Be my friend!

Willow | 18 | INTJ | They/She

[sadbabe2009]

concept: something that lasts, someone who stays

[tsuki-dono-7-deactivated2019102]

[malamente1992]

[moretherapy]

[sloucho]

Today’s sick day art

[dunkwillowsteus]

I dig your hair! It's so soft n thick and the cut fits you really well! I dig your steadiness, you are so resilient to bullshit and a rock for the people around you and I really really dig it!

Oh my gosh, thanks so much!! However you’re wrong about how I deal with bullshit I’m less like a rock and more like silly putty; but I do really try to be there for people to lean on so I’m really glad you think that.

[eh-is-no-longer-here]

Taurus Demon.

Hand painting stone is …. rather time consuming.

[exotic-venom]

(Atheris squamigera) variable bush viper

[cutereptiles]

Danger yawn. :]

[an-istant-of-nature]

🐍

[intergalactic-ashkenazi-deactiv]

can’t focus on a thing

gotta bounce The Leg

[idleisland]

[foggysuggestion]

blurry candids of your best friends laughing 

[dunkwillowsteus]

me: lets listen to some REAL music

me: *plays take on me by a-ha*

[apple-carts-deactivated20171115]

[rauhlablunt]

tell me something u dig about me on anon

[needypeachygirl-deactivated2024]

please!!

[wildshrike]

HEY. PEOPLE WHO ARE BINDING YOUR CHESTS, LISTEN UP FOR LIKE FIFTEEN SECONDS.

THIS IS WHAT CAN POTENTIALLY HAPPEN IF YOU IMPROPERLY BIND WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG, OR PROBABLY IF YOU DO IT LONGTERM EVER.

DO NOT DO THIS.

when i was a wee transchild of fourteen, recently out and generally clueless, i didn’t know that there were real binders to use. so, like many young trans dudes, i used a 6" ace bandage - and it worked, for what i wanted. it was hot and uncomfortable and squeezy, but my chest was flat, so i didn’t care.

then, a year or so later, i found out about real binders, but they were expensive. at 14, with no income, despite my parents support… i couldn’t justify asking for a 30 dollar binder, so i didn’t. it wasn’t til a trip to a waterpark that i finally got my first real binder and stopped using the ace bandage.

that was ten years ago.

my ribs are permanently deformed and you can see the exact curve of the bottom line of my makeshift binder, to this day. me and Weird Rib, destined to be together forever.

please please please PLEASE do not bind with ace bandages. use sports tape on both sides and not wrapped around your chest. use sports bras. layer. buy a real binder - underworks is where i get mine and i hope other people who bind can reblog and add links and resources because i currently can’t! i know firsthand the desperation that comes with gender dysphoria and i understand the need to bind. i really, truly do - it is a core part of my presentation and i do not leave the house without binding, and i’m sure it’s similar for many of you.

but please, do it SAFELY. you will regret it if you don’t.

[that-sarah-is-such-a-cumberbitch]

Reblogging for those who need it

[prohoetips]

For my followers who bind - there is real danger in using ace bandages. Please please don’t do this. Use proper techniques and proper equipment if you can afford it. There are a multitude of other health risks that come with binding improperly. Be safe.

[nlkjbkhvjucgkyfxjtd]

pls support trans girls and trans women who like traditionally masculine things

[nlkjbkhvjucgkyfxjtd]

no seriously please reblog this ive seen so many posts saying to support trans boys and trans men who like traditionally feminine things and those posts are good!! i love them!!

but i have never in my life seen a post saying to support masculine trans girls and trans women or trans girls and trans women who like traditionally masculine things and its really important to understand that showing support for trans women in any form is just as important as showing support for trans men so please, please reblog this.

support trans women and trans girls. support trans women and trans girls who like traditionally masculine things. trans women and trans girls who like traditionally masculine things are not any less valid than trans women and trans girls who don’t!!