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Sweet Humiliation
One of the things that I love above all others is the combination of sweet behavior with humiliation. A sweet kiss on her forehead while she kneels in a pool of my piss or sweetly whispering n her ear that I want to take her into the bathroom and fuck her ass while shoving her head in toilet, while at her work Christmas party. One that I think exemplifies this best though is texting her to remind her that I think about her pretty face every time I take a piss.Â
some women be like âmy man washed a dish once. Iâm very luckyâ and it makes me so sad for her like you just know she never cums
Society sets the bar so ridiculously low for men, and somehow so many of them still manage to run dick first into the bar and wonder why they aren't applauded for it.
First Times - Orgasms From Pain Alone
I recently shared a story of the first time a sub was able to experience being pissed and decided to tell another story of a first time. This with a different sub who I had the pleasure of having one of the most enjoyable and memorable sessions I have ever had. We had talked for a few months, talking constantly when we finally found out that I would be within an hour of where she was at for school and we decided to meet.
We had a lovely lunch together, and I have never been in an experience where the sexual tension was as high as it was in that moment, we both barely made it through a drink before deciding it was best to forgo lunch and head straight to her place.
One of the instructions I had given her beforehand was that I did not want her to cum for the two weeks proceeding our meeting. She had been a good girl and I knew was eager, but I decided it would be best to make her wait.
Following a long and very fun session that ended up with both of us laying naked on the bed exhausted and her skin red in multiple spots, the prelude to beautiful bruises to come when she finally asked me âSir, there is one more of my holes that I was hoping would get your attention.â Since I could still see where her makeup had ran down her face when I fucked her throat and I knew my cum was still dripping out of her butt, I knew which hole she felt had been unfairly neglected, and had an idea.
I had her lay on her back, her legs spread wide and told her that since she had asked nicely I would touch her cunt, but only to spank it. She had permission to cum during it, but if she asked me to stop spanking at anytime she would lose that chance. She nodded and before she could say a word I slapped quickly down upon her. The best part of it was that I could hear just how wet she already was when my palm connected. I couldnât miss this moment to point out how desperate and needy she was, and could see her cheeks flush as I have her 3 more strokes, repeating it over and over again.
I kept telling her again and again that she had asked for this and that she better hurry up if she wanted to cum, and finally with one last painful stroke, right on her clit she seized up, her legs squeezing my arm in a vice like grip as her whole body spasmed in one of the most beautiful orgasms Iâve ever seen. It took almost 10 minutes before she could verbalize it, but she described it as the most powerful feeling she had ever felt and it remains one of the most vivid images in my mind to this day.
Words/Phrases I Canât Stand
Words have always had the ability to be powerfully erotic to me. Images are great, but they always seem to be lacking without a great caption accompanying them. There is nothing worse than reading a wonderful caption or writing on here and coming across a word or phrase that makes you cringe so much that it ruins the whole post. All it takes is that one word or phrase and my whole interest in it disappears.
Iâm sure there are more, but the two that inspired me to write this are:
1. âPrincess partsâ
2. âCummiesâ
It made me cringe just writing them. Iâd be curious what words/phrases would make other peopleâs lists.
Tampons are a âluxury itemâ
Once I worked as an intern in the state capital. One of the representatives I worked for was this middle-aged guy. And he hated the tampon and napkin machines in the womenâs bathrooms. Hated them. He insisted that they werenât necessary.
I found out why after Iâd been working there, oh, about a month. My period started suddenly, as it sometimes does, and I asked to excuse myself to go to the ladiesâ room. He wanted to know why. I told him.
He started ranting about how lazy women were. How we wasted time. How we were so careless and unhygenic, and that there was no call for that. He finished by telling me that I certainly was NOT going to the ladiesâ room and that I was just going to sit there and work. He finished this off with a decisive nod, as if Iâd just been told and there could be no possible argument.
âIf I donât go,â I said in an overly patient tone, âthe blood is going to soak through my pants, stain my new skirt that I just bought, and possibly get on this chair Iâm sitting in. I need something to soak up the blood. Thatâs why I need to go to the bathroom.â
His face turned oatmeal-gray; an expression of pure horror spread across his face. He leaned forward and whispered, âWait, you mean that if you donât go, youâll just keep on bleeding? I thought that women could turn it off any time that they wanted!â
I thought, Â You have got to be kidding.
Several horrified whispers later, I learned that he wasnât. He actually thought a) that women could shut down the menstrual cycle at will, b) that we essentially picked a week per month to spend more time in the bathroom, i.e. to goof off, and c) that napkins and tampons were sex toys paid for by Health and Human Services. I didnât know the term then, but he believed that tampons were dildos. Which was why he and a good number of his friends considered them luxuries.
And thatâs how, at twenty, I had to give a talk on menstruation to a middle-aged married state representative who was one of my bosses. American politics, ladies and gentlemen.
Thatâs.., thatâs insane.
what the fuck did i just read
The tumblr ads are normally annoying and I skip past them, and have never reblogged oneâŚbut this is abhorrent and sadly uncommon. I had a male friend this weekend flippantly and proudly declare that he didnât know where a womanâs ovaries were located or what they did. Heâs a college educated individual with an advanced degree and was proudly ignorant of the most basic facts about womenâs reproductive health. I called him out on it and he later did admit that it was problematic, but just like the person in this post (who Iâm certain opposes all sorts of womenâs rights issues without having even the most basic facts about them) men have to do a better job of learning these things and calling out other dudes when they say things like this. It shouldnât be the burden of women to have to educate men about things that should be taught in every school in this country as easily and as comprehensively as any other subject.
âMake Meâ
This is one of those phrases I see on a lot of posts that while I understand why people use it, it always manages to irritate me.
First, on its face itâs a command, telling me what to do. One of my biggest pet peeves is being told what to do. Asking, requesting, pleading, begging, all perfectly fine, but I donât like being given an order. Itâs a small linguistic issue I know, but it gets to me everytime.
Second, I understand the appeal from a submissive perspective that I am making them do something. While that is true on some levels as they often wouldnât do the things I ask of them without being ordered, itâs more than that. Iâve always seen my role as a Dom to be figuring out those things that a sub is interested in but is perhaps hesitant, scared or embarrassed to try. With my help I can help her to overcome that, whether it is by giving her a chance to outweigh her concerns with the desire of pleasing me, or more often is the case by learning that it is ok to try and experience new things. If I let her hide behind the phrase âmake meâ then she doesnât get the satisfaction of fully embracing the accomplishment of what she has done, and that it is ok to not only admit you have done things Iâve asked, but that she might have even enjoyed it.
While I ultimately do make a sub do what I want, itâs a disservice to the dynamic to reduce it to that, because itâs so much more than that.
If the shower doesn't hurt just a little bit from how hot the water is you are not doing it right
A Quick Slap
Nothing can compare to a sudden, unanticipated, face slap. The sound of it seems to hang in the air for an extended period of time, coupled with the stunned silence that follows. I love so many things about delivering a quick and unexpected slap but these are the top two:
First, it is one of the most intimate ways of delivering pain. There are many wonderful places and ways to inflict pain upon a willing sub, but there is something raw and intense about a slap across the face. One of my favorite parts is that I can look at the reaction that forms immediately upon the subâs face as it happens, the wonderful mixture of shock, comprehension and desire all at once. It shows a large degree of trust to be allowed to do that to another individual, and it is also a good reason to mention that if you are going to engage in this type of play you need to know what you are doing and be incredibly safe about it because if you arenât you risk causing real damage. So as always, this is great, but make sure you are safe in what you do.
Second, there is nothing that can inspire a shift into a submissive mindset faster than a slap to the face. It serves as an almost immediate mental reset from whatever might have been on their mind and focuses it instead on being completely in the present moment, focused solely on the experience and what is likely to follow. Sometimes, nothing more is needed, just that quick reset, other times it is a prelude to further activities, but no matter what follows the tone is set by that initial slap. Again, one more reminder that this needs to be something that you have negotiated and discussed in advanced as along with the physical risks of a face slap, there are a lot of possible mental and emotional triggers from such an activity, so play safe and enjoy this wonderful and intimate activity.
At Armâs Length - Mental Bondage
There is perhaps no more iconic image associated with BDSM than a submissive restrained, waiting eagerly to be used, and there are people who can do some truly remarkable and beautiful things with rope and other various restraints. While I enjoy the use of restraints as much as the next person, predicament bondage being a particular favorite, my singular favorite way to use bondage doesnât involve rope, cuffs or any other method of physical restraint. My absolute favorite is through the use of mental bondage, because while it is fun to tie someone into a position, usually one that adds a degree of humiliation as well, and see them begin to struggle against their restraints, it is even more exciting knowing that they are remaining in that position not because they are incapable of moving, but because they know that is the position Iâve put them in and have told them to remain. Watching someone either fight against their bodyâs desire to reposition themselves or the mental fight to hide from the exposed state theyâve been put in, and seeing that their desire to follow the order they were given in order to please me win out against those physical and mental reactions is thrilling to me. It is also a constant reminder that they are in that position, not because they are incapable of moving, but instead because they choose to remain right there. This allows them to be an active participant in the moment and uses that agency they are given to heighten the feeling of giving up control, as this is not just something that is being done to them, but instead something they are actively participating in.
One variant of this concept that Iâve always wanted to try would be done without any elaborate setup required, and many would not even think of being bondage at all. Iâll preface this, that this idea originated prior to the ongoing pandemic, so please stay at home, and if you have to go out social distance. But assuming we achieve a world where going out is possible again, I have a fun thought of going out, whether that was just a day out or a cocktail party, where it was made clear that the only requirement for the night was that the other person could at no point in time be more than an armâs length away. Now, for practical purposes there would need to be exceptions for bathroom breaks etc., but outside of those moments, no more than an arm length should separate us throughout the day. No one else would look at the situation and see anything out of the ordinary, but thatâs one of the joys of mental bondage, we would know the invisible leash existed between us and that is all that matters.
I'm only saying this for your sake, but objectively, it's not a smart idea to bring politics into normal hobbies. You might lose supporters of your blog just because of your political stance, and that would be terrible since you're so amazing!! It's only a suggestion, but I really reccomend not bringing politics into anything.
Life is political, if you are paying any attention whatsoever.
The idea that you can ânot bring politicsâ into something is in and of itself a privileged position. Being able to go about your daily life âand not get politicalâ means you can go through your day and not have to worry about the ways that structures of oppression shape every decision that you make throughout the day, and that you dont have to worry that any moment your behavior might be analyzed by another then pathologized and criminalized against you. The people who dont want to speak out about politics usually are those who the status quo favors and donât want that system to be disrupted.
Make Out With My Ass
One of the most intimate moments that I can share with a sub is allowing them to orally please and worship my body. While I love the feel of an eager mouth on my cock or sucking on my balls, there is no feeling that compares to a tongue sliding up and down between my ass cheeks, circling my asshole and just waiting to be allowed to dart inside of me.
I'm usually quite up front with any submissive that I am considering, whether as a sub, for training, or just for a session that one of the things I love most in the world is when a sub quite literally makes out with my ass. For me, it is about a few different things: 1) it feels great, the sensation itself is immensely pleasant. 2) I love to mix it with humiliation both verbal and physical. There is a reason that ass licker is one of my favorite terms of endearment. 3) it is incredibly intimate, allowing her access to my body like that and her eagerly using her mouth to please me.
And honestly that last point can create it's own wonderful moments. I've had people who were hesitant about doing it, working hard to overcome the inherent taboos associated with it and getting over their mental blocks. Oftentimes, for those people the best solution has been to sit on their face and let them know that I can stay this way as long as it takes to get their tongue exactly how I like it. Contrast those with the people who are incredibly enthusiastic about the task, who I can tell are more than eager to bury their faces in my ass, no mental buildup needed, just the word "kneel" followed by placing my ass in their face and letting them go to work.
Iâd say it depends. I can be either.
This definitely made me laugh
âWorthlessâ
I do not like the concept of someone being âworthlessâ in the context of BDSM, itâs not something I have ever said to a sub and itâs not something I enjoy seeing. Iâll preface all of this by saying that I can understand hypothetically why that term could be appealing to people in a humiliation context, but itâs just not for me.
If you have ever so much as glanced at my blog, or even read the title, it shouldnât be hard to see that I am very interested in humiliation. Some of my absolute favorite things to do in a D/s context are to piss on a sub and make her make out with my ass. In that context I may call a sub my urinal or ass licker, and it might be all I call her that whole day.
So you might ask if you are willing to piss on someone and call her a urinal, then why not worthless? Two reasons:
1) Whether you are dripping in piss or you have your head shoved up my ass, that doesnât make you less of a person. I may make her do degrading things, but I never think less of her as a person because she is doing something I want her to do, if anything those are moments where I praise her, for doing things that are difficult to endure, because they please me. Thatâs absolutely worthwhile.
2) I think that any good humiliation has to be rooted in some level of truth. If I call someone a urinal for example, thereâs truth to that title. It might be degrading to hear for her, but thatâs because she knows there is truth to that and so do I when I say it. If I were to say someone was worthless, I wouldnât believe that and wouldnât want her to believe it either, which is not effective in creating the mindset I want.
I get on average 4-5 messages a month from random people on here where in their first message they describe themselves as worthless. I understand that they usually think they are demonstrating that they are interested in humiliation, but itâs not appealing to me. Quite the opposite, when I first get to know you I want to know all of the things that make you worthwhile, your skills, your talents, along with your faults and flaws, but when the first thing you tell me is that you are worthless, it makes me wonder than why I should take my time to respond to you. When I look for someone, I want someone who is going to add to my life, enrich it in various ways that I might choose and that I can do the same for her.
So while I fully support others using those types of phrases in their humiliation play and can understand the appeal, itâs not something for me. I donât think people are worthless, I certainly donât think being a submissive negatively affects your worth as a person and if I did think you were worthless I certainly wouldnât have interest in speaking to that person let alone considering them as a partner and/or submissive.
Why do you like the feeling of a girl eating your ass?
There are a lot of different answers to this question.
First, and most obviously it is a pleasurable sensation for me. I havenât quite been able to cum just from it, but I have gotten close and few things turn me on more.
Second, I appreciate what a sub is doing for me when doing so. Itâs something that is often hard for people to do the first time, there are often a lot of mental blocks in place that make people hesitant to do so. Anytime a sub is pushing past those mental obstacles in order to please me, itâs one of the most powerful feelings one can have as a Dom. In that same line of thought, I also do love the humiliation that comes in that moment, and adding some verbal humiliation to this already humiliating moment has proven to be incredibly effective.
Finally, I love the intimacy of it. Feeling a subâs face pressed against me like that, her tongue eagerly working, her eyes looking up to see if she is pleasing me. I have always found it to be one of the most intimate and submissive moments I can share with a sub.
At Armâs Length - Mental Bondage
There is perhaps no more iconic image associated with BDSM than a submissive restrained, waiting eagerly to be used, and there are people who can do some truly remarkable and beautiful things with rope and other various restraints. While I enjoy the use of restraints as much as the next person, predicament bondage being a particular favorite, my singular favorite way to use bondage doesnât involve rope, cuffs or any other method of physical restraint. My absolute favorite is through the use of mental bondage, because while it is fun to tie someone into a position, usually one that adds a degree of humiliation as well, and see them begin to struggle against their restraints, it is even more exciting knowing that they are remaining in that position not because they are incapable of moving, but because they know that is the position Iâve put them in and have told them to remain. Watching someone either fight against their bodyâs desire to reposition themselves or the mental fight to hide from the exposed state theyâve been put in, and seeing that their desire to follow the order they were given in order to please me win out against those physical and mental reactions is thrilling to me. It is also a constant reminder that they are in that position, not because they are incapable of moving, but instead because they choose to remain right there. This allows them to be an active participant in the moment and uses that agency they are given to heighten the feeling of giving up control, as this is not just something that is being done to them, but instead something they are actively participating in.
One variant of this concept that Iâve always wanted to try would be done without any elaborate setup required, and many would not even think of being bondage at all. Iâll preface this, that this idea originated prior to the ongoing pandemic, so please stay at home, and if you have to go out social distance. But assuming we achieve a world where going out is possible again, I have a fun thought of going out, whether that was just a day out or a cocktail party, where it was made clear that the only requirement for the night was that the other person could at no point in time be more than an armâs length away. Now, for practical purposes there would need to be exceptions for bathroom breaks etc., but outside of those moments, no more than an arm length should separate us throughout the day. No one else would look at the situation and see anything out of the ordinary, but thatâs one of the joys of mental bondage, we would know the invisible leash existed between us and that is all that matters.
Morning Piss
One of my favorite activities as a Dom are those moments when I have had the opportunity to piss on a sub, it is a moment that really is unlike anything else. Â I donât know that there is any other moment that can surpass the combined intensity, intimacy, and humiliation of another human being willingly kneeling before me and allowing me to either cover them in my piss or to fill their mouth with it.
While I have had the privilege of being able to do this with people in a number of different circumstances, there is something unique about doing so with my first piss of the morning. It is my favorite way to start the day and something that I think sets the tone for any activities that may follow.
First, I think it is undeniable that there is a huge mental component for a sub when agreeing to be pissed on. I have had subs run the full spectrum between hating and loving it, but there is a difference between a situation where the person has been able to mental prepare and ready themselves to receive it, versus either being woken and told to get on her knees or dragged by her hair to the bathroom. I love playing with those moments when the sub is still in the waking up state and quickly needing to adjust from a deep sleep to service mode with no time to prepare. People who say coffee is the only way to wake up in the morning would be wrong about that ;)
Second, again despite oneâs feelings about piss there are things that I will do to help make things easier for a sub who is just training in this type of service. Being careful to be very well hydrated, avoiding certain foods etc. can help make this process a little easier to swallow (literally and figuratively). However, it is nearly impossible to hide this fact with the first time of the day, this is going to be difficult for some but watching the struggle on a subs face, especially while they might still be waking up is one of my favorite moments as a Dom and it makes me so proud when it is done.
Third, it sets the groundwork for the rest of the day. No matter what happens next, taking a shower together, getting back into bed, being made breakfast or a scene, that dynamic has been reinforced from the very first moment of the day and will help keep it fresh in both of our minds as the day continues, which is something I love about most rituals, but this in particular will always be my favorite.
I'm already excited to vote for her when she runs, but this as a campaign ad would seal the deal. Also the crossover of my interests i didn't know i needed.
Also, if this isn't the perfect distillation of everything the right wing fears in one comment I don't know what is.
https://twitter.com/NeverSociaIism/status/1332916294811852800?s=19
âif we ever let AOC become president she will walk into her inauguration by stepping on each of her political opponents. radicals like her h
