So, because I keep getting a lot of anonymous hate for being a Sansa hating Dany stan, I would like to make a small correction for those interested.
I am a Sansa disliking JON stan, not a Dany stan. Kindly get that right, when you send me the anon hate. The few Dany stans I do follow tend to very much like Sansa and seem to walk around eggshells where the character is concerned - often having disclaimers about how much they love Sansa. I am not that person.
I dislike show Sansa. She’s nothing like the charming, courteous book version. Show Sansa is rude, petulant, whiny and does not seem to understand that openly questioning her king again and again in front of the lords, undermines the position of that newly elected bastard king. She treats Jon like an idiot, mocks Davos, is rude and dismissive of Brienne and demands that Arya get down on her knees and thank her because she and only she won the BOTB. She has no friends or confidantes. The only two lords who supported her over Jon last season were described by Sansa herself as disloyal ‘weather vanes’. The only person who genuinely liked her and wanted her to be queen was LF and he’s dead.
My dislike for the character was cemented last season when she compared Jon to frigging Joffrey because he did not follow her orders and do what she wanted. Jon’s authority as King would have vaporized if he had done as she demanded in there. But because he forgave those Karstark and Umber children, Sansa was so angry with him here:
that she informs Jon that he was behaving like Joffrey when he requests that she not try to undermine him. Just think about that. Sansa thinks that Jon - who has only ever looked out for Sansa, who helped her and protected her - is like the king who beat her and took sadistic pleasure out of it! She compared this guy:
How petty and stupid does one have to be to make that comparison? Ugh!
Even Jon, who usually puts up with her horseshit, is so offended by this that he immediately stops walking and confronts her - forcing her to walk back that statement. Sansa realizes that she has overstepped and changes tact - trying to now praise Jon - but Jon sees through this and aptly describes her praise as a whole load of horseshit. People think Jon is an idiot, but he is not. He can see through what Sansa is doing. Having correctly identified how resentful she is that he was made KITN, he leaves her in charge when he goes south.
I am just tired of Sansa’s non-stop whinging in all her scenes with Jon. It’s unpleasant, annoying, boring and freaking repetitive. I just fast forward their season 6/7 scenes on rewatches because all they do is argue. Jon does not want your unsolicited advice Sansa!
If there is one thing I am hoping for next season it’s that Jon and Arya spend as few scenes as possible with Sansa. Sansa can become Queen of the North, Queen on the Iron Throne, Best Queen the world has ever seen for all I care. Just leave Jon and Arya out of it. I just want some Jon scenes where Jon spends time with his favorite sibling, his best friend, his dog, his girlfriend, his brother, his old pals and new ones.
How anyone can ship Sansa and Jon is beyond me. A Sansa fan who dislikes Jon? That I can understand and even sympathize with considering my dislike of show Sansa. A Sansa fan who ships Sansa with Jon? Totally baffling. They have nothing in common, they think too differently, Sansa has no problems lying to Jon and undermining him, Jon does not want or need Sansa’s ‘advice’ - the both of them would be far happier if they were far away from each other.
Which is why Sansa is going to be the one to suggest that Jon and Dany get married and leave the North to her. LF has already given her the hint for this last season - that line was in there for a reason.