Dark Kinky Shit

This is the opposite of what I endorse in real life. 18+ NSFW

[dayzdreamz]

TBH I’m so turned on by sweet and calm sadists.

Like, no matter how much of a brat you are no matter how much you cry and beg and struggle they just smile down at you and stroke your hair and continue doing whatever the fuck they want to do.

As someone who generally is very good at pushing people’s buttons and enjoys winding people up until they react, the person who just ignores it all and continues to completely and openly enjoy my pain and humiliation without feeling the need to so much as raise their voice? Very very hot.

[accidental-muse]

me, every time i see this post:

[timetoexplorethis]

My aesthetic

[humiliatorofsubs]

This is always one of my favorites. I don’t know that I have ever needed to raise my voice during a scene. I would much rather, and I find it much more effective, to correct, discipline, or humiliate in a calm tone with a smile on my face

[foxyshadow]

😳 I never have seen someone articulate my kind of sadism this way before.

[dontgetwisewithme]

I'm in the mood to inspect, tease, embarrass, degrade, strip, beat, and fuck her until I'm satisfied completely ignoring her needs and desires while solely focusing on mine.

[puppy-bu44s]

[stern-dominance]

Mark your property. 

[dailyweisz]

Rachel Weisz for The Violet Files (December, 2015)

[violentwavesofemotion-deactivat]

“Aphrodite’s thirst was never quenched; it was cruel and dreamy. It was certainly the most splendid kind of thirst.”

— Arthur Rimbaud, from Selected Poems & Prose; “Silence and Sacrifice,”

[extreme-bondage]

[prettypennytraining]

His guests all love how masterfully he uses his remote control to keep me alternately panting and begging for them, groaning and pleading as he gathers them around to watch me.  They all laugh at the way my fingers clutch so futily at the bars of my cage as I struggle with what his vibrator does to me.  They clap as over and over his fingers on the remote control defly drive my moans to a crescendo after crescendo, and applaud with delight as the awkward bucking of my twisted hips rocks my little cage noisily back and forth on the table.  Again and again he puts my helpless body through its paces for their amusement.

They marvel at the metallic sounds of my cage as my body rocks and shakes so tightly stuffed inside it and the scratching of plastic base against the wood table top, just as much as they do at my pathetic moans and whimpers.  They love the show he makes me put on for them. 

Until little by little they slowly grow bored of the seemingly endless orgasms he wrings from my tiring body.  It humliates me to be so unable to stop myself from cumming so hard for them yet again, twisted and squished into my tiny cage, and to receive only a few raised eyebrows as feedback now.  As if my body’s response to its Master’s control has become just a mere interruption in their sharing of stock tips.

The embarrassing rattle of my cage bars as my desperately tensed white knuckles grip and shake no longer holds their attention.  They’ve grown accustomed enough to my pathetic pleading for respite or relief that they no longer laugh with pleasure at what a silly helpless pet I am.  In fact they barely even chuckle at me at all. They way they all but yawn like I’m nothing but an old worn out toy no longer worthy of rapt attention is like a slap in the face shaming me for each helpless orgasm he draws out of me even more. 

But as I slump, weary and exhausted in the bottom of my cage, every limb and soft part of my body pressed up tight against one cage wall or another, struggling to catch my breath as he allows my moans to continue now at a lower, frustration-maintence only level, and my contorted arms can’t even wipe the perspiration from my brow, he approaches my cage.  As he sets the remote control to my softly buzzing vibrator down on the table bedside my cage, he smiles at me. 

And I moan a little louder.  I don’t need them to clap and laugh at me as I cum for me to be happy. He\s still proud of me, and that’s all that matters.

[dominantlife]

My Vision Of Our Tumblr Replacement

I started on Tumblr soon after it was created with a vanilla blog. Since then, hardly a day has gone by that Tumblr wasn’t a part of my life. I have made excellent friends on Tumblr over the years. In fact, MOST of my friends came from relationships I made via Tumblr. The precious, bubbly cupcake that is in my bed? Tumblr. So you can imagine how painful Tumblr’s announcement has been for me.

I love seeing the marginalized communities that are shunned elsewhere on Planet Earth have a safe place to exist and be themselves. It always made me smile when I see a Tumblr blogger ease out of their shells, steadfastly into the world.

Well, that shit is no more.

As some of you may have noticed I started a community effort to rescue these communities. I want everyone involved because it will be our garden, our club, our safe space to be ourselves.

And the new site (name to be withheld until we have something to show) is not just for kinksters, I want vanillas too; artists, witches, horror writers, brewmeisters, budtenders, book sluts, fandoms of all types, beat poets, wilderness photographers, Burners, vampire hunters, Dungeons and Dragons players, and rocket scientists. Hell, I want people who just want to blog about cats and cabins in the woods.

What we won’t tolerate are bullies, minors, Nazis (and their fucked up allies), abusers or trolls. They can fuck right off to a cesspool of their choice.

I am putting up the cash to get this started PLUS I am making this a community effort, that is why I am being so transparent about the process with our Discord planning group. Yes, it is chaos. We have taken on an INSANE project to get done in less than 2 weeks. Well, 9 days now.

This isn’t my first rodeo. I am actively trying to keep my anonymity as long as I can, but I know it will soon be spugged out in due order soon. You will then see what I have done in the past and learn about a very vanilla project that has been near and dear to my heart. You have probably heard of it and maybe even participated!

The beta site will not be perfect. It will be good but not perfect. Hell, we have been suffering with “far from perfect” with Tumblr now for years. It is my hope that our community can put up with our rough edges for a little while.

Where we are tonight is pretty good. We have selected a host, got our software loaded, installed the Linux packages required and are now getting those packages to play nice with one another. We had it working for a bit until a small issue with the registration page required some elbow work.

I am working on the branding and marketing with a bunch of really smart pervs in our Discord group. I am really proud of all of our volunteers and want to thank them all. 

If you want to volunteer or simply eat popcorn and watch the porn riots, please use this invite link: https://discord.gg/jVempgb

Remember, Discord is just the site we are using for planning, not the actual site we are moving to.

Many of you have asked about the Library For Kinksters, it will be archived and placed on the now site.

We plan to allow you to import your Tumblr blog over to our new site but Tumblr may have other ideas. Other services have been using Tumblr’s API for exporting and now Tumblr now seems to be shutting down that API functionality.

That is all for now. Keep your heads held high and remember you are ALL FUCKING AMAZING PEOPLE!

- Dominant Life

P.S. Please reblog the shit out of this. Santa may drop a slutty elf off at your house for Christmas!

P.P.S. Oh and pirates. I really want pirates on the site too!

[actualrealgod]

@dominantlife Seems worthy of a reblog… But coming from a 35 year developer…. Any blog format put together in two weeks is going to wild ride of crash and smash for quite a while… A suggestion… network load balancing… separate server environments for build pushes… so you can IP flip if a build crashes….. you won’t get two chances if you build it they may come…. and if they do and it tanks…. getting them back will be nearly impossible….. put your safeguards in place before your first beta.

[dominantlife]

Yep, yep and yep.

Come over to our Discord development community and see if we missed anything. We have a great crew and some CRAZY smart people on board. The link is in the article.

[mokanegra]

[umbridge-against-shipping]

this is legit how kink critical wankers on this site sound like 

[xenoqueer]

An edited version of an abstinence only meme. The image is titled, “the myth of consensual kink.” A man and a woman are lying on a bed half dresed. Both say, “I consent.” However, the tumblr logo then shouts, “I DON’T!” Bottom text reads, “isn’t there someone you forgot to ask?”

[fierceawakening]

Ffff.

This is pretty much what Tumblr is turning “don’t do scenes in front of people who don’t consent to viewing them” into. Like it’s gone from “hey perverts, remember the basic manners your momma taught you” to “if I see a goth in a collar my brain will implode” and I just

[caloucaline]

[themysteriousmask]

[minski-hermit-of-the-apennines]

So pretty!

[lucesolare]

Steffy Argelich by Blair Getz Mezibov for Russh December/January 2016

[sunlightporn-deactivated2019020]

Underrated kink stuff: casual bdsm. Watching a film together but the sub is gagged and bound. Playing boardgames but the sub has a vibrator strapped to them. Cooking dinner but the sub has a plug in their ass and their nipples are clamped. Hanging out together reading a book or something but the dom has their hnds between the sub’s legs. The possibilities are endless.

[odalisque-uk]

All of this happens. A lot.

[unsomnus]

FFXIV Commission of Andromeda and NVC’s characters Claire and Noella.

Lingerie & Nude variation: https://lewdsomnus.tumblr.com/

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[elves-for-the-bullying]

Elves have their own version of dominate elf. It's still 'dominate elf' but they're the elf in question

[oninoonichan]

Warcraft Maids.

[timotheschalamet-deactivated201]

Lauren Cohan photographed by Greg Kadel for GQ Mexico (February 2017)