Big Muscle Yessssss (That’s Not All I Post But Yessssss)

goes without saying, but we're 18+ here/// 29

[anaraso]

a man

[exophilia-interest757]

😍

[ace-trainer-alice]

I think broadly the essence of a certain kind of hypnokink is the idea of asserting control over a partner's thoughts and beliefs, in the same way traditional d/s can fixate on asserting control over a partner's body and behaviors. And while frequently this just means hypnosis, there's a really fun casual dimension to 'ordering your partner to think about something'. Or, more effectively and easily, telling it to not stop fantasizing about something until you give permission. It's cute.

[hobowolf]

Next round on Instagram. Come get me! 👊🏻

[999888777999-deactivated2025100]

“Why is that?”

[soundshypnotic]

So I’ve been asked for specifics prompted by this ask by @heidi-slave, and I thought I’d share them in a bigger post where I could elaborate more (thank you for the question/excuse to yammer on about my amazing partners being hot).

Pavlovian conditioning is classic, well known, and a really easy thing to leverage. If you start to mix this with hypnosis, power exchange, and the biological head fuck created by orgasm denial, you end up with the hairpin primed machine that is the human brain. (Honestly, the denial isn’t even required, it just speeds up the process and is an added bonus for me). After that all it takes is willingness and consistency.

I’ve had multiple male bodied partners who have dared to feed me the bullshit statement that nipple play for them would be impossible because, as everyone knows, that’s only sexually stimulating on female bodied people. I don’t think any of them ever got to walk away without ending up a total nipple slut to my memory. Lesson learned, and a great improvement to their attitude involving unlearning gendered bullshit over the course of our relationship.

As a control freak of a mindfucker, really there’s no particular thing that is to small for me to want to change in a person. I’ve mentioned before, and it remains true, that my interest in brainwashing and conditioning of my partners has nothing to do with wanting to change them specifically. That, if I like them enough to delve deeply into very long term altering behavior, I like them enough that I really don’t want them different. That’s not the point. So any change I’d make would really be for the sake of the power play, and likely be something that would be changed again at a different point. Examples being: I’ve played with temporarily giving partners a boot fetish (I got new boots and wanted to have them properly appreciated~). I had a play partner who told me no when I was being a brat and licking their nose (and we had a relationship that revolved around a lot of CNC and the negation of their ability to refuse me unless they were willing to safeword), so I made the licking of their nose into something that made them shiver down to their toes and moan embarrassingly audibly. One of my play partners finds pocket watches to be too stereotypical, and they have no real attraction toward them, so they are currently being conditioned to reset that belief to something more in line with my preferences. I’ve made spirals and hypnotic visuals mind melting to most of my partners I’ve had for any length of time, though never a one of them thus far was ever very susceptible to them when we first met, nor had any real pull toward them. I just like the image of slack jawed, blank eyed toys getting brainwashed by cheesy blinky lights. And, almost every single time, I’ve just through the way I play given each and every person who’s spent any real time with me a hypno fetish. Even if they had one prior, I’ve been told that it’s been made oh so much worse.

What can I say? I love playing with conditioning far too much. It’s so intimately hot to see someone bare that mark of trust and affection in their mind for so long. That, and I’m just a relentless control freak.

[ordr]

Wait what?? Bad dragon is selling nazi furries dicks?

Well that sucks I liked their toys.

yeah, bad dragon will do anything for a few extra pennies,

[smalltiddygothboyfriend]

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i’ve bought from several of these myself and i know they’re all well known and well acclaimed self owned toy makers. fuck bad dragon, get a way cooler and more ethical toy from any of these places. I esp love love love the ceela model from strange bedfellas but they and a lot of these places offer knotted toys, ovipositor toys, toys that have cum pumps, and of course monster dicks.

[bearyenby]

Neotori on Etsy is also fantastic, I have 3 sizes of their Mundir. It’s a knotted toy but the surface is VELVETY smooth which helps if you have more a more sensitive lining (like from testosterone, in my case).

[basalt-havic]

I didn’t compile this, it’s by @fewhoneydew (on Twitter and Reddit), but here is a very well maintained masterpost (links to a Google Doc) for those looking for Bad Dragon alternatives!

There is also @safefantasytoys which has a list, and @fantasypackerreviews if you’re looking for packers specifically (rather than toys).

[muttgrowls]

Vulpini Design is also a good one! Very quick response times when I had questions and quick shipping, as well as beautiful toys. The default firmness is perfect imo but you can customize that :)

[wrigglewormz]

Quite frankly yall need to be projecting more on the doms. Make the DOM have guilty sexual fantasies !!! Maybe the DOM is shamefully staring at the ceiling after waking up from a dream!!! Yall are cowards. Do none of you have any appreciation for the noble dom identity crisis. Do none of you have any respect for guilty sadists with control issues and who desperately want autonomy for once in their damn lives and who just want to Keep someone, for once, who want to be allowed to Want and Take . Do NONE of yall have any respect for sadists realizing with horror how badly they want to hurt the person they would do anything to protect and take care of and make smile? Cowards, all of you.

[feylingblooms]

there are many ways to hold a fae! just uhhhh maybe not the 3rd one

[angel-in-your-basement]

Having a crush on someone when you have fucked up kinks is so embarrassing bc you’re just like “wow they’re so cute I want them to get off on the way I cry while they fuck me”

[angel-in-your-basement]

Also highly recommend looking thru the reblogs on this one cause so many people add their own versions, and the dom / sadist versions especially just fuckin tickle me. I love y’all bunch of perverts

[angel-in-your-basement]

You folks get me

[tyrian-red]

my erotic fanfiction is more historically accurate than yours. here it claims that shes moaning 'yes,' however classical latin didn't have a word that corresponds to Modern English 'yes,' i.e. an affirmative answer to an interrogative. You could have easily avoided this glaring implausibility by allowing her to moan plus, 'more'—as exemplified in my critically acclaimed fic with an unprecedented number of kudos (eleven). I recommend that you log out of AO3 and return only after acquiring satisfactory knowledge of the subject matter.

[juunipupu]

Knight under Everything

[juunipupu]

Now available as prints and at-home print file

[cyberglittter]

kitty su by rielle oase

[ace-trainer-alice]

twirling my hair. wowww you have no idea how you're perceived and whenever anyone tells you anything about yourself you cling to it desperately for months? haha wanna come over to me without anyone accompanying you and listen to me tell you what you are until you believe it. adjusts my skirt and taps my fingers uncomfortably close to you. i just think it would be fun and like you'd enjoy it a lot.

[ace-trainer-alice]

twirling my hair. wowww you have no idea how you're perceived and whenever anyone tells you anything about yourself you cling to it desperately for months? haha wanna come over to me without anyone accompanying you and listen to me tell you what you are until you believe it. adjusts my skirt and taps my fingers uncomfortably close to you. i just think it would be fun and like you'd enjoy it a lot.

[ace-trainer-alice]

twirling my hair. wowww you have no idea how you're perceived and whenever anyone tells you anything about yourself you cling to it desperately for months? haha wanna come over to me without anyone accompanying you and listen to me tell you what you are until you believe it. adjusts my skirt and taps my fingers uncomfortably close to you. i just think it would be fun and like you'd enjoy it a lot.

[ace-trainer-alice]

twirling my hair. wowww you have no idea how you're perceived and whenever anyone tells you anything about yourself you cling to it desperately for months? haha wanna come over to me without anyone accompanying you and listen to me tell you what you are until you believe it. adjusts my skirt and taps my fingers uncomfortably close to you. i just think it would be fun and like you'd enjoy it a lot.

[ace-trainer-alice]

twirling my hair. wowww you have no idea how you're perceived and whenever anyone tells you anything about yourself you cling to it desperately for months? haha wanna come over to me without anyone accompanying you and listen to me tell you what you are until you believe it. adjusts my skirt and taps my fingers uncomfortably close to you. i just think it would be fun and like you'd enjoy it a lot.