormous relief... and then realize labor isn't actually over yet. Sometimes you get ten minutes. Sometimes an hour. Sometimes more. Then you feel the next little roommate decide it's their turn 😌 and the process starts all over again.

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Do you ever do anal sex during pregnancy? I always found it particularly enjoyable during my pregnancies for some reason!

P.S. are we having multiples this time? How many? 🥰

Anal sex during pregnancy is a topic that highlights the differences between my wives. Mrs. E, being more of a reluctant participant, does not enjoy it and thus does not engage in the act. Her disinterest and discomfort are clear, and I respect that, though I do not share her sentiments. She is not the one who fulfills this particular role in our dynamic.

Mrs. P, on the other hand, is the obedient participant. Her body, especially when pregnant, is incredibly tight, a fact that I find particularly enjoyable. This tightness is a combination of her uterus expanding and being filled with my babies, which makes the experience that much more pleasurable for me. Her obedience and willingness to fulfill her role as a breeder and a vessel for my legacy are what make her the ideal participant in this aspect of our relationship.

Regarding your question about multiples, I am pleased to inform you that we are indeed having multiples this time. The exact number is a delightful surprise, one that I look forward to revealing in due time.

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Hey P Fam!~ Been a while since I last checked in with y'all, Mrs.P I hope you're really doing ok, your pregnancy's going well, you and Mrs.E are glowing and growin. Mrs.E I hope your pregnancy's going well, that you're doing ok, your babies and kids are giving you so much love, and hope that you are glowing like Mrs.P too Mama Bear~.

Mr.P and Mr.G, I hope you two are spoiling your queens nonstop, and making sure they feel loved, wanted and always smiling and blushing at you~. And as always, I'm sending you guys my positive vibes, my big hugs and love your way.

Warmly with love, hugs, prayers and positive vibes,

-Sable💜💙💚❤🧡🖤💖💛

Sable,

Good to hear from you again.

Things have been busy, which is part of the reason we've been a little quieter lately. Between family activities, appointments, work, and keeping up with a house full of people, the days tend to disappear before we know it.

The women are both doing well. Mrs. E is getting closer to the finish line and handling it like she handles most things, with a lot of grace and more determination than she gives herself credit for. Mrs. P is doing well too. She's carrying beautifully and keeping herself busy, though I have been reminding her that growing babies is a full-time job whether she wants to admit it or not.

As for whether we're spoiling them, I suppose that's a matter of opinion. My job is to make sure they're taken care of, supported, and have what they need. If that occasionally results in them being spoiled, I'll accept the accusation.

The children are doing well, the household remains loud, and life continues moving forward at its usual pace.

Thank you for checking in and for always sending your encouragement and good wishes. Your kindness toward our family has never gone unnoticed.

Take care of yourself.

— Mr. G

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I’ve been away for a bit and was wondering who’s Mrs e?

Mrs. E is our wife. ❤️

We've been together for quite a while now, but she has always preferred a much lower profile than I do, so she wasn't mentioned very often in the past. Over the last year or so she's become a little more comfortable participating in posts, answering questions, and sharing parts of her own journey, which is why you're seeing her mentioned more frequently now.

She's currently expecting her own baby, which has naturally led to people being curious about her and wanting updates alongside mine.

She's a wonderful partner, an incredible mother, and one of my favorite people. We have very different personalities and even very different pregnancy experiences, which makes it fun to share both perspectives from time to time.

So if you've been away for a bit, that's the short version: Mrs. E is my wife, one of my partners in this crazy adventure, and now one of the mama bears everyone gets to hear from occasionally. 😊

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Have you ever considered fetal reduction for your multiples pregnancy? You've certainly been very lucky to have so many pregnancies with twins, triplets, quads etc with little complications, major prematurity etc. Is there ever a circumstance where you would consider taking action to make a pregnancy less risky for you/your babies?

Yes, we have.

I think one thing that sometimes gets lost when people look at my history is that they see the outcome and not necessarily the journey that got us there.

While it's true that some of my more recent multiple pregnancies have gone more smoothly, I don't think that's because carrying multiples is easy. I think a large part of it is that my body has become better conditioned over the years, I have an incredible medical team, an incredible support system, and I know what to expect physically and mentally.

But I have absolutely had serious complications in the past.

I've spent months on hospital bedrest. I've dealt with severe anemia, gestational diabetes, Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS), blood transfusions, iron transfusions, and heartbreaking losses. Even my pregnancies that would be considered "uncomplicated" still take a tremendous toll on my body and my mental health. Pregnancy is work. Multiple pregnancy is even more work.

I also happen to genuinely enjoy being pregnant, which helps. When you love something, it's easier to endure the difficult parts. That doesn't mean the difficult parts aren't there.

As for fetal reduction, yes, we have made that decision before when we felt it was medically necessary.

I know that's a subject that can make people uncomfortable, but for our family it has always been approached as a medical decision rather than an emotional one. Sometimes you have to look at the risks realistically and ask what gives everyone involved the best chance of a healthy outcome.

Many people feel that the only consideration should be the babies, but I don't have the luxury of thinking that way. I have to think about the babies I am carrying, but I also have to think about my own health and long-term wellbeing. I am a wife. I am a mother. I have children at home who need me. My life matters too.

If a pregnancy reaches a point where the risks to me, to the babies, or to both become unacceptably high, then yes, we would consider interventions that improve the chances of bringing home healthy babies while also protecting my health.

Those decisions are never made lightly. They involve a lot of conversations with doctors, my husband, and my family. They're deeply personal, often heartbreaking, and there is rarely a perfect answer.

At the end of the day, our goal has always been to make the safest and most responsible decision for everyone involved.

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Hello everyone 🤍

We know it’s been a little quiet around here lately.

The truth is, life has simply been very full. Between family activities, school schedules, weekend sports, dance classes, martial arts, church, appointments, and everything else that comes with a large family, we’ve been keeping busy. Add in the intense summer heat, the afternoon rainstorms, and a few personal situations we’re navigating behind the scenes, and the days have been disappearing faster than we’d like.

But we’re doing well.

Mrs. E is now officially 30 weeks pregnant and getting closer and closer to meeting her little one. She’s doing wonderfully and somehow manages to balance taking care of herself while still keeping up with the rhythm of daily life. We’re all getting excited as the weeks continue to tick by.

Mrs. P is now 22 weeks pregnant and, as you can see, these babies have made their presence known 😅. She’s been showing for quite a while now and is carrying beautifully. Every week seems to bring a little more growth, a few more kicks, and a few more moments of standing sideways and wondering where exactly she’s going to put the rest of these babies. Thankfully she’s feeling well and enjoying this chapter, even if getting comfortable in bed is becoming a bit of an adventure.

The children are thriving, the babies are keeping everyone busy, and the house remains as lively and chaotic as ever.

Thank you to everyone who has continued checking in, leaving messages, and following along even when we’ve been slower to post. We appreciate you more than you know.

We’ll try to be a little more present moving forward, but for now we’re simply enjoying this season of life, one busy, beautiful day at a time.

With love,

The Family 🤍