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26, lesbian who am I, what am I

[nevver]

Magic forest, Jean Mallard

[koeenoyokan]

[zegalba]

Sonja Hinrichsen: Snow Drawings (2014) Located: Eychauda, France

[dreamingofsolitude]

[podencos]

This Is Water, David Foster Wallace

[fravery]

Renato Muccillo Thunderhead over Nicola Valley 2016

[segmentedleg]

File:A domestic Yak on the way to Pangong Tso lake.jpg

[soup-mother]

"masculine role models" lol

[soup-mother]

"masculine role models" were a scam invented by men (who themselves are also a scam invented by men, it's complicated) to cement the patriarchal family as the only possible way to raise a child and justify keeping "fathers" around. It doesn't necessarily have to be a nuclear family, but kids *obviously* need some masculine influence to teach them it's not ok to be a woman. Otherwise they'd grow up soy.

Masculinity is a social pact that reproduces itself via violent enforcement and reinforcement between men and you should not be giving them any more victim-members or treating it as the natural way of the world.

Anyone who tries to convince you of some genuine psychological need for "masculine role models" in a kids life is a wacko gender shill trying to justify the patriarchy all the unimaginable horrors that come with it, and you should probably kick them in the shins.

[soup-mother]

> "Negative impact of lacking male role models/a father in childhood development"

> look inside

> 99% just the negative impacts of childhood poverty from being raised by a single mother

[lilithsplace]

Untitled (rain drops), 2017 - Paul Manes (b. 1948) oil on canvas  |  source:

[txttletale]

efforts towards a "positive vision of masculinity" or whatever are so funny because what these guys are trying to figure out is literally "what's a way of being a good person that's Not For Girls™"

[dreamingofsolitude]

Colorado Winter December 2024

taken by me on my film camera

[achillesinhighheels]

[rarestsparkle]

i recommend telling yourself “this isn’t an experience i want to keep having” and stop entertaining things that are really detrimental to your health and don’t benefit you in anyway.

[ololygas]

Crackerbell, Mary Ruefle

[craftlands]

being nonbinary is sick as fuck but sometimes there is also the isolation

[camerahoax]

men got a taste of women's beauty standards and immediately started bashing their facial bones with hammers

[dreamingofsolitude]

my grandfather died 4 days ago and my dad died 4 months ago and what’s crazy is that my Yiayia lost her husband and her son in 4 months and what’s also crazy is that there are only 9 people left in my family. literally my entire family that I was born into. there are only 9 of us left and 3 of those are 80 and older. it feels naive to say now but I never realized that growing up would mean that people would die and that I would just have to watch my family get smaller