i am singing now while rome burns

julia - 28 - she/her - dyke - australian - terfs + zionists fuck off

[poetrylesbian]

my other blogs

@shanebug

Heated Rivalry sideblog :)

@2manypdfs

snippets from what im currently reading... haven't used this in years but im trying to read more this year! it's aspirational...

mutuals can ask for my private/backup blog :)

[onedollopofsourcream]

emergency insulin/food help 7/12/26

does anyone have $10 for a family of 7, 2 being kids, in a abusive house for food and $41 for Dereks insulin that he MUST take to stay out of an er? im panicking as his dosage was upped last year this is URGENT he's been out FOUR DAYS we have some expired insulin enough for today but he needs his regular dose urgently please im begging we need any and all help to get through this anything helps be it a dollar or less. also please help me give these kids food to eat this summer

p3ypal: avatarerin

c3sh app: $avatarpyler

v3nmo: skiesofperiwinkle

k0fi: gothkittygalore

gofundme

[zegalba]

Aya Takano: untitled (2004)

[marinolta]

Howard Buehler Collection: Misc Family Photos 50s-80s

[poetrylesbian]

just attempted to calculate how much ive spent on medical costs in the last 5 years alone but the number got too high so i stopped before i went crazy

[frostedmagnolias]

Evening Dress

c. 1962

by William Duborgh Jensen

The National Museum of Norway

[snototter]

Wildflowers bloom at the site of a forest fire in Los Olivos, California, USA

by Lisa Roeder

[dykonicdiva]

i am at my clits end

[gerardwayspostcocaineweightgain]

[hateusandseeifwemind]

I cant wait to marry one of my mutuals im just not sure who its going to be yet...nervous

[taumoeba]

sir please thats my emotional support song that i first heard on a 8tracks playlist in 2014

[80slesbiab]

Hello, I need some help again this month. I'm short $200 for medical and essential expenses, and any support would mean so much to me. Thank you so much. I truly appreciate it more than you know.

[poetrylesbian]

so woolies says that their budget meals on their website are $5 or less per serving but the majority show up as more? even brand new recipes? Ugh

[free-my-girl-tourney]

Fandom Misogyny Victim Tournament

Round Two, Bracket 3

Ada Wong (Resident Evil) vs. Yuna Hollander (Heated Rivalry)

Ada Wong

Yuna Hollander

Remaining time: 1 day 13 hours

Propaganda below the cut:

Ada Wong:

Deemed toxic, manipulative and the worst when there are characters regardless of gender who canonically did worse things. Also this stems how close her plotlines are aligned with Leon Kennedy and I guess you can’t be a complicated woman near a popular and hot male character who’s a grown man and can make his own decisions :/

She’s into everyone's business as a side quest and somehow gets the job done. She deserves better because she’s so goddamn cool and hot and funny and so deadpan about her job as a corporate spy/mercenary

She lied to a man ONE time because that is literally a part of her job, and now being a male-manipulator is supposedly her only personality trait. Granted, the games are also guilty for this, but her entire character getting reduced down to her relationships with men (and more specifically, with Leon) will never fail to frustrate me. Folks love to ignore all the times she has made decisions that work against her best/personal interests in order to reduce her down to a selfish witch whose entire life supposedly revolves around being sexy/kinda mean towards Leon's general direction.

She is morally complex, WAY more emotionally intelligent than people like to give her credit for, and she can roundhouse a zombie while wearing 6-inch heels like its nothing. Let's be real, she deserves her own game.

Yuna Hollander:

I hate how she has been slotted into a lazy 'tiger mom's stereotyped and even seen as an abusive mum just for having a complicated but ultimately loving relationship with her son!!

She deserves to run the NHL.

[free-my-girl-tourney]

Fandom Misogyny Victim Tournament

Round Two, Bracket 5

Braeden (Teen Wolf) vs. Susie (Undertale / Deltarune)

Braeden

Susie

Remaining time: 3 days 13 hours

Propaganda below the cut:

Braeden:

Fandom hates on her for being Derek's love interest and reads her actions in bad faith and as if she is evil. There is an extra layer of antiblackness and misogynoir as she is a black woman.

Branden has a super cool werewolf scar on her throat and drives a badass motorcycle. She is playfully mean to Derek and is unafraid of Peter. She helps out Scott and his pack a lot even though she claims to be a mercenary who doesn't care about them either way.

Susie:

Semi-canon f/f ship being passed in amount of fics on ao3 by a m/m ship between characters who haven't even met on screen (and existed for four years less!) is abysmal. Spamtenna shippers when I get you-

[free-my-girl-tourney]

Fandom Misogyny Victim Tournament

Round Two, Bracket 6

Yukari Takeba (Persona 3) vs. Taissa Turner (Yellowjackets)

Yukari Takeba

Taissa Turner

Remaining time: 4 days 13 hours

Propaganda below the cut:

Yukari Takeba:

Hated for being sometimes abrasive towards the protagonist (due to trauma) and later hated for handling grief poorly in the Answer DLC (because god forbid a teenage girl not handle the sacrificial death of a close friend/potential love interest well)

Yukari had a wonderful arc about finding the truth about her dad's death and fighting for a better world alongside her friends. Her dynamic with Mitsuru is also very sweet seeing her go from un-trusting towards to finding common ground leading to the two becoming close friends (and also they should kiss WHO SAID THAT)

Taissa Turner:

taissa is not necessarily hated but more ignored. as the only Black main character, she tends to get way less attention than the others. if she does get attention, it's mostly about her relationship with her (white) girlfriend van without any serious exploration of her character. though there are some works including her on ao3, it's mostly her and her gf being a background couple without any further thought to it. if you look through the top posts on the yellowjackets fanart tag, it takes forever until sth about her pops up (mostly her and her gf again). i actually really like her relationship, but it feels like people only care about taissa in that setting. and again, she is a main character with tons of interesting scenes and a lot of complexity that rarely gets discussed. she also has a lot of very interesting dynamics with the other characters and even though the yellowjackets fandom is big on multishipping (and shipping in general) taissa is rarely included in that. she and her canon gf also get way less attention than many of the other pairings (even though they are THE canon lesbians of the show). later on taissa has a wife who is Black btw and pretty much completely ignored by the fandom.. the show is definitely partly to blame for that, since her wife kinda falls into the disposable Black gf trope and the writers generally fumbled tai's story in parts. however, she's still a very intriguing character and other characters with potentially worse writing still get a lot of love. (there are also some instances of her being described as bitchy, too mean or egocentrical when that's literally not true at all. but i can't speak to much on that bc i prefer not to engage with this and i also think it's not a major part of the fandom that sees her that way.)

tai is the heart of the show!! she takes initiative, she moves the plot forward and she gets the job done (the giver was literally written about her… like she is doing the shit the other characters don't want to do, she's a literal self described handy lesbian!! also imo a character that truely understands the relevance of community, always sticking up for others when necessary regardless of sympathy etc)

she cares so deeply about the people around her and goes to great lengths to support them

some examples:

1. offered to give another character an abortion, so she doesn't have to do it on her own (mind you, they weren't even close or anything atp)

2. lead a mission to get rescue to get her help (they're stranded in the wilderness) for which she literally risked her own life

3. supported said character through the entirety of an incredibly traumatic birth

4. paid for another characters rehab several times without telling anyone or expecting anything in return

5. killed a wolf for her gf

6. joined a cult for her gf

yellowjackets is also a show that heavily plays with the question of "is the supernatural real or is there are psychological explanation for all that?" and tai is one of two characters who are really at the center of this question due to her having some form of alternate personality which is super interesting imo

like this other personality stems from her being deeply repressed and never allowing herself to be truely seen. she constantly puts on a mask and she kinda doesn't deal with her problems at all. like she's carrying complex religious trauma from her childhood into her adulthood plus all the surival horror trauma she never deals with… idk i love her so much, i think she's deeply interesting and i wish people would talk about her more

[free-my-girl-tourney]

Fandom Misogyny Victim Tournament

Round Two, Bracket 7

Noelle Holiday (Undertale / Deltarune) vs. Malia Tate (Teen Wolf)

Noelle Holiday

Malia Tate

Remaining time: 5 days 13 hours

Propaganda below the cut:

Noelle Holiday:

Semi-canon f/f ship being passed in amount of fics on ao3 by a m/m ship between characters who haven't even met on screen (and existed for four years less!) is abysmal. Spamtenna shippers when I get you-

Malia Tate:

Fandom hates on her for being Stiles's love interest. I have seen fans argue that she is "mentally a child" because she was a coyote for many years (she is a werecoyote), or, alternatively, that she is a predator for dating Stiles because she is "45 in coyote years."

Malia is very loyal and sharp-witted and thinks she should be allowed to kill people which of course she should.