floating adrift in a myriad of unknown

✦ cdd system || bodily early 20s ✦ 🇵🇭 Loveless & Lovequeer Aspec 🏳️‍⚧️ --- [Banner ID: clouds in dusky hues of purple. /end ID] [Pfp ID: same image as banner, but with the silhouette of a flower at its center. /end ID]

[duskandcloudy]

☁ about ☁

✦ Dusky | CDD System | Bodily Early 20s | They/It ✦

AuDHD Queer Aro Nonbinary

Loveless Aspec & Lovequeer Aspec

Non-Monogamous & Polyamorous

Relationship Anarchist

this blog is managed by Ascel (it/xey/ve) and several others !

o/ ! hi hello, welcome howdy !!

We're the Dusk&Cloudy System (⚫☁ ) - though we're cool with just being called Dusky ! :)

this blog was made to get more comfortable with and explore our own experiences as a system- and maybe find more folks to relate to !

we switch loosely between we/I pronouns! feel free to alternate between either when referring to us :]

those who choose to use sign-offs will be marked with either an emote or by name, and will be tagged onto this post if desired o7

all posts made- including asks, will be tagged with #⚫☁ post !

content warnings will be tagged as either "example" or "example cw" - with "example" being replaced with the specified trigger.

!! check out our cool system mutuals ! -> @/the-council-system-did <2

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[duskandcloudy]

pural

[duskandcloudy]

plurality when the time travels. #plime pluravel

[polyfrag-culture-is]

Polyplural culture is a lot of “I don’t knowwwwwww”s

[duskandcloudy]

something funny about this system is that - sometimes someone will turn off a physical receptor for a prolonged period of time long enough for some of us to slowly come in from the back like: "😬 why does everything hurt. guys . yall ."

[positivitygenic]

being plural is not a claim to anything else aside from being plural. the misconceptions people have of you don't really matter at the end of the day, as you know yourselves and your experiences best. you deserve to be listened to about who you say you are.

[heartbloom-manor]

“DID needs childhood trauma to have formed”

Yes, but also

“What is traumatic to a child may not seem traumatic to an adult”

A kids brain has no logbook comparing their stress to someone else’s. All it knows is that it’s under severe stress.

[polyfrag-culture-is]

polyfrag culture is having like 100 members logged but an unknown amount of members (at least several thousand in our case) who aren't logged at all

Yeagh

[the-indigo-symphony]

There should be a version of coffee specifically for plurals that has the added effect of un-blurring you in the morning. That'd wake me up more than caffeine would, I'm sure

[semiplural]

Memory

Memory is weird.

[duskandcloudy]

haha remember that ask game we reblogged uhh (checks time)

many months ago .

(oop.)

[musithical]

having the brain go "nope" when accidentally stumbling across a memory you arent supposed to know about is like the mental equivalent of walking face first into a glass door

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

There’s something so uniquely terrifying about memory issues. I feel like my self is slipping away from me.

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

Here’s the thing I feel like a lot of folks don’t get: I’m not trying to forget what you said. Honestly, I really tried not to. I can’t control what I do and don’t remember—forgetting things just happens. It’s annoying for you, I know, but for me it’s distressing as hell and when you make a big deal out of it rather than just reminding me you make me feel ashamed. I’ll remember that, at least.

It costs you nothing to be kind to people with memory problems. Please. It’s scary enough without people treating memory lapses as a personal failing.

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

Hey, reblog this version instead, please!

[the-council-system-did]

I can count my headmates on one hand!

*starts counting the lines on my palm* one, two, three, four...

[the-council-system-did]

Hmm... maybe I can't count my headmates on one hand...

[positivitygenic]

systems of every origin deserve safe spaces to be openly themselves, including in spaces that aren't system oriented. you have a right to exist as you are and to be respected just like everyone else.

[willgrahamscock]

sorry about not replying I think I’ve gone missing

[krentle]

@funnier-as-a-system

[thotsfortherapy]

for those of you who need to hear it: processing your trauma takes time. you can't force yourself to "get over" something overnight, and you can't will healing into existence. that can be so so frustrating, but being hard on yourself isn't going to help the process: giving yourself time and space and forgiveness is.